The Pleasure Files

Click here to send me a message :) Who knew how much tongue function could be connected to pleasure and sensation in the body? I don’t think I’m alone in thinking that tongues are super sexy. Soft, warm, wet, kissing, licking… oh my! Jessica Miller has been on a bit of a journey with her tongue, from 25% tongue function into her late 30s, to healing into full tongue mobility. This episode explores...

Click here to send me a message :) Have you ever been to a burlesque performance and wondered if those sexy performances get temperatures rising on the stage as well as in the audience?  Koko La Douce is Germany’s longest performing burlesque artist, and a proud award winner of the Burlesque Hall of Fame in Las Vegas.  She is a self-confessed bird of paradise and is on the pod to talk about arousa...

Click here to send me a message :) Have you ever thought about what it would be like if you hadn’t ever had sex with anyone else? And then as an adult, it was something that you wanted to try out? Elsa joins me to talk about whether or not is possible to have turn on and orgasm, if you have never had sex with anyone else. Elsa has asked to remain anonymous, as this is a vulnerable conversation!! I...

Click here to send me a message :) This might not be the topic that you expect to thing about when you think about pleasure: knitting, crochet, weaving, sewing... really? But there is pleasure here as well.  Lesley Joiner joins me to talk about the pleasure and turn on that she finds in using her hands to make beautiful things.  This is a fun conversation that might not be what you would expect, i...

Click here to send me a message :) For this first episode, I am in the hot seat, as my friend and colleague Katie Farrell helps kick off this podcast with the question ‘Why do you talk about pleasure and sex so much, anyway?’. We take a detour past the importance of expanding out what pleasure means for each of us (desire, joy, delight, turn on, arousal, orgasm…), and I share about the power of fe...