SW & LOVE

Even in relationships where SW itself isn't a source of tension, any demanding job can affect a couple's relationship. From mismatched schedules to burnout to low libido, therapist Liz Afton returns to help unpack some common obstacles that even the healthiest couples can face. Mentioned in the episode: My article for Rewire: SWers Remember Victims of Gilgo Beach Killer: ‘Our Sisters’ | My e-book...

Trixxie Morella is a multimedia artist, spicy worker, and community advocate. In this episode, they reflect on a traumatic relationship where their spicy work was a factor. What happened to Trixxie is terrible. And also, in hearing them tell their story, we have the opportunity to bear witness to a person with a tremendous spirit. This episode contains discussions of pregnancy, abortion, sexual as...

Jessie is a circus performer and aerial artist. Her story is a reminder that no woman or femme is ever safe from the dangers of being labeled "whore" (derogatory). This episode is dedicated to anyone who's experienced whore-shaming abuse, especially if you're an actual sex worker. No one deserves that. My new documentary about the love lives of sex workers will screen in Brooklyn on March 29. Clic...

NYC-based SWer, Celeste, talks about love, moms, and the time they dated a cop. Click here for all Celeste's links . Through 3/15/26, Beloved , my documentary about the love lives of SWers is available to stream , as part of the Lift-Off Film Festival! Tickets are $12, and your purchase gives you access to all the films in Beloved's category. You’ll also be able to vote for your favorite film--eno...

In Part 1, therapist Liz Afton walks us through some relationship "red flags" that SWers can be on the lookout for. And if you're not a SWer, you can still be on the lookout for these warning signs that someone's not treating you well. Part 2 will focus more on green flags (yay). **Big news! My new film, Beloved , has been accepted into the Berlin Lift Off Festival and is available for streaming (...

New season starts on Valentine's Day!- Beloved, my new film about the love lives of SWers - Podcast theme music: Penelope , written and performed by yours truly Get full access to Outlaw Media at outlawmediacompany.substack.com/subscribe