The Things That Come Between Us with Charu Morgan

I can usually tell within one session whether a couple is going to make it through a hard time. Not because of what they're fighting about. Because of two specific things that are either present or missing. In this episode I explain how to check for those signs in your own relationship, what defensive patterns look like, and when professional support can help repair communication and let love lead...

Sometimes what feels like honesty is actually reactivity. There's a kind of honesty I want to talk about that's harder to reach, but it's the kind that actually builds connection instead of shutting it down. In this episode I talk about the difference between reactive honesty, the "you always do this" kind, and this deeper, more vulnerable honesty. I walk through a simple shift in how you speak to...

What does it actually take to repair after we’ve hurt someone we love? In this episode, I share a simple, compassionate framework for navigating hard conversations and helping the person we love feel heard, understood, and cared for. Relationships are messy, repair can be clunky, and my hope is that these tools can help us find our way back to each other with a little more ease.

In this episode, I explain who this work is for and walk you through what happens during sessions with me, whether with couples or individuals. I outline how I use embodiment, gentle communication techniques, and targeted sexual and sensual practices to help people reconnect with their bodies, their partners, and their capacity for pleasure.  

I'm a genuinely kind and loving person. I have great capacity for clear communication and I have done SO SO SO much 'inner work'.... what could possibly be going wrong in my relationships? Well, in this episode, I'm gonna tell you. This is a great episode for anyone who can relate to having done all that 'work', anyone who may feel they are the more 'skilled' partner in their relationships (I'm in...

What has shaped your sex life? The WAY you make love? What if there is territory yet to be explored that you haven't accessed only because it never occurred to you to approach your partner in new ways? In this episode I speak in detail about some very simple things you can try with your lover to incorporate their whole body and expand the possibilities for pleasure for both of you. Can't wait for...

Do you find yourself experiencing the same things in relationship even with different partners over time?  Are you having the same fight over and over with your partner? Are you noticing the overlap between how you felt within a family dynamic happening in your romantic relationship? This is so so normal... in fact, perhaps part of intimate relationship is experiencing similar things that we once...

Does it ever feel like some of the relationships in your life just drain you? Like somehow you feel better when you are away from that family member, friend or partner...even though you love them so so much?  Maybe you even feel like your bond with this person is so special and the kind of intimacy you have with them is like no other... even though you can't shake the drained feeling? I get it. In...

Long-term relationship. It sure does have it’s ups and downs. We all know that’s kinda to be expected… ..and yet the thing I hear the most is ‘we’ve lost our spark’… followed by a lot of comparison to what they once had or what other couples have.   It’s so so normal to think something is WRONG when our sexual connection changes… and to try to get back that ever-elusive ‘spark’.   I’m here to shar...

What if there is a whole world to lovemaking that most of us are not even aware of? Something that takes the experience in a completely direction. What if lovemaking could arise from expansion, relaxation and unfolding? What if the stories we have been told about a hard cock and a tight pussy being the best of the best when it comes to sex actually don't include the whole picture? How might that c...

In this episode we explore what devotion might mean and how bringing it into our relationships could possibly change the texture of what we share in our partnerships. How it might be an opportunity to bring more nourishment and love in new ways… We also talk about what happens IF when you think about bringing devotion to your partner you feel a ‘no’… or when giving or receiving so much brings up c...

What does it take to grow in love and sex within your partnership?   No one has talked to us about what it actually takes to have a partnership that really lights us up and keep us excited and inspired....and yet, that's what so many of us long for.   It's like a destination we crave, but we have no map.   In this episode we talk about: What we have been prioritizing and why (and how it may be tak...

Tired of having the same old orgasms? I have good news! New orgasms are waiting for you just around the corner! I’m kidding… sort of. Like with so many things, our culture has flattened how we understand and define orgasm. It has defined it as one thing, when, in my experience, it is a FULL SPECTRUM to explore. In this episode we journey that spectrum to open our minds to discovering what our bodi...

The topic I’ve been asked to speak about the most since I started this podcast is PORN. Before I even begin to explore this topic, I want to be very clear that I am NOT against porn. The view I hold is that the most important thing is… what does your relationship to porn feel like for you? Is it creating inspiration and bringing things to you and your partner or is it taking something away? Over t...

Men, I want you to have the most amazing sex, the deepest sex, the most exciting and inspiring sex, the most connected sex! I want you to be engaging in sex that is inspiring and exciting not only for you, and for the sensations in your body, but also for your partner. I want your partner to be inspired and excited about the way that you approach them and what you bring into the bedroom. To that e...

What happens when your partner is shut down to your advances? When you haven’t made love in so long, and you are getting frustrated, but you seem to just be coming up against a dead-end with them? Is this something you’ve experienced? Have you been on the OTHER side of it? Feeling your partner coming towards you sexually, maybe in a way that isn’t working for you or you just don’t have the bandwid...

GREAT sex, like truly otherworldly, mind-blowing, life-changing sex is borne out of true intimacy and connection. We find that kind of intimacy and connection when we untangle what we have been hiding behind or protecting ourselves with…. When we can identify why we haven’t been feeling ‘safe’ to open to our partner, when we can work together to untangle dynamics and allow for vulnerability. Vulne...

What is your partner trying to tell you that you aren’t hearing? Are you noticing that your partner has been easily upset about little things? Escalating situations that really didn’t have to be that big a deal? Or have they been distant? Pulled back and you can feel a quiet seething in the energy when you are around them? Maybe it feels frustrating, annoying… maybe you feel like you are losing th...

For many of us, we have never thought to investigate where our ideas about sex have come from and what we might truly enjoy if we could have ANYTHING… In this episode we explore, ‘who am I beyond what the culture has taught me about sex? Beyond outside sources that have defined my sexual experience? What is sexual pleasure is for ME from the inside out?  What if I get to define who I am sexually f...

I absolutely celebrate whole-heartedly when a man is dedicated to making sure the woman he’s with orgasms every time. Thank you to those men… AND I’ve worked with more than one couple where his desire to give her pleasure has actually created stress for her. She starts to feel obligated to cum for him and her body is less and less relaxed and in her own unfolding of pleasure. In this episode we ex...

Even when we have great communication with our partner and/or an amazing foundation of love, trust and care, there can still be good reason to create immersive time to connect with no sexual pressure. In this episode, we will explore hidden cultural threads of how we think we are supposed to behave and why that might be getting in the way of the pleasure we desire. Do you see yourself in these epi...

1. Yay for our first episode!! Diving into podcasting with a crappy mic, but some great insights!    In this episode we talk about:   - What we tend to do in relationships that makes them more difficult. - Things we may be doing to escalate challenges with our partner unconsciously. - What you CAN do instead of trying to change your partner's behavior. - One reason your partner is so reactive when...