Subjective

In this episode, I explain the difference between human rights, personal beliefs, and politics using a simple framework: a shared apartment building. Human rights are the foundation. Personal beliefs live inside your apartment. Politics is building management. The confusion between these layers is why so many political conversations break down. And why some disagreements aren’t really disagreement...

Most of us were never taught how to actually stay informed, we just learned to react to whatever showed up in our feeds. This episode breaks down what being informed actually means (versus what social media has trained us to think it means), why the current information landscape is designed to keep you reactive instead of clear, and how to build a sustainable information practice that doesn't wrec...

After stepping away to recalibrate, I’m back — and Subjective is entering a new era . This episode is a re-introduction and orientation for the podcast moving forward. I explain why the original format no longer worked, what changed for me, and why this show now focuses on breaking down politics, policy, current events, and systems in plain language. —🖤 JOIN THE SUBJECTIVE COMMUNITY:→ 🎧 Listen o...

What happens when you’re still figuring out who you are, but you already have kids depending on you? In this continuation of one of the most personal conversations yet, Donyelle and her mother go even deeper into the realities of young motherhood — the unspoken fears, the resilience it demanded, and the lessons that only come with time and reflection. In part two, her mom shares the aftermath of b...

What happens when you’re still figuring out who you are, but you already have kids depending on you? In this episode of the Subjective podcast, Donyelle sits down with her mother for one of the most personal conversations yet, an honest reflection and real story of what it looks like when a mother is still figuring herself out while raising kids at the same time. They reflect on young motherhood:...

In this episode, I’m catching you up on everything I wasn’t planning to talk about, but y’all requested it, so I had to come back from my hiatus really quick! No planning, recorded with no outline, just vibes. I’m recapping my birthday trip to Jamaica 🇯🇲, reflecting on a friendship breakup I didn’t see coming, and venting about the absolute chaos that is my life!— 🖤 JOIN THE SUBJECTIVE COMMUNITY...

In this episode, I’m unpacking what it means to be the “strong friend.” The one who’s always checking in but never checked on. The one who performs strength so well, no one realizes she’s falling apart. I share personal stories of how I learned to suppress my emotions, why I thought crying made me weak, and how I built an identity around being dependable and “fine”, even when I wasn’t. I open up a...

They used to say I “talked back.” Now I talk for a living. In this episode, I’m sharing what it’s really like to be the person who always speaks up—even when it’s easier (and safer) to stay quiet. From being labeled a big mouth as a kid to building a career rooted in communication, I’m unpacking the cost and the calling of radical authenticity. What does it really cost to be yourself in a world th...

We all have best friends—but have you ever thought about the specific roles they play in your life? According to the 6 Besties Theory, no single person can be everything to you, and honestly? That’s a good thing. In this episode, we’re breaking down why we all need different kinds of best friends; the OG, the Work Bestie, the North Star, the Good Time Bestie, the Dead Body Bestie, and the Seasonal...

You ever know something is wrong. Like, feel it deep in your spirit... but can’t remember the tweet, TikTok, article, or headline that told you why? Same. This episode is for the justice-minded with forgetful brains and overwhelmed notes apps. Inspired by a TikTok that called it out perfectly: “I be trying to stand up for what is right... all I know is you need to stay the f*ck away from it.” We’r...

 Q1 is officially a wrap, and it’s time for a full debrief. In this episode, I’m catching you up on life lately, what I’ve been watching, reading, and obsessing over, plus a full Subjective podcast update, personal growth reflections, and the pop culture moments that had me in a chokehold. I’m talking about what worked, what didn’t, and how I’m setting myself up for success in Q2. Whether you’re h...

Turning 30 just hits different. You think you’ll have it all figured out—career, love, stability—but instead, you’re navigating breakups, big moves, and redefining happiness. In this episode, I sit down with Jackie to talk about what really happens when you hit your 30s. From starting over in new cities to breaking up and bossing up, we’re diving into the reality check that comes with this decade....

📢 History will have you believe that all Black protests were peaceful marches—but let’s be real, sometimes you have to shake shit up. In this episode, we’re diving into the Black resistance movements they didn’t teach you about in school. From the Montgomery Bus Boycott , which strategically drained white-owned businesses, to the Birmingham Children’s Crusade , and Colin Kaepernick taking a knee—...

If you were to name three Black historical figures right now, odds are, you’d say Martin Luther King Jr., Rosa Parks, or Harriet Tubman. But what about the Black pioneers, inventors, and trailblazers who never made it into your history books? In this episode, I’m taking my boyfriend (and all of you) to class, breaking down the stories of brilliant Black minds, leaders, and creators you should have...

Listen, nobody asked... but I have opinions on how to pack like a pro, navigate the airport without panicking, and how not to be an annoying seatmate on a flight. So here it is: my unsolicited, no-nonsense travel guide. We’re yapping about my favorite travel tips,  the best packing list formula, carry-on vs. checked bag debates, and the unspoken rules of in-flight etiquette that too many people ig...

What’s it really like growing up 11 years apart as siblings? In this emotional episode, my little sister and I dive into our unique bond, sharing stories of love, laughter, family and life lessons. From me taking care of her as a child to navigating completely different life stages, we explore how we grew closer despite the age gap. We’ll unpack the funny moments, sibling challenges, and what it’s...

In this episode, I’m giving you a full Q4 wrap-up and life update—from hosting my first Thanksgiving to an unmotivated fitness phase, some petty thoughts on TikTok trends, and a few family dynamics that have me side-eyeing. We’re unpacking everything I’ve been up to, thinking about, and obsessing over as I close out 2024 and get ready for 2025. Grab a snack, get cozy, and let’s catch up! If you en...

After the recent election, I’m once again processing a wave of disappointment—a feeling many Black women know all too well. This isn’t just about politics; it’s about being reminded, once again, that we can be twice as good, twice as qualified, and still fall short in a system that rewards mediocrity and hate. In this episode, I’ll share my reflections on the election aftermath and it’s impact on...

In this episode, I’m joined by my boyfriend LJ as we take you through the twists and turns of our love story. From a viral TikTok to a DM slide, we’ll share the highs, surprises, and memorable first moments that shaped our relationship. Listen in as we reflect on our first meeting, the journey from casual to committed, and the little things that make us work. Whether you’re single, dating, or just...

Welcome to the very first episode of Subjective ! I’m Donyelle, and I’m honestly just so excited to finally kick this off. If you’re here, thank you for being part of the start of what I hope will become a space for real, unfiltered conversations about life, love, and all the messy stuff in between. This episode is all about kicking things off, sharing the story behind Subjective , and setting the...

Welcome to Subjective ! In this trailer, host Donyelle introduces the vibe of the show—honest, unfiltered conversations about how the same reality can feel different depending on who's telling the story. Expect plenty of laughs, a little tea, and the kind of yapping that feels like a chat with your bestie. Whether you’re here to reflect, laugh, or just vibe, Subjective is your new go-to space for...