The Parallel

Should we even get married if we don't have the final marriage in mind? Chronological Bible Plan: https://open.spotify.com/show/0zibJ95fDWFj3PsYqbkWKm?si=7oIcFeqPT-ym64-Yxgqkng&preview=none

I think, yes! The Bible is very clear about the importance of seeking wise counsel and that does not stop short at dating. But who is wise counsel? Should we voice our opinions on our friends relationships? Let's talk about it.

Your single season is not just for finding your spouse, there is also something just as important to find and it will be a waste of a single season to miss it, your God given purpose. Often times he burdens us with our purpose in the wait as well.

Is it possible to know someones sexual compatibility while abstaining? Luke shares 5 cues that might give you a glimpse into your future sex life. Luke's Socials : @Narrowwayman

Finding the balance between being content but also remaining hopeful is not easy work but is so central to the life of a Christian.

Yes, read that right. I wanted to give you guys some time to digest this and I explain more in this episode.

Sam speaks about his testimony and shares his hopes for other same sex attracted people and the churches role in creating safe spaces.

As Christian dating takes more intentionality that just judging good character. There isn't a lot of guidance on the kinds of questions to ask so I wanted to provide some!

Does the sex talk even make a difference? Why is it so uncommon for parents to have "the talk"? These questions and more will be answering in the is interview with the creator of Sex Ed reclaimed, Kristen Miele! Socials: @sexedreclaimed

We want to please the Lord but we also wonder how painful obedience will be. The Lord leaves room for a submitted hard and also a weary soul, for grief in the growth. Socials: @theparallelpod

Keon & Destiny talk about the positive effects waiting had on their marriage, how withholding can effect the relationship poorly, handling disagreements in marriage, and what it looks like to court a woman well! Socials:  @journey2thehills  Youtube/Insta/Tiktok Visual: https://youtu.be/OwvSlFMf-6w

If you marry to have sex you are setting yourself up for failure and lackluster love. Socials: @theparallelpod Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvphOgFC60T4kBS-lNNDXiA

Saving a first kiss until marriage GASP! CD&Melody talk about how they built intimacy, built a beatiful marriage, and learned how to navigate the storms in marriage! Socials: Insta: CD Fabien / Melody Fabien / Hanging With The Fabiens Video: https://youtu.be/QElJbphj-bQ?si=-d7wBHTzT95Hb0Ig

Sometimes we can be so focused on the arrival of a promise that we forget the intentionality and relationship with the creator.

Here come the questions and here comes cuffing season. Lets' talk about how to enter this season with a helpful mindset!

How does a Godly man act? Who should I be to attract a Godly Man? Both good questions that Tamika answers in this episode! All socials: @ tamikathomas Website: tuesdaywithtamika.com Video: https://youtu.be/7mrd1b8jHxw?si=T3tmxIfDOVOdrI5A

Ghosting is not the move. In this episode Sonata talks about how and why to let people down gently.

Jay speaks about his book called Unwanted that is informed by his understanding of the gospel and his own clinical work addressing unwanted sexual behavior from a very loving and gracious approach. Jay's Info: https://jay-stringer.com/ Social Media: @Jay_stringer_ The Parallel: @theparallelpod DM "God's Plan" Godly Pleasure Event Pre-Event Call: https://calendly.com/sonata-allison/preevent

When we allow our insecurities to choose our romantic partners it will always leave us disappointed and unsatisfied. Link for Pre-Event Call: https://calendly.com/sonata-allison/preevent Socials: @theparallelpod Hope to chat soon!

Shelly shared her woe to woman having premarital sex as well as her testimony of how turning back to God can turn a hard situation into a story of God being ever-present and his provision.

Have you ever thought that you might be using masturbation as a coping skill? 🤯 When we understand the root of our sexual behavior it is easier to respond in healthy ways.

We've all heard to words "six figures" thrown around a lot. Might there be a better goal in mind to achieve what you are really asking for? In this episode: - We talk about what you might really be saying when you say "He has to make six figures". - What might actually be more of your hearts desire -Having money doesn't always equate to financially wise Socials: @laurenmatheus

You NEED to be here. There are many reasons the Lord put you on this earth and when you dont beleive this truth, you miss opportunities to love God, love others, and love yourself.

Destanee speaks about her abortion story and the role the Lord played in her life after she made that decision. Destanee's Socials : @powerintheprosepodcast @zestofdes

Than what? Than everything....yes, even sex! When the Holy Spirit reminded me of this one thing, my life became so much more peaceful.