The Trust & Thrust Podcast

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit bastienne.substack.com Hello Fellow Perverts! I solved a 10 YEAR KINK MYSTERY with the help of a friend. Also * ANNOUNCING * I’m doing a hedonistic, lesbionic, utterly Fem-Dominant, gorgeous, winter Niagara getaway with a Domme friend in early February 🎁❄️ very limited availability, regulars prioritzied, apply via our websites if you’r...

Hello Fellow Perverts! In this very special episode, I’m joined by fellow Pro Domme, Siren Thorn! We sit down and chat about lots of different subjects after a lovely duo session. xo Bastienne PS. if the video doesn’t work for you here in the substack app, try this one . If you’re just looking for audio, enjoy the one below :) This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subs...

Hello Fellow Perverts! It’s summer time and the living’s easy, especially if you’re strapped into my German medical bondage! Check it out on YouTube here . Bondage fans - rejoice! Not for the faint of heart or for the faint of… fart 💨😎 I’ve also been enjoying a lovely influx of ABDL sessions these last few months. One of which actually led to a fun, new role play which I detail here in my latest...

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit bastienne.substack.com Hello Fellow Perverts! A subby recently told me something to the effect of - “even though you warned me over and over that it was coming, my feelings were still hurt and I almost didn’t come back to see you.” When I heard that I knew I wanted to document my real life failed D/s relationships of 2023. Communication...

Christmas is one of the most high pressure and depressing times of the year for a lot of people. There’s financial and familial expectations that easily turn the whole season into a massive bummer. As a person who was raised as an atheist, I’ve actually never celebrated Christmas until the last few years. In 2018, I decided to reclaim Christmas morning by renting out Studio Ludus, a dungeon in Nor...

Hello Fellow Perverts! Hope you're staying kinky and cute and there’s something currently in your boot(ie). Things are changing at The Wiggle Room, slowly but surely including a new room being accessible in the next few months. In this episode, I talk about Americans and have a revelation about respect that kind of runs through the whole episode. I’m looking for fart, ballbusting and wedgie subs!...

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit bastienne.substack.com Hello Fellow Perverts! I’ve returned with more revelations! This episode is all about healthy compartmentalization versus destructive secrecy in kink (and in life). There’s a LOT of mental homework to keep up with as an adult with any level of responsibility - I think it’s fair to say, we all get overwhelmed and l...

WHOOP WHOOP! 🥳 This is my 100TH - FREAKING - EPISODE! As I giant dork for podcasts, please allow me to indulge in my longest ramble yet! A big nerdy, meta trip down podcast lane. In this episode I talk about why I started this podcast, my parasocial proclivities and, of course, a run down of my most listened to episodes here on substack from the last 2 years. The top 10 countdown starts at around...

Aspasia is back! We recorded this right after a duo session that involved a thoroughly abused piñata! We talk about our shared love of using humour in kink and the internet’s affect on negotiation. We discuss active submission and the effort that goes into giving up control. There’s some expectation management talk about not getting ahead of yourself (and ourselves!) while planning a session, havi...

In the audio, I simply introduce Aspasia as my domination duo partner but she is so much more! Professional, experienced, Toronto Dominatrix, creative kinkster, sadist and ravenous lover of the absurd. Aspasia is fist deep into life. She started as a professional Domme in 2005 and she has a wild and wondrous collection of stories to show for it. We talk about our shared history as ‘golden latte’ p...

This story seems to impress many submissives - I’ve even made a few people a wee bit misty-eyed with this one - so I figured I’d share it here. This is the tale of how I met my partner, slave Honnu. Yep, I met him in a ballbusting session a few years ago and we’ve been together ever since. Just in reference to the audio (and a bit of an Easter egg for anyone who’s ever wondered): the name ‘slave h...