The Comedy and Custody Podcast

Sasha and Nebulous are back on the couch—and this time they are joined by South-Carolina-based, Canadian-born Tamil comedian Shivani Nadarajah! (@igetitfrommyamma) Shivani spills the tea on transitioning from the hyper-competitive U.S. comedy scene to Singapore's surprisingly welcoming stand-up community, surviving “redneck rivieras”, and why American fireworks warehouses are, apparently, the...

Sasha and Nebulous dive headfirst into the shady world of digital deception! Nebulous uncovers her (not-so)inner "vulnerable senior" after almost falling for a series of increasingly sophisticated scams—from Carousell iPad mishaps, to a bank scammer who sounded so thoroughly done with  her job that it felt legit, to how her oversized comedian ego almost led her to financial ruin with a l...

Sasha is officially hungover (after having a whole drink and a half post-gig), while Nebulous is questioning her entire approach to comedy. The duo dives deep into the chaotic world of performing live—from the unique challenges of doing stand-up at the Hard Rock Cafe to the brutal, beautiful art of retiring a solid hour of material. Plus: why crowd work is an addiction, what it's like perform...

Sasha and Nebulous are back, and this time, they’ve been hijacked by their own conversation! What started as an update on life, comedy, and parenthood took an unexpected turn into the digital realm. The duo dives deep into their complex relationships with AI—specifically Google Gemini—and discovers that their robotic tendencies (or lack thereof) might be more linked to technology than they ever re...

Nebulous is  officially open(relationship)-ing a can of (polyamorous) worms! Sasha  suddenly finds herself as "Head Godmother" in a propagative lesbian root vegetable network, while Nebulous breaks down the "teamwork" of modern queer dating. Are you a "staple him to the wall" kind of partner, or are you One With the Abundance? Highlights: The "Godmother" Loo...

Sasha is officially back from her maternity hiatus—though she’s brought a few surprises with her! After months of baby-induced silence, she and Nebulous reunite to navigate the bizarre realities of new motherhood. Highlights: The Bell’s Palsy Scare: Sasha gets vulnerable about the terrifying moment six days post-birth when her face went paralyzed, and how she navigated motherhood and recovery whil...

Sasha and Nebulous are back (despite Sasha no longer being a "single" mum, and Nebulous being the true "fraud" 😜) to dive into the surreal, chaotic, and inspiring world of the Edinburgh Fringe Festival! Nebulous recounts her nine-day run of SLOMOSEXUAL and the wild lessons learned about international comedy, queer culture, and the unexpected perils of basement venues. Highligh...

Yes, a LOT has happened since the last episode. Sasha's preggers and married - not to Nebulous, though (for now).  Highlights:  - Should Sasha have a December baby or a January baby? Debate starts now! - Being 40 and pregnant: decidedly different than the last time round  - OBJECTIVE differences between the UK and Singapore healthcare systems.  - Sasha's daughter's must-have accesso...

Sasha and Nebulous are back from the Melbourne Comedy Festival, and they're spilling all the beans! From heartwarming moments with their partners to eye-opening comedy sets, they share their very different, but equally inspiring, festival experiences. Highlights: Sasha's emotional festival highlight: a truly special moment with her closest friends and their partners. Nebulous's &quo...

In this listener Q&A episode, Sasha and Nebulous dive into a fascinating question about the stigma of being a self-sufficient woman. They veer off into hilarious tangents about modern dating, the wonders of Gen Z, and even the mysterious meaning of "skibidi." Highlights: Debunking the negative connotations of "spinster" and embracing single mum pride. Sasha's "emb...

Sasha and Nebulous dive into the fascinating (and sometimes bewildering) world of cultural differences, from Singaporean greetings to perplexing health beliefs. Highlights: Nebulous's hilarious struggles with the "unnaturally good" service and baffling literal interpretations of Chinese medicine at Hai Di Lao. Sasha's boyfriend's belief that fried chicken causes a sore thr...

Sasha and Nebulous tackle the often awkward and hilarious world of talking to their kids about sex, contrasting their own very different upbringings. Highlights: - Nebulous's surprisingly laissez-faire upbringing regarding sex on TV despite having Asian parents. - Sasha's self-imposed role as the household angel while she was growing up. - The surprisingly complex and potentially problem...

Sasha and Nebulous Niang discuss the unexpected challenges of re-entering relationships after long periods of being single. Highlights: - Sasha's experience with "minor conflicts" with minor disagreements after years of peaceful solitude. - Nebulous's insights on male/female communication styles from her unique perspective. - Mind-reading in relationships and differences in cul...

Sasha and Nebulous bring the Comedy and Custody Podcast to the MICF 2025, sharing their hilarious and heartfelt experiences from the festival floor. In this episode, the comedians chat about: - The Birth of Never Date a Comedian: How a last-minute venue booking turned into a global sensation! - Melbourne’s Queer Comedy Scene 🌈: A refreshing contrast to Singapore’s LGBTQ+ representation. - Croissa...

In Part 2 of Sasha and Nebulous' interview with Olga, the comedians chat about: - The Illusion of Intimacy in Peformance: even Comedians fall for it! - Does Olga's interaction with Nebulous the Lesbian Robot count towards her PhD in Human Computer Interactions? :thinking_face::robot_face: - Morally Neutral Comedy - is it Good or Bad that Olga Koch Comes from Money? - Do women comedians r...

Sasha and Nebulous kidnap Russian-British comedian Olga Koch (@kolga300) from the Melbourne International Comedy Festival, just to fangirl at her for a full hour! Catch her latest special, Olga Koch Comes From Money, 9pm at Melbourne Town Hall from 27 Mar to 20 Apr! https://www.comedyfestival.com.au/browse-shows/olga-koch-comes-from-money/ In Part 1 of their interview with Olga, the comedians chat...

Welcome back to "Comedy and Custody," your cozy corner with Sasha Frank and Nebulous Niang! Grab your favorite beverage and get ready to dive into a world of laughter, heartbreak, and the quirky realities of modern dating. **In this episode:** - Sasha and Nebulous share their stories about growing up, from the challenges of teenage years to the hilarious misadventures with music and make...

🎙️ Welcome back to "Comedy and Custody," the podcast where Sasha Frank and Nebulous Niang serve up laughter, insights, and the relatable chaos of modern life. Grab a cup of your favorite tea (or coffee) and settle in for another quirky, heartwarming chat. In this episode: We celebrate the (sometimes bumpy) milestone of turning 40 and chat about what it's like to hit this iconic age...

🎙️ Welcome back to "Comedy and Custody", your cozy corner with Sasha Frank and Nebulous Niang! Grab your favorite beverage and get ready to dive into a world of laughter, heartbreak, and quirky realities of modern dating. In this episode: We dive headfirst into the ever-evolving world of dating, exploring our experiences with dating apps and romantic misadventures. Laugh along as Sasha a...

🎙️ Welcome to "Comedy and Custody," where we, Sasha Frank and Nebulous Niang, invite you to grab a cup of coffee and join us on the sofa for a hilarious and heartfelt chat. In this episode: We celebrate our 20-year (*cough* 2.5 years) friendship filled with laughter, trauma, and uncontrollable yawns. Discover the secret formula for comedy: *Genuine trauma + Humor = Hilarious Success!* We...