That Sexciting

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with the fabulous Shan Boodram—bestselling author, and sex and relationship expert. Shan spills all the tea on building a roster, navigating friends with benefits, and non-monogamy. With a library of insightful content on love, relationships, and sex on her YouTube channel, Shan BOODY, she's here to break it all down. Want to lube up your pleasure? SUTIL...

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with Eliza Boquin, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. Eliza helps us unpack the reasons behind why people cheat, debunks popular myths around infidelity, and answers questions from our listeners. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to share your thoughts on this week’s episode! Want to lube up your pleasure? SU...

How have your personal experiences with loss shaped your approach to living? In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with her friend Corbin. Corbin shares her story: the emotional weight of losing a spouse, the intricate process of grieving, and the journey of rediscovering herself.  Yancy also speaks to her mom to learn more about her unique perspective on death, the loss of her late husb...

Let’s talk about Sex Education! Yancy virtually sits down with Mariah from the @sexedfiles to discuss what comprehensive sex education is, school curriculums and answer a popular sexedfile question! Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Want to lube up your...

What are your thoughts on intimacy and friendships? On this episode, Yancy sits down with old crush (now good friend) Naika to discuss types of intimacy, and check in on their friendship. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Want to lube up your pleasure? SUTIL Personal Lubricant:  https://bit.ly/sutillube Let’s keep in touc...

What's the current dating pool like today? This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Rome Green Jr. to discuss the current dating market. Rome opens up about his dating experiences, the difference between relationships and connections, the lack of accountability and self-awareness of prospects and how his views on relationships evolved after his trip to Africa. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpo...

In our society, navigating sexuality can be one tricky experience… Exploring how sexual shame may have been internalized is one step towards shedding shame and approaching YOUR ideal sexuality. This week, Yancy models how to explore your internalized sexual shame through 5 questions. Grab your pen and paper, reflect and connect the dots looking backwards. This episode does not substitute seeking m...

Can you recall a moment or experience that led to your understanding of patriarchy? This week, Yancy sits down with one of her favourite visual artists Miss Me Art. They talk about meeting our own patriarchal mindset, the sexual shame for people with vulvas, Miss Me’s art as therapy and she shares the emotional story of how she discovered that her body is not the problem.  Furthermore, Yancy...

This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Jimanekia Eborn, a queer Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. They talk about the power of self-identifying, navigating sexuality as a survivor, how we can show up for ourselves and how we can support our peers.  Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Let’s keep in touch on social media...

Miss me yet? Yancy gives a little update on the... GoFundMe! But, don't worry. We're coming back next week with our regular long format/check-in program. GoFundMe: To this date, the podcast is funded, curated, produced, edited and marketed by your truly, one-woman-band Yancy. It goes without saying that podcast production is expensive, especially for a solopreneur... Help the project and...

Yancy’s popping in for a check in episode and letting you know what she’s been up to for the last month. We’ll pick up the long-format episodes later this year. Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Things mentio...

The podcast is starting the summer break sooner than announced. Stay tuned and follow us on Instagram to know when we’ll be coming back. Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Music Credit Used With Permission Only 1 from Mel Pacifico Pr...

This week, Yancy sits down with Sara Hini, a Queer Algerian-Amazigh Photographer. They discuss Sara’s journey as a photographer, what is intimacy and have a raw conversation about fears and love.  Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting...

What relationship structure do you adhere to? Monogamy? Open relationships? Polyamory? This week Yancy is joined by Carole to discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy. They explore what is Carole’s ideal relationship structure, how jealousy plays out and the importance of taking ownership of one’s emotions and healing. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s...

Is flirting selfish? This week, Yancy is joined with Jared Brady for an explicit discussion on flirting. Tune in to this raw and honest conversation on what is Jared’s definition of flirting, our flirting types as well as relationship styles and how to keep the spark alive in a marriage. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Let’s...

This week on That Sexciting, join Yancy and one of her role models, her cousin Nookie, for a raw and intimate conversation about coming out and exploring one’s sexual orientation. Listen to cousins of different generations speak about their online dating experiences, their coming out stories and the importance of having a community and a chosen family. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us...

Can you catch an STI from a public toilet? This week, Yancy is discussing STIs with sex-positive researcher and physician Dr. Ina Parks. They break down the misinformation and negative ideologies surrounding the topic, how often one should get tested, and how to have the “I got tested” conversation. Stay until the end for a game of True or False! Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to le...

How often do you think about sex? Specifically about how you define it, what you like, what you desire, etc? This week, Yancy invites you to reflect on your sexual journey. A guided meditation to explore 5 questions from the game Sex Talk ©. Please note that it is not a sponsor. Yancy just LOOOOOVES this game! This episode does not substitute seeking mental health services. If you need support, we...

Did you know that 67% of women have faked an orgasm at least once in their lifetime? This week, Yancy is joined by Professor Dr. Laurie Mintz. Together they discuss the orgasm gap’s origin, how the current sex education system is failing us and tips on how to improve communication in the bedroom! Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.&nb...

This week Yancy is joined by queer dating coach Ariella Serur. Together they discuss dating in a fulfilling and healthy way, with a focus on the queer community. Join us for a vulnerable conversation where Yancy opens up about her self-discovery, dating journey and engages in a conversation that forces one to examine their own boundaries, dating expectations and inner saboteur!  Don’t forget...

Do you know what your attachment style is? In this week’s episode, Yancy discusses Attachment Theory with behavioural scientist and counsellor, Lucille Shackelton. The dive into its 4 distinct styles, and the sometimes uncomfortable questions it can invoke! Attachment theory is founded on the idea that our caregiver-child relationship dynamics shape how we hold close intimate connections as adults...

Intimacy, relationships and sexuality: so many conversations to be had and topics to explore, yet so little space to talk about it in our society! By that, I mean curiously, openly and shamelessly. Join in every Tuesday as your host Yancy, intimacy enthusiast and content creator, opens the conversation on these topics. Every week, you will hear from experts, professionals and people from different...

Intimacy, relationships, and sexuality: so many conversations to be had and topics to explore, yet so little space to talk about it in our society! By that, I mean curiously, openly, and shamelessly. Join in every Tuesday as your host Yancy, intimacy enthusiast and content creator, opens the conversation on these topics. Every week, you will hear from experts, professionals and people from differe...