SELEMA

THE SE POD

This is a podcast on dating, relationships, self care and brokenness. It is for the grown, unapologetic and unhealed individual. I want to help you connect back to your core and eventually date better partners.

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SELEMA

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Education

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Neueste Folge

27. Jun 2026

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DATING 101: DO YOU KNOW HOW TO DATE? 27.06.2026

Modern dating is not as simplistic as; boy meets girl. To be able to date in this generation I think it is important for first accept that a lot of women were never taught how and to also accept that the shame now attached to dating cannot be your reality if you truly desire romantic companionship. In this episode, I talk about what you are doing wrong in dating and tell you why I consider it to b...

THE COST OF ENTRY 17.06.2026

Relationships are conditional. Love on the other hand is unconditional. At least it should be. Every relationship has a price. One that both genders pay. I think it is dishonest to say one gender gets no conditions attached from the beginning. This episode goes into my thought process about relationships being unconditional.

FEMININITY IN RELATIONSHIPS: A MAN'S POV 17.03.2026

In this episode, Tam and I talk about femininity in relationships and how it can play out. We work through some bits of hyper independence and when it requires the man to stay or take a bow. Enjoy!

MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIPS AND WHY WITH IVIE 08.03.2026

In this episode, Ivie and I get together to discuss why women should choose marriage, qualities to look out for and a bit of how we met. Enjoy!

THE UNDERSTANDING WIFE 26.06.2025

In this episode, we tell the chilling story of a woman who chose herself and freedom just in time. TRIGGER WARNING: RAPE, ABUSE

FROM ABUSE TO HEALTHY: A MAN'S PERSPECTIVE 15.02.2025

In this episode, I talk about being in an abusive relationship as a man, healing from it, staying single and the lessons learnt. We dive into him finally getting into a healthy relationship and what parts of him his current relationship has healed. Enjoy!

BANTS, RANTS, DATING STORY TIME AND LESSONS 02.02.2025

In this episode, I talk about a date I went on a while ago. I give my two cents on the Annie idibia story, highlight a creator on TikTok and say happy new year!

STOP CHASING: MEN ARE NOT COMPLICATED 08.12.2024

In this episode, I talk about chasing men, stepping out of your feminine into roles that are none of your business and I tell a story of how not believing dating rules exist is keeping you in terrible situations.

LOVE OR LIMERENCE ? 04.12.2024

In this episode, I define love and limerence. I also challenge you to step into deep introspection questioning which one of these two have kept you bound to situations you should not have been bound to.

HIGH VALUE: MEN AND WOMEN 03.08.2024

In this highly requested episode, I define what High Value is for both genders as I have been asked a lot. I hope this helps you put both things into perspective.

TALKING STAGES MAIN 26.07.2024

In this episode, we are talking about talking stages, where the line should be, having the audacity to demand what you should and spotting the red flags that are not so obvious.

TALKING STAGES INTRO. 26.07.2024

Talking stages, telling men off and paying attention to the seeming little things that are often ignored.

FOR THE PLOT: THE NARCISSIST 26.07.2024

In this episode, I gist you guys about dating for the plot and ignoring red flags for the story I'll have to tell lmaooooooo

HYPER-INDEPENDENCE: TRAUMA OR NOT 14.05.2024

In this episode, I talk about hyper-independence and if you are operating out of your trauma or not. Are you tired of trying to prove a point or do you enjoy the dynamics hyper independence has you in.

UNDERSTANDING GIRLFRIEND 26.04.2024

In this episode, I talk to Loveth about her past relationship and being an understanding babe. We touch lightly about her being emotionally abused and self abandonment. Enjoy!

A GUIDE TO VETTING: THE FLING 14.04.2024

In this episode, I break down the characteristics of a man who can be classified as a fling and use a TV show as an example.

EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE 12.03.2024

In this episode, I give a different perspective on choosing emotionally unavailable partners and challenge you to look inwards first. Enjoy!

ASK SELEMA: Communication tips, Dating and Being Approached 08.03.2024

In this episode, I answer questions and give tips on how to improve your communication with your man if you want the best out of him.

A GUIDE TO VETTING: THE HUSBAND 08.03.2024

In this 3 part episode, I breakdown why you keep struggling with dating the men who do not offer what you want and how to Vet for the men that are worth being in commitments with. Enjoy!

ASK SELEMA: Dating, Attraction, Coming of Age 04.03.2024

In this episode, i answer questions from my audience on instagram and drop some coming of age gems. I will make a part 2 for this as the questions were alot. Enjoy!

GENERATIONS AND TRAUMA 03.03.2024

In this episode, i talk about trauma and how it can affect generations if nothing is done. I share a personal story and experience with trauma and how to begin your journey back to self. Enjoy1

INTRO 29.02.2024

This is not a podcast for the humble or apologetic. I will give you gold digger advice lol. If you want to Date Better partners? You need to be listening to me. Welcome to THE SE POD

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