The Gentle Dommecast

In this episode I am alone! I do miss The Rough Subbe but our podcasting schedules never seem to align lately. In this episode I talk more calmly about why the recent election results have affected me so personally as a Domme and discuss how I view submissive men vs. fetishists. I talk about the role of labels in kink and how our choices in the bedroom can have an effect outside the bedroom. I als...

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Is it Loctober? Or Locktober? I've unchained The Rough Subbe from my dungeon walls, and he's "agreed" to podcast with me again! This episode is all about chastity, including why the details never seem quite as sexy as porn (imagine that), choosing the perfect for you cage, what we each find fun about it, and our upcoming plans for the months of denial...not for me, of course! 

Hello, my Darling Deviants! This is a special episode. The Rough Subbe is not here. It's just me! Reading a new blog post! I was reminded recently that I have not been doing enough writing, and I have been wanting to really talk in depth about this subject for quite a while. But I've been...afraid? Of being vulnerable? Of saying the wrong thing? Of hurting my business? Or sort of talking...

I don't know why, but I'm channeling my inner Parker Posey in Dazed and Confused , and I just want to put you all down on the pavement and cover you with condiments while teasing you about all of the orgasms you want to give up for me! Parker Posey...femdom icon.  So, are we doing it? Are we doing it?  Be a good boy and give up those orgasms for me.  It'll be fun, she said. ;)

Hello, everyone! In this long awaited episode The Rough Subbe and I make a podcast in bed. We talk about my not so recent injury, which has kept me away from my computer. We discuss my two Patreons!  And then we talk about the hot sex we just had, including more about orgasm control, and why we love it, face slapping (so hot) and whether or not I'm a sadist. We dip into "nurturing"...

In this episode we talk about my new Patreon , specifically for premature ejaculation fetishists. The Rough Subbe and I talk all about this kink—about if we have it, if so, why, and what are other reasons some guys might be turned on by the idea of coming “too” quickly. This brings up to why I’ve been getting turned on by homewrecking fantasies, and then we end up discussing a bit about the ethics...

We’re back! After our long hiatus, The Gentle Domme and The Rough Subbe have returned! At least for now. In this episode we talk about what makes sex kinky (for us), the holding up of hair, Cole Porter, who is the smuttiest, and where The Gentle Domme has been these long months. Also, we discuss 6 orgasms and how The Rough Subbe is gaining stamina while The Gentle Domme is losing hers. Want us to...

Hello, my darling deviants! In Episode 22 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I are joined by a very special guest--our friend "Violet!" Violet identifies as a submissive who also switches, and although we are all friends, she actually met The Rough Subbe before I did, and he was her first "victim," (lucky lucky victim) to try out some of her budding sadism! Violet, TR...

Hello, my Darling Deviants! It's episode 21 of The Gentle Dommecast! Pull up a chair and have a glass of champagne as we come of age! In this episode, Miss Vivian and The Rough Subbe discuss subspace, cuckolding (again), and there's even a little face slapping fun, if you make it to the end. There's also some initial talk about the great erotic audio class I took with @TheSecretSubj...

Hello, my Darling Deviants! What a treat! We got fan mail! TRS and I received the sweetest email from a new Domme who listens to our podcast. I asked her if we could address some of her questions on the podcast, and she said yes. So, she actually did us a favor by giving us content! Some of the questions we address today include: 1. How do you get in the mental space of feeling like a Domme? 2. Wh...

In this episode The Rough Subbe returns! With regrets! And begging! Enjoyable begging! Today we’re talking about punishments and continuing to talk a little more about erotic hypnosis, which I’ve been getting more and more interested in.  And it turns out The Rough Subbe is ALSO getting a little hot under the collar for being made a bit mindless. I think he also has a crush on The Secret Subject ....

Hello, my Darling Deviants! I'm back for another episode with just yours truly. TRS and I had a very funny podcast idea, but we keep getting derailed by our Sunday night Succession watching. Maybe next time. In this episode I tell you how Miss Vivian got her kinky groove back. TRS and I had some fun kinky play over the weekend, including one super simple scene idea if you like objectification...

Hello, my Darling Deviants! This is another shorter podcast episode with just me, The Gentle Domme! In it, I discuss a recent interest discussion I had about a wife whose husband wanted kinky play that she didn't enjoy.  In this episode, I discuss the differences between submission and kinky play, submission and bottoming, and how liking or disliking service doesn't make or break submiss...

Hello, my Darling Deviants! In this episode it's just me! TRS was feeling tired, and I knew it had been far too long since I'd made a podcast for you. Plus, it's almost Halloween, which is my favorite holiday. So, I wanted to say Happy Halloween! In this episode I discuss erotic hypnosis, something I've been doing more and more through my phone domination. But I specifically ta...

We're back from kink camp, and as promised, here is my follow up episode to our experience! I must admit that I feel a little bit boring, because, well....it turns out that I'm not really a good camper. I'm not even a good part-time camper!  Enjoy this episode where you can listen to me recount my misery and laugh at practically everyone I know's validation that I wasn't g...

Hello, my darling deviants! I have left you for so long! I apologize. I've been traveling a lot over the summer. I missed you! In this special episode, The Rough Subbe and I discuss our upcoming visit to kink camp! That's right! We're going kinky camping. In this podcast, we talk about what we hope to get out of the event, how we feel about being sexy in 90 degree weather (not very)...

I FINALLY wrangled The Rough Subbe into making another podcast with me, only under threat that he was going to be replaced with another sidekick. (Because people are beating down my door for the job.)  I might call this less of an episode and more of a tirade after seeing some major generalizations in one of my favorite kink forums about gentle femdom, feminization and age play. So, this entire po...

It's Episode 12 of The Gentle Dommecast, and tonight you get me ALL to yourselves! The Rough Subbe has been so busy, and it's been impossible to coordinate our schedules AND feel like making a half hour podcast. I realized the last podcast I made was in MAY! And that's just totally unacceptable when I like to hear myself talk so much. ;) So, tonight I bit the bullet and just decided...

In Episode 11 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I discuss the return of kink events post pandemic and the difference between submission and bottoming, specifically in F/m femdom. We decided to wing this one, and we went off on a bunch of tangents.  I am SUPER excited about events starting again, and my intent was to discuss kink events in general, but I got waylaid into discussing BIG k...

Hello, everyone! I know it's been a while. Life has been busy! In Episode 10 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I discuss a new kink we've gotten into that we're dubbing "Stamina Humiliation." We happened upon it by accident, but it definitely ties into our interest in orgasm control, as well as my jealousy issues. Who? Me? Then we talk about sexual orientation,...

In Episode 9 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I discuss chastity and cuckolding! What talk about what "counts" as chastity, how we treat it in our relationship, finding a cage that's right for you, and what we both get out of it. The Rough Subbe sums it up as, "It's fun to be horny!" We are not heavily into chastity, and we treat it as more of a game than...

In Episode 8 of The Gentle Dommecast The Rough Subbe and I talk all about Fetlife!  We discuss what Fetlife is, who might want to use it and why--or why not. We also talk about what we love and hate about Fetlife. On our list, we met through Fetlife. So, that's a major positive!  On the negative side, hot eighteen year old girls on K&P who belong to "Daddy."  Okay. The Rough Sub...

In this episode we discuss ruined orgasms and hard (and soft) limits! We discuss what a ruined orgasm is, how one might theoretically make one happen, why they can be fun, and what we both like about them. The Rough Subbe also gets a little squeamish, which makes me laugh because I enjoy that sort of thing. I also boast about my record, although it's possible I'm just a legend in my own...

We think it's Episode 6 of the podcast! We are correct. In this episode we went off track a little and discussed some things that were just on our minds. Okay. They were on my mind. The Rough Subbe just went along with me because I told him we had to do a podcast. First, we talk about this book I can't get out of my head called The Fortress, by S.A. Jones , and we discuss the femdom  fan...