The First Take

We had an interesting guest with us today to discuss the intricacies of interracial dating and how to navigate it. Thank you for listening!

Love is in the air! In today’s episode we discuss the celebration of Valentine’s Day, gifting and planning dates.

Is love really enough, or is that just what we tell ourselves? In this episode, we gist about why people cheat, the real-life wahala behind loyalty, and whether love alone can carry a relationship. Honest talk and plenty reality checks.

Join the dynamic trio discuss their dates do's and dont's. It was definitely a whole bunch of dont's. But hey, don't judge the team. At least they know what they DONT like

In this episode we dive into the latest topics from non-sexual things I like about the opposite gender to odogwu and sleeping beauty with a sprinkle of Danish deception .... stay tuned!

We are back again with another engaging topic. Summer just ended and we wanna know, did you save or spend? As young adults there is a need to do everything at once, but you have to remember, you don't necessarily have to. So would you rather spend without a care in the world(AKA prioritize your enjoyment) or save? Let us know what you think

We’re back! After a long summer break, it’s time to catch up on everything that’s been happening. Yes we missed you too!

In this episode of The First Take , we dive into the delicate, often underestimated art of gifting. How do you choose the right gift for family? Should you spend differently on friends than on acquaintances? We share personal stories, cultural takes, and practical tips on meaningful gifting — from thoughtful gestures to navigating tricky situations. Whether you're a last-minute shopper or a though...

In this episode, we debated about the great Nigerian street food mystery, what meat is suya? Beef or Ram? We also yapped about other interesting conversations, hope you enjoy while listening!

In this episode, we’re diving into the world of overhyped movies — the ones that had all the buzz but didn’t quite hit the mark (at least for us). From blockbuster flops to critically acclaimed films that left us shrugging, we’re breaking down what’s worth the hype and what’s just... loud noise. Tune in for hot takes, film debates, and maybe a few unpopular opinions!

In this episode, we weigh in on the ultimate "This or That" dilemmas. Get ready to pick sides and see if you agree with our hot takes.

In this episode of The First Take , we get into the uncomfortable truths about money—specifically, the art of dodging financial responsibilities in social settings. From the friend who conveniently "forgets" to send their share of the bill to the awkward politics of lending money, we break down why some people avoid paying up and how to navigate these tricky situations. Are they just bro...

In this episode, we dive into the debate on cohabitation, exploring the moral, cultural, and personal factors that make it a hot-button issue. Is it a modern love story or a step away from tradition?

Listen as we dive into the second half of this thing called adulting!

In this episode we talk about all the stuff no one tells you about growing up. In this first part, we dive into the chaos of adulting — from dealing with bills and burnout to figuring out who you really are in this whole “adult” thing. It's real talk, with zero sugarcoating, plenty of laughs, and a whole lot of "wait, you feel that too?" So grab whatever’s closest (coffee, wine, or your emotional...

Join the gang as we dive into the world of the WORST roommates ever. We dissect living situations and how they play a part in how you relate to your housemates. Enjoy the episode!

In this episode, we catch up on how our Valentine's weekend went. We also dive into some fun and random conversations that you won’t want to miss. Grab a snack and join the chat!

In this episode, we’re joined by our special guest, Gbemi, as we dive into the messy, unpredictable world of situationships . Are they a modern dating convenience or just an emotional trap? We unpack the blurred lines, the unspoken rules, and the inevitable “What are we?” conversation. Tune in for laughs, hard truths, and a reality check on modern romance!

In today's episode we decode the sweet (and sometimes confusing) ways people express love! From words of affirmation to acts of service, we dive into the quirks and drama of love languages that might leave you feeling warm, fuzzy, or downright puzzled. Tune in for laughs, awkward moments, and the occasional "Aha!" as we figure out how to love (and laugh) in the language that speaks to you. Because...

They say love is in the air—but do you have your facemask on? Just kidding! In this episode of The First Take , we pull up a seat to the table —the one everyone keeps talking about. The dreaded question looms: What do you bring to the table? We unpack the weight of this question in relationships. Is it a fair ask, or just a transactional mindset in disguise? Join us as we break it down with humor,...

From the tight-knit communities of boarding life to the flexibility and daily routines of attending day school, we explore the pros, cons, and personal stories behind both educational paths. Whether you're a parent making decisions for your child or a student reflecting on your journey, this episode offers insight into what it’s really like to attend school in Nigeria, from both sides of the gate....

In this episode, we dive deep into the art of navigating different cultural and social spaces through language and behavior. From the subtle shifts in accents to the unspoken rules of professional environments, we explore how code-switching impacts identity, relationships, and career growth. Join us as we unpack personal stories, societal expectations, and the balance between authenticity and adap...

Dive in with us as we unpack how the digital world is changing the way we see the real one on this episode.

Happy new year everyone! Listen to what we have planned for the year. We are excited to go on this journey with you!

In this episode, we dive into the ever-evolving dynamics of our relationships with our parents. From childhood memories to navigating adulthood, we reflect on how these bonds have shaped us, the lessons we've learned, and the challenges of bridging generational gaps. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, personal stories, and insights on the complexities of family connections.