The Infinite Method

The Feminine State with Gail Saunders | The Infinite Method Podcast   What does it truly mean to live in your feminine state?   In this special episode, Gail Saunders is interviewed by Alissa Stubberfield, Sydney Partner for The Infinite Method, as they dive into one of the most talked-about—and often misunderstood—topics in personal growth and relationships: the feminine state.   Together, they e...

“I don’t want to be here anymore.” For many people, this thought appears at some point in life. It can feel frightening, convincing, and overwhelming. But what if this thought isn’t a reflection of what you truly want? I n this video, I explore the difference between who we are and the thoughts that pass through our minds. Rather than seeing these thoughts as evidence that something is wrong with...

In this episode, we explore the real mechanics behind relationship polarity, emotional state, and communication — and why so many couples end up feeling misunderstood even when they care deeply about each other.   At the heart of it, it’s not just what we say to each other — it’s the state we’re in when we say it.   We break down how masculine and feminine dynamics show up in everyday moments, how...

In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the biggest hidden reasons conversations break down in relationships—and it’s not what you think.   Most communication doesn’t fail because we don’t care or don’t try hard enough. It fails because we unknowingly layer opinion, assumption, and story over what actually happened… and then wonder why the other person gets defensive or shuts down.   What if the r...

A deep dive into the patterns that shape our relationships—often without us even realizing it. In each episode, we explore the unconscious habits, emotional cycles, and communication loops that either strengthen or strain connection.   You’ll learn how to identify your default patterns, interrupt the ones that create distance, and intentionally build new behaviors that invite safety, intimacy, and...

Love brings you together, and respect is what keeps your relationship strong. In this episode, we explore how love creates closeness and emotional warmth, while respect builds trust, safety, and stability. You’ll learn why both are essential — and what happens when one is present without the other. We break down the difference between the feeling of love and the action of respect, and share simple...

We explore how often times in relationship we are looking for our partner to make or keep us happy.  How we are connected as a couple, so when he feels down and low, she reacts or acts a certain way.  How we can shift this and it starts by shifting the frame we are currently in.  Tune in as we dive into a real life example and talk through it first hand live on the podcast!! Top tip:  MEN - DON'T...

Sometimes being inside our intimate relationship can seem like a lonely place or a place where not matter what we do things don't seem to change.  Starting a conversation can be tricky if you don't know where to begin or how...in this episode we break it down for you.  When it feels like one partner wants to work on the relationship and the other either doesn't, has resistance or you may not even...

Letting go of control, and flowing with life. Where in your life are you in control and where can you let go, and where do you and your partner swap. How are you working together and connecting and flowing together vs butting heads and being stuck!!! When we learnt to let go of control and flow, life shows up and flows totally different.  Where can you let go, trust, have faith, work together with...

From pain point to possibility; Your emotional state is where it all begins. From the things that are weighing you down, or keeping you up at night, to whats been getting in your way or a story your tired of carrying...when you shift your emotional state you’ll step into the power to transform...and from here new possibilities become available.   Change your state - change your LIFE!!!   Follow, l...

When we create our relationship where we win win we move to a new level of connection and communication with our partner.  Win win is when my partner wins, so do I.  Most couples are living the majority of their relationship in either a win - lose or a lose - lose scenario....join us as share live examples of creating a win win relationship and how it looks when we are in a win - lose or lose - lo...

There are 4 needs we get met in our life no matter what. They are happening whether you know it or not.  Consciously and subconsciously.  Your need for Significance, Certainty / Control, Variety & Connection. Powering up to Growth, Contribution & Love is where the good stuff lives!!! Notice how many people, places or things you have in the middle of your relationship and take / move them o...

Learning to work together as a team in your intimate relationship is the key to flowing through life together vs struggling, feeling distant, disconnected or that life never seems to flow. Communication is key to working as a team!!!   Learning how you can work Above the line vs Below the line in your relationship creates flowing teamwork.   If you'd like a copy of the model sent to you DM us on i...

The Relationship Method is the framework we use when we are coaching couples.  In this method the first part makes up the heart 'The Relationship Entity'. This fall in the centre of the four cornerstones and is created by you and your partner. The Four Cornerstones are:  Connection, Communication, Masculine & Feminine States and Self Actualization.   In this episode we will go through and outl...

The Relationship Method is the framework we use when we are coaching couples.  In this method the first part makes up the heart 'The Relationship Entity'. This fall in the centre of the four cornerstones and is created by you and your partner. The Four Cornerstones are:  Connection, Communication, Masculine & Feminine States and Self Actualization.   In this episode we will go through and outl...

Be the perfect partner, don't expect them to change in order for you to be happy. Learning to connect with your partner and leaving your post or letting go of being right, creates a deeper more fulfilling connection, love and unity.   Connect with us: Instagram: @itsinfiniteandco TikTok: @infiniteandco YouTube: The Infinite Method TV  

The dance of the masculine & feminine state.  The masculine leads and the feminine accepts and follows.  Both are equally important in the dance of the relationship.  The feminine tests, whilst the masculine bring certainty.    Connect with us: Instagram: @itsinfiniteandco TikTok: @infiniteandco YouTube: The Infinite Method TV  

Creating relationship rituals for you and your partner is key in to your relationship success.  Rituals fall under CONNECTION in our 4 cornerstones.  Creating intentional times inside your relationship to connect with your partner is a beautiful gift you give yourself, your partner and your relationship.  Date night for example is just one of the many rituals you can implement into your relationsh...

In this episode we look  the 8 Principles of being Fun Fabulous Flowing in the Feminine.  This is a powerful and beautiful gift you give the world.  Tune in as I share and go through the eight principles of the feminine state and how to flow in your everyday, your relationship and your life.     DM me on instagram for a copy of the 8 principles - so you can download it, or keep them as an image on...

What is the masculine & feminine states and energy, how they impact your intimate relationship and why you want to become a master of your optimum state.   Feminine State - Openness - Vulnerability - Surrender Masculine State - Certainty - Ownership - Presence In this podcast we begin to introduce the two states, and one of the cornerstones in The Relationship Method.  We share why this is the...

How do we end an argument?  Parking an argument, leaving your post, letting go and what she really needs from you.     Like follow and DM us on instagram to receive the 'Childhood Wounds' list we spoke about in this episode. Connect with us: Instagram: @itsinfiniteandco TikTok: @infiniteandco YouTube: The Infinite Method TV   COMING SOON:  Dates for our Live events in 3 countries:  Canada - UK - A...

How do we hold space?  What is it exactly, and how do you do it inside your relationship?  Listen as we unpack and learn more on holding space and how it impacts your intimate relationship.   Connect with us: Instagram: @itsinfiniteandco TikTok: @infiniteandco YouTube: The Infinite Method TV   COMING SOON:  Live events in 3 countries:  Canada - UK - Australia.  Keep an eye out on here and on our s...

Unpacking complaining and your intimate relationship.  Being right whilst making your partner wrong is something we often see in relationship.  The blind spots and yes they are there!!!  Hoping to fix something or someone by complaining plus so much more... 

A deep dive into how we react, safety & security, and how to communicate with our partner after we've been triggered or reacted.  Join us as Gail dives into self, her criticism wound, her reaction to an event or conversation, getting irritable and exploring why and what its all about.  Plus the on flow effect with Russell and how he reacts in reaction too how she shows up.  

We'd like to welcome you to The Infinite Method - The PODCAST.  We've created this intro to give you a brief intro into what our podcast is all about.  Stay tuned for episode 1 where we will dive straight in!!!