The Art of Love With Lucia

When an avoidant wants to come back, they'll first test you - quietly, strategically and emotionally. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 3 tests they'll give you and how to pass every one with flying colors. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #getexback #attachmentstyle #avoidant #avoidantattachment #nocontact...

You can't force an avoidant to apologize for hurting you, but you can understand what makes them feel safe enough to do it. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly what you need to do to get your avoidant to apologize. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say Hi on Instagram #avoidantex #getavoidantexback #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavo...

Dismissive avoidants & fearful avoidants don't have the same reaction to no contact. Understanding the difference will make radio silence less scary. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how the 2 attachment styles behave during no contact. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #avoidantattachment #getexback #nocontact...

Blocking an avoidant ex sets off a chain of psychological stages that most people don't expect. Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the 4 things that happen when you block an avoidant dumper. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #AvoidantEx #DismissiveAvoidant #FearfulAvoidant #ExBack

If your ex said they're done, don't panic. Once the silence kicks in and they start to feel the consequences of the breakup, they'll begin to question their decision. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why breakups aren't always final and you still have a chance to get your ex back. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #ExB...

No contact isn't enough to get an avoidant ex back. There's something even more powerful that overrides attachment style. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the secret factor that determines whether your avoidant ex comes back or stays gone. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say Hi on Instagram #NoContactRule #AvoidantEx #GetYourExBack #ExBa...

Your avoidant ex needs emotional space - 3 feet of it. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 3 Foot Rule that makes avoidants feel safe, stops the chasing game and actually draws them back to you. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #avoidantex #attachmentstyles #nocontactrule #getyourexback

Why do avoidants come back after no contact? Most people assume it’s because they miss you or realize your value—but the truth runs much deeper. In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the Black Hole Effect: the powerful psychological pull that happens when you stop chasing and give an avoidant the space they need. You’ll learn why avoidants don’t miss you while you’re still rea...

Tempted to break no contact? Don't do it until you listen to this episode! Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when breaking it might lead to reconciliation and when it's almost guaranteed to backfire. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #nocontact #breakupadvice #exback #getexback #nocontactrule

"No chance" doesn't mean it's over. In this episode, find out how to take back control and shift the way your ex sees you - so they may start rethinking the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia shows you exactly how to change the dynamic, build attraction and create the best chance of getting them back. Press play to discover how to turn things around. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iP...

Were you broken up with or had to walk away from an avoidant? Do you wonder if they miss you and regret to break up? Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what happens when someone with avoidant attachment realize they lost someone irreplaceable. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #AvoidantAttachment #BreakupPsychology #Emotio...

Think avoidants aren't affected by no contact? Think again! In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the 3 things they secretly hope for when you leave them alone after a breakup. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #AvoidantAttachment #NoContactRule #AttachmentTheory #BreakupRecovery

Struggling with no contact? If you have an anxious attachment style, silence from your ex can feel like physical pain. In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why no contact is so hard for you and the dopamine hacks to use to rewire your nervous system. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hello on Instagram #nocontact #nocontact...

Your ex finally reached out after no contact! This is where most people screw it up! Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why most people mess it up when they hear from their ex and how to not be one of them! Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hello on Instagram! #nocontact #getexback #nocontactrule

Is your ex REALLY gone forever? Or will they return? Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the clear signs your ex is gone for good vs. the hidden clues they might return. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #nocontact #getexback #nocontactrule

Struggling with no contact? The rules have evolved! Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the new 2025 no contact rules to help you get your ex back. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book #nocontact #nocontactrule #exback #getexback

Avoidant partners often appear cold or indifferent after a breakup. Does that mean they don't care? Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the psychology and regret timeline of avoidant exes. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book

If you've been dumped, you're probably wondering:  Is my ex confused after the breakup?  Does my ex regret breaking up with me?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why dumpers often second-guess their decision - and how their confusion puts YOU in a stronger position. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book

Women are in shock that Life Coach & YouTuber The Wizard Liz was cheated on by her fiance Landon Nickerson, while she's 4 months pregnant.   Dating/relationship coach Lucia explains why this was preventable and what you can learn from it. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book

Why do avoidants run away from someone they claim to love?  Why do they sabotage the love they crave?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why avoidants prefer to be with someone they're not in love with. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book

When an avoidant is truly never coming back, their actions show clear signs of detachment.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 9 signs your avoidant ex is gone for good. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book

What really goes on in the mind of an avoidant when you don't chase them after a break up?  Do they start to miss you or do they just move on without looking back?  Dating expert Lucia reveals the truth about how avoidants react to the no contact rule. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book

What happens when your avoidant ex finally cracks?  Will they reach out?  Will they come running back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares exactly what happens when an avoidant cracks under pressure. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book

What happens when your ex thinks you've moved on and don't care anymore?  This is a crucial moment that will change their attitude towards you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the shocking outcome of having your ex think you've stopped caring. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book

You've been in no contact, haven't reached out to your ex and yet you still haven't heard from them.  Does that mean no contact failed?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 2 actions you can take to get your ex to reach out. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book