The Hook Up

If you’re being honest with yourself - how’s your life going? Do you feel like you’re just coasting through, or stuck in a bit of rut? Or feeling uninspired?  Chris Cheers is a psychologist who’s been helping people change the way they think about love, their bodies, their emotions, and self-care. In this bonus ep, he’ll give you some great advice on how to do just that, so you can be your best se...

If you’re dating someone and they’re not introducing you to their friends, family or posting about you on socials - they might be ‘pocketing’ you.  In this episode, we investigate why people are pocketers (lol Pip) and how to know if there’s something shady going on (aka cheating). 

Did you know you can actually cum from a flaccid penis?! There’s SO much emphasis on hard and erect cocks (hello porn) that not a lot of people play with and embrace a dick when it’s soft. It’s something a lot of you told us you feel awkward about. So here’s how to feel more comfortable around them, some practical tips for solo and partnered sex, and how to orgasm without an erection. 

There’s so many unspoken rules and expectations when it comes to messaging someone for the first time. You can find yourself over-analysing texts and getting anxious if someone doesn’t reply to you for ages, honestly it’s a total headf*ck.  And a lot of you told us - a shit texter is a deal breaker for you.

It’s completely normal to feel jealous but sometimes it can make you act out in ways that can be damaging to your relationship.  Maybe you go through your partner's phone, or won’t let them be friends with their friends. We find out how to deal with insecurities and how to best support as a partner.

Ever heard of the Ancient roman trans icon Elagabalus who set tigers on her dinner party guests? Or what about the San Diego lesbians banding together to save gay men during the HIV AIDS crisis? There’s so many queer and trans stories that've been erased all the back from ancient China to now, but author and content creator Hannah McElhinney is here to teach the history you never learnt in school....

The great Esther Perel once said “foreplay begins after your last orgasm”. So if it’s something you do for a couple of minutes before sex - target audience reached. You need to hear this.

To celebrate WorldPride this month, we’re hearing your queer bite-sized love stories - and now it's time for the big finale.

If you’ve struggled to get hard or ‘get it up’ it might be because you’re stressed or anxious about being good in bed. And so many of you told us you have so much shame around erectile dysfunction.  In this ep, we find out what performance anxiety is, how to cope, and how to best help as a partner. 

To celebrate WorldPride this month, we’re hearing your queer bite-sized love stories.  And nothing screams modern gay love like a grindr hook up that turned into the love of your life moving into your place the very next day.  That’s what happened to art collector Wade who fell in love at first sight with artist Teejay.

Dating in regional or rural Australia can be pretty tough. There’s like five people on the apps, everyone knows everyone’s business and you have to be careful you don’t accidentally go on a date with your second cousin.

To celebrate WorldPride this month, we’re hearing your queer bite-sized love stories. 

Moving in with your partner can make or break a relationship - you might see a bunch of red flags or it might make you closer than ever.  We find out if there's a right time to do it, and get some hot tips from you on how to make it work.

You told us that dating as a bisexual person can be a really shit time. You've had people say stuff like "it’s just a phase" or "pick a side."

Friends with benefits can be a really great way to have no strings attached sex, but it can also get really messy, especially if someone catches feelings. So is it possible to bang your mates without ruining the friendship? We’ll get your hot tips and chat to a sex and relationships therapist about how to nail the FWB. 

So you’re about to go on your first vacay with bae. Maybe you’re going overseas, road tripping in a van or meeting the their fam for the first time. 

If you knew someone was being cheated on, would you tell them? Or just keep it to yourself?

When Harrison Kefford was told he was getting a stoma bag his first thought was: “Holy shit! No one is ever going to want to have sex with me again.”

How have dating apps impacted how we find love? Why is catching the ick so common now? What are we getting wrong when it comes to dating and relationships? And what are gen z getting right? 

Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem for guys and people with penises, so if you’re worried about coming too quickly, here’s how you can last longer.

Angela White is one of the biggest porn superstars to come out of Australia, and we got the chance to catch up with her!

Whether you’re tallying who does the most chores, initiates sex, or pays for stuff, a lot of us are guilty of using 'points' to measure how much effort a partner puts in.

You’ve probably seen the TikTok song ‘normalise girls doing poos’, it’s insanely catchy AND has a very important message. 

You’ve probably heard of quiet quitting at work, but turns out quiet quitting happens in relationships too!

Ever wondered if people ate ass in the 1800s? What kind of sex toys people used? The origins of homosexuality in the ancient world? And if Mozart really had a poo fetish?