The Self-Hype Podcast

We are going LIVE! That is right. This week Eli answers real peoples, real questions, all in real time. Where he goes on answers questions on cheaters, avoidant attached men and how to re-gain self-respect after being disrespected and taken advantage of.    Work w/ Eli:   https://selfhype.biz/innerwork   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazq...

This week I sit down Ashley from Her Money Mastery who fought her way as a broke single teen mother to a 6-figure net worth through the use of lifestyle-based budgeting, and now has helped thousands of other women do the same. We talk about the importance of finances, empowerment with your money, how to get started in investing and so much more!    Learn more about Her Money Mastery And Work With...

This week on the podcast, Eli breaks down the questions to ask in the early stages of dating. Why emotional self-awareness and accountability is so crucial and how not to get caught up in a someone's performative state to win you over. All so you know if he's Mr. Right.    Free 30 Minute Masterclass: https://selfhype.biz/fboyquestions   Work w/ Eli:   https://selfhype.biz/innerwork   Follow The Po...

This week I talk with former multi-platinum artists manager, creative werido who has helped thousands by his mental models and frameworks to help leverage divergent thinking and maximise potential. We breakdown burnout, how to be your most authentic version of you and how to take chances in life based on curiosity vs. criticism to yourself.    Learn More About Jake Here: https://www.creativehacker...

This week Eli shares about his healing era and what lessons he learned along the way that helped him fall in love with the journey. From how to take accountability, set new boundaries and create intentional memories. He walks you through how to turn your solitude into a home to building a better sense of self and confidence.    Want To Join Eli's Coaching Community? https://selfhype.biz/innerwork...

Eli reflects on his all things avoidant attachment. From early stages of dating, the relationship and more. Using his own personal experiences and examples to hold you accountable in navigating love w/ an avoidant man.    Want To Join Eli's Coaching Program? Click Here: https://selfhype.biz/innerwork   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazque...

This week I sit down with renowned relationship coach and matchmaker Aleeza Ben Shalom, who shot to international fame as the star of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking. She is also the host of the “Matchmaker, Matchmaker” podcast. To date, she has successfully helped over 200 people make their way down the aisle, and has trained over 350 matchmakers and coaches. We talk about her latest book, hard trut...

This week I sit down with attachment and relationship coach Cybele Safadi where we dive into all things attachment, love and her story. We break down her style of content  on dissecting pop culture and how it reflect to our every day lives while giving us valuable perspective on healing ourselves and navigating the dating game in the digital era.   Learn More About Cybele And Take Her Attachment S...

It is our first episode of 2025 and we are starting off strong with what boundaries and non-negotiables to bring into the new year for transforming your life! Eli goes into some hard truth bombs and realizations to how to hold yourself accountable in the new year to create new actions in your resolutions that stick. All to make you have the most abundant 2025 ever!    Want To Join Eli's Coaching P...

Eli reflects on his personal healing journey and the upcoming stressors of the TikTok Ban. Eli deep dives on some hard truth bombs while using his real life examples and personal experiences as examples. He shares the fears and vulnerabilities and highlights the importance of self-awareness, emotional accountability, and shedding societal pressures to create a life of fulfillment. Eli encourages l...

Eli reflects on his personal journey from being a self-proclaimed bachelor to embracing the idea of settling down and building a meaningful partnership. He shares the fears and vulnerabilities that kept him from committing in the past and highlights the importance of self-awareness, emotional accountability, and shedding societal pressures to create a life of fulfillment. Eli encourages listeners...

In Episode 35 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vazquez sits down with Dr. Emily Jamea, a renowned sex and relationship therapist, to explore the connection between intimacy, emotional connection, and personal growth. They discuss how sexual satisfaction evolves over time, the impact of attachment styles on intimacy, and the importance of communication and vulnerability in fostering healthy relation...

This week Eli sits down with Dr. Sarah Hensley, a social psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss attachment styles and how they influence dating dynamics. Dr. Hensley shares   Want To Work With Eli Through His Coaching Courses, 1:1 Calls And More? Click Here: https://stan.store/elivazquez   Follow Eli And Watch Full Eps And Clips Of The Pod: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://i...

In this week's episode, Eli tackles the reasons why many people keep dating the same toxic partners and emphasizes the importance of self-accountability and personal growth in the dating process. He urges listeners to examine their patterns and the love they're used to versus the love they truly need, stressing the necessity of building a fulfilling life outside of relationships. Eli discusses how...

Eli welcomes Kim Guera, a writer, therapist, and entrepreneur known for her brand Badass Bonita and her advocacy in self-love and community empowerment. The episode delves into themes of self-discovery and breaking silence, with Kim sharing her personal journey of overcoming the imposed silence of her childhood through the power of writing and speaking out. She discusses her evolution from feeling...

In this week's episode Eli explores the age-old question, "Can a man change?" and delivers some hard truths for listeners, particularly women who hope to see their partners transform for them. He emphasizes that true change in a man must come from within, driven by self-awareness and personal growth, rather than from external pressures or relationships. Eli shares his own experiences of evolving t...

Eli sits down with his first therapist, Maritza Palacencia, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to explore the complexities of relationships, trauma, and healing. The episode delves into the challenges of navigating triggers within partnerships, the significance of radical honesty, and the importance of therapy in fostering intimacy and growth. Eli reflects on his own therapeutic journey and...

Eli Vasquez tackles the concept of "no contact" after a breakup, passionately arguing that it's a necessary step for proper healing rather than an option to reconsider. Eli emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, blocking ex-partners, and focusing on self-growth to avoid the pitfalls of lingering attachments. Through personal reflections and practical advice, he encourages listeners to em...

Eli dives into the world of overachievers, perfectionists, and people pleasers, welcoming Masha Kay, a nervous system and breathwork coach, as his guest. Masha shares her personal journey from being an actuarial scientist, driven by the need to overachieve, to embracing a path of wellness coaching. She discusses how a life-changing car accident and the realization that her career was unfulfilling...

Eli discusses the phenomenon of ghosting in dating, exploring the reasons behind why people ghost and how to handle it with resilience and self-respect. He emphasizes that ghosting reflects more about the ghoster's character than the recipient's worth, advocating for self-worth and proper closure from such experiences. Eli also tackles how to move forward after being ghosted, urging listeners to s...

Eli explores the complex dynamics of returning to a previous relationship, particularly focusing on the psychological aspects of reconciliation. He discusses the common reasons men return and the emotional baggage that might accompany such decisions. Eli advises listeners on how to discern whether a returning partner genuinely seeks to amend the relationship or simply finds it a convenient option....

Eli answers community questions, providing candid and insightful advice on various aspects of love, dating, and personal growth. He tackles topics ranging from how to deal with trust issues on first dates to understanding whether someone you're dating is seeing other people. Eli's responses are both humorous and profound, offering practical tips and emotional wisdom to help listeners navigate thei...

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Unlock early releases, exclusive content, and the chance to ask Eli questions for potential on-air answers by joining our Patreon community! https://www.patreon.com/selfhype     Want to Work With Madison? Click Here:   https://www.instagram.com/madisonciccone/ https://madisonciccone.com/ Want To Work With Eli And Join His Community? Click Here: https://linktr.ee/elivazquez1   Watch this podcast ri...

Unlock early releases, exclusive content, and the chance to ask Eli questions for potential on-air answers by joining our Patreon community! https://www.patreon.com/selfhype Want To Work With Eli And Join His Community? Click Here: https://linktr.ee/elivazquez1   Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/YYBbgMc7xjo   In Episode 22 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vasquez tackles th...