The Parenting Cipher

Are you planning a summer adventure to an amusement park but worried about how to make the experience accessible and enjoyable for your child with disabilities? This episode dives deep into the essential tools, systems, and mindsets families need to know before heading out for summer fun—so you can spend more time making memories and less time feeling overwhelmed. The conversation focused on the v...

Why do I always put my kids first — until I am completely drained and barely recognize myself? ABOUT THIS EPISODE Burnout sneaks up on Black and brown parents raising neurodiverse kids. There’s this pressure to grind, stay strong, and ignore your own needs while holding everything together for your family. But exhaustion is not just part of life; it's a warning sign that your body and mind can’t b...

Why is homework such a battle at the end of the year—especially when my child is already struggling, and the school's answers don't add up? ABOUT THIS EPISODE Homework always gets harder in the last weeks of school, not because our kids are lazy, but because their brains and bodies are tired from months of pushing through systems that rarely meet their needs. For Black and brown parents raising ne...

Why does my Black autistic or anxious child’s school anxiety get worse every spring, and nothing the school suggests actually helps? ABOUT THIS EPISODE Spring is when many of our kids’ anxiety spikes, and the usual school advice is not made for Black and brown neurodiverse families. For children with an autism or anxiety diagnosis, the end of the year is a pressure cooker. Family fears, generation...

Why does my neurodiverse child start shutting down, acting out, or refusing work when we’re so close to the end of the school year? ABOUT THIS EPISODE When your child seems to hit a wall in the final weeks of school, it’s not a character flaw or your failure as a parent. Their brains have been in overdrive all year, working harder than most people realize just to keep up — and by May, the tank is...

In this special bonus episode, I’m sharing a spoken-word piece created just for The Parenting Cipher community — a moment of calm in a season that can feel loud, rushed, and overwhelming for our neurodivergent kids and for us as parents. “We Slow the Season Down” is a reminder that even when the world moves too fast, we have the power to create space, steady the pace, and protect our children’s pe...

Do you find yourself worrying that your child’s academic progress—and your own parenting—are being measured only by grades and big milestones? In this heartfelt episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins explores how parents can recognize and celebrate the quieter wins, support their children’s unique strengths, and give themselves grace—all while navigating the pressures of expectations at ho...

Have you ever felt lost or anxious when your child gets sick—especially when trying to navigate the healthcare system as the parent of a neurodiverse or minority child? Wondering how to advocate confidently for your child’s medical needs or open doors that support their long-term success, from managing acute illness to exploring STEM careers? In this powerful episode of The Parenting Cipher , Geni...

Ever wonder how you can keep your neurodiverse child regulated and happy amid the overstimulation, social pressures, and chaos of the holiday season? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins shares her personal journey of navigating holiday triggers, family microaggressions, and anxiety—while empowering parents with practical tools to help their neurodiverse kids find calm during pot...

Are you wondering if a micro school could finally be the answer to your child’s need for a truly personalized and joyful learning experience—especially if you’ve watched them struggle or feel invisible in traditional classrooms? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, host Genie Dawkins sits down with Nicole Stewart Jones, founder and president of the National Association of Black Micro School Le...

Are you wondering what the 2025 shakeup in Special Education means for your child’s IEP—and how to protect the services and rights they desperately need? In this episode, Genie Dawkins breaks down the sweeping changes on the horizon, from federal policy shifts to state law surprises, and gives you the must-have strategies to keep your family ahead in the IEP fight. From the threat of dismantling t...

In this episode of The Parenting Cipher , host Genie Dawkins returns with powerful honesty and clarity, reflecting on the personal and policy-level challenges facing parents—especially Black families raising neurodiverse children—in a shifting America. Genie shares her experiences as a single mom navigating school journeys, special education, and a rapidly changing landscape of educational protect...

Have you ever watched your child struggle with Halloween costumes, loud noises, or unpredictable sights and wondered, “Is Halloween supposed to be this overwhelming for neurodiverse kids?” In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, host Genie Dawkins unpacks the sensory challenges that come with Halloween and offers real-life solutions so your family can enjoy a safe, comfortable, and fun celebratio...

Have you ever felt overwhelmed advocating for your child's education, juggling family life, and maintaining your own health? In this empowering episode, Genie Dawkins reflects on her 2024 advocacy journey and shares actionable steps to help parents create impactful advocacy goals for 2025. From transitioning her son between educational settings to addressing challenges like inadequate special educ...

Are you looking for ways to make homework time more enjoyable for your child and turn it into a positive experience for the whole family? In this episode, Genie Dawkins shares creative methods to transform homework from a stressful task into a fun and engaging activity. By using music, games, and a playful attitude, parents can create a joyful environment that fosters learning and builds special m...

Are you finding it challenging to set and support educational goals for your child? In this episode, Genie Dawkins delves into practical strategies for parents to help their children achieve their academic goals by maintaining clear communication and ensuring they receive necessary accommodations. Episode Summary : In this episode we explore the common challenges parents face with evening school e...

Are you wondering how to effectively communicate your child's unique needs to their school and establish consistent routines? In this episode, Genie Dawkins dives deep into practical strategies for parents to advocate for their children, especially those with neurodiverse needs. From securing necessary accommodations to setting up productive after-school routines, Genie uses her personal experienc...

Have you ever wondered how to set the tone for effective communication with your child's school, especially when your child has special education needs? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins shares her personal experiences and strategies for creating a constructive dialogue with teachers and school staff. Genie emphasizes the importance of faith, empowerment, and inward change as...

Are you trying to figure out how to prepare your neurodiverse child for the upcoming school year? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins covers essential back-to-school preparation and organization tips aimed at supporting neurodiverse children and their families. Genie dives deep into creating checklists, organizing school supplies, and preparing both mentally and physically for a...

Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed in your parenting journey, wondering if your dedication to your children is also causing you to lose touch with yourself? In this episode, Tanika Ray and Genie Dawkins dive deep into the balance of self-care and motherhood, the concept of invisible labor, and how conscious parenting can save lives. Episode Summary: Genie Dawkins opens up about feeling disc...

Are you wondering how to ease your special needs child's transition back to school and manage their anxieties effectively? In this episode, Genie Dawkins dives deep into preparing for the upcoming school year, providing essential strategies for parents of special needs children. She shares personal experiences, thoughtful advice, and practical tips to help make the transition as smooth as possible...

Wondering How to Maintain a Summer Routine While Keeping Your Sanity?  In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins shares valuable insights on curating a balanced and engaging summer schedule for kids, without compromising parents' well-being. From managing sleep disruptions to keeping children entertained with minimal screen time, Genie provides practical tips that can transform y...

Are you worried about your teen's online safety and how much control they should have over their technology? In this episode, Genie Dawkins talks about the emotional and practical journey of giving her son, Zavier, more control over his technology as he turns 13. From setting up recovery options to dealing with location settings, Genie shares her reflections on the responsibilities that come with...

Are you wondering how to boost your child's self-esteem and why it's so essential for their emotional and educational resilience? In this enlightening episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins is joined by Dr. Simone Alicia, renowned self-esteem coach and founder of a self-esteem academy. They delve into practical strategies for enhancing self-esteem at home and discuss the significant role i...

Have you ever wondered how lack of assistive technology in schools can affect your child's education, especially if they have been diagnosed with neurological behavioral conditions like dyslexia or ADHD? In this enlightening episode, Genie Dawkins dives into the critical role of assistive technology in aiding students' learning processes and advocates steps to ensure these resources are accessible...