Tea & Glitter

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 hi sugar babes! we made it to 25 episodes! yay in this q & gay, I answer some fun lil' questions y'all sent in - everything from would I date a fan, to my type, to how I deal with life sober! this is life through the sapphic gaze. thanks for being here and for being queer. lez be friends? https://www.instagram.com/ivylesvixens htt...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 you're THAT girl...but you're not doing that girl things??! com'on now, baby - you've got to align yourself with who you are. but i guess you gotta figure out who that is first, huh? ;) so excited to be back for this first ep of 2026 where i share my thoughts on self-identity and alignment. let's make this our best year...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 hi cuties! in this episode i'm answering a listener question - tips & advice on going to a Pride festival for the first time and alone! so don't be scared - your fairy gay godsis is here to guide you (and also a lil' queer history lesson along the way!). *throws confetti * I LOVE PRIDE!  this is life through the sapphic gaze....

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 hi cuties! in this episode i share my feelings on dealing with the overwhelm of living in this dystopian timeline, while still finding my joy, passion, and purpose. if you've been feeling like we're living in a wtf timeline, this episode is for you!  this is life through the sapphic gaze. thanks for being here and for being queer. lez...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 get all the bts on what it's like running a queer burlesque troupe, performing, and what it takes to create sapphic events. spoiler alert: it's a lot of work, diva! you also get to know the Les Vixens origin story. hope you enjoy this honest & transparent peek into my life, the glitter grind! this is life through the sapphic gaze....

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 things in this country might be a total dumpster fire but i'm here to tell you that queer joy is resistance. taking care of ourselves is resistance. leaning into our community is resistance. we're going to be alright. between now and whatever is to come, let's live. let's not let them steal any more of our lives. love you so...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 i'm baaaack! with a new episode, and i've missed you so so so much. this one is a ramble about how i handle imposter syndrome, comparing myself, negative self-talk, and the strategies i use to get myself centered & back to kicking a$$! i hope you'll find something here that resonates with you. <3 ily!  this is life through...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 a whole year of Tea & Glitter?! *throws confetti* thank you all so much for joining me on this adventure. here's a super honest and juicy q&GAY to celebrate! find out if I'm single, if I get turned on giving lap dances, and so much more! this is life through the sapphic gaze. thanks for being here and for being queer. lez be f...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 we have a lot going against us as queer kittens, and navigating relationships with people who don't accept us can be a painful part of the journey. but you've got this - and you'll find so much peace & joy on this journey that those idiots will miss out on! going no contact can really suck but it might just be the thing that...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 breaking away from the male gaze and reclaiming our space, freedom, autonomy - oooh, baby! let's get into it! what the heck is the male gaze? what's the sapphic gaze? well, let me tell ya! CLASS IS IN SESSION! your favorite lesbian teacher is here, queer, and ready to teach you a few things by which I mean I'm gonna rant about wh...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 oooh baby this episode gets PERSONAL. it's all about why i'm sober, how long i've been sober, what it's like being sober in the entertainment industry, and also some super personal traumas i've been through. wee! trigger warning: i do talk about addiction and my experience dating an addict. sending you all the love!!! t...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 WWTSD? Find out in this episode! we’re talking about body image and ways that we can stop being so dang MEAN to ourselves. and how to find neutrality so that the WAR IS OVER and we can start healing. ilysm & want the best for you! this is life through the sapphic gaze. sending you all the love!!! thanks for being here and for being queer. l...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 mean girls & haters can really ruin your pretty little day, and i just won't stand for it! in this episode i'm sharing my perspective shifts & how to reclaim your power from the trolls dedicated to dimming your light. you are brilliant & beautiful, and bullies don't have to rule your world. sending you all the love!!!...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 mental health, the stigma around it, and making better choices for ourselves - these are some of the things we're chatting about today. i share (and overshare) in the hopes that talking about my own mental health can help shine a light and lessen some of the shame around mental health struggles. this kind of conversation is why i started t...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 breakups are THE WORST. wlw & lesbian breakups are even WORSE. in my opinion but also scientifically proven. in this episode we're talking about how to survive a breakup in the least messy way possible. it's our longest episode yet but i GO IN. so get ready to cry it out, write it out, and get my advice on how to not make yourself...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 ooooh girlies & gays! we made it to the 10th episode! I'M SO HYPED! in this episode i'm answering some juicy listener questions - like am i interested in dating or nah? does being a top mean i'm a touch-me-not? what to do when your partner's mental illness hurts you? how to not fall into heternormative roles AND SO MUCH...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 hi, cutie pies! we're closing out this two-parter with LIVE, LAUGH, LESBIANS! Or the other 3 L's that I think it takes to make a relationship work: Love. Lust. and Lifestyle. i'm sharing some of my best relationship advice & how i wish lesbians would COMMUNICATE. we also talk about Lesbian Bed Death, keeping the romance alive...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 in this episode we answer the age-old question: how to get a girlfriend! but also like... are you actually ready for a girlfriend? how the hell do we flirt with girls when girls are terrifying? will the idea of rejection keep you from ever approaching a girl in the wild? let's talk about all things flirty - and please, for the love of god,...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 hi, hotties! welcome to episode 7 of Tea & Glitter! in this episode, we're talking about femme invisibility - my experiences with it and thoughts about it, and how i feel it affects the LGBTQ+ community as a whole. style plays a huge role in our identities, but sometimes it can work against us - in the ways we are treated by society an...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 THIS IS MY FAVORITE EPISODE SO FAR!!! in today's episode we talk about something that is near & dear (and queer) to my heart because it literally changed my life. finding the magic in the mundane. romanticizing your life. because you deserve to have more beauty. more meaning. and more joy in your life. AND IT'S FREE!! thanks for b...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 hi, sweet angel babies! welcome to episode 5, where we're talking about defining our queerness - our style, our identities, and our queer sexual dynamics! masc vs femme and toxic masculinity, gay culture putting us in boxes, and giving ourselves labels that actually fit! i hope you get into it and by it, i mean the identity that suits you...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 oof. this episode is EMOTIONAL. but i think totally necessary. we talk all about internalized homophobia & shame, and how to heal from both. i hope you find some comfort & support in this episode, and THANK YOU for all the love & support you've shown me so far. MY WHOLE HEART! Thanks for being here and for being queer. lez be f...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 hi, bbs! in this episode, i share all my love & knowledge about coming out - how to come out to yourself, and how to come out to the people in your life. i'm here for you - i'm part of your support system and i hope you feel that in this episode! Thanks for being here and for being queer. lez be friends? https://www.instagram.com/...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 hi, babes! it's so nice to meet you. welcome to the first episode of Tea & Glitter - i'm Ivy, a lesbian burlesque performer and i'm ready to spill the tea and give you all that gay girl glitter on how to live a more productive, peaceful, and pretty life! Thanks for being here and for being queer. lez be friends? https://www.i...

shoot me a text! i'd love to hear from you! <3 hi, cutie pies! in this episode i share my coming out story - the good, the bad, the sapphic swooning! i hope you enjoy getting to hear how i learned i was, in fact, a flaming lesbian and all the sweetness & bittersweet pain that comes with a coming out story.  lez be friends? https://www.instagram.com/ivylesvixens https://www.tiktok.com/@i...