SoloMoms! Talk

Episode Overview In observance of "Cheer Up the Lonely Day," this episode addresses an emotion that carries profound weight for single and solo mothers: loneliness. For the solo parent, the repetitive "work-home-sleep" cycle can often lead to a sense of isolation that feels inescapable—a "one-dimensional" existence where the emotional weight of providing and nurturing leaves little room for the se...

What if the label single mom didn’t define your identity at all? In this episode of SoloMoms! Talk , I explore why society has turned “single mom” into a negative label and why God doesn’t. I talk about how to move beyond shame, reclaim your identity in Christ, and embrace the calling of leading your family alongside God. Drawing from my own experiences researching the harsh stereotypes surroundin...

As a divorced mom, I raised three sons, and for my two youngest, I was doing it completely without their father. I remember the weight of that and the realization that I wasn't "daddy" and I couldn't be, because nature just wasn't designed that way. But I learned a secret while struggling to come up with effective ways to get out of survival mode. Mothering solo doesn’t mean parenting alone. I beg...

Anxiety or worry is one of those emotions that seems to plague solo mothers. I remember many nights when my children were younger waking up at 2 or 3 am worry over everything. But I’ve found a solution and I share it with you in this episode, along with some practical tools. So if the weight of the world keeps you awake at night, this episode is for you. I cover Anxiety (Worry): Rediscovering Peac...

Episode Summary: In this powerful and deeply personal episode, I tackle the profound weight of financial uncertainty and the fear that so often grips single mothers. When every day brings a new blow to your bank account, how do you stretch a single income? Before offering quick, micro-solutions, we dive into the macro-spiritual battle against anxiety. This episode answers the question many solo mo...

In this episode pulls a theme from Day 5 of the Courage to Believe Devotional , and our focus is a heavy but deeply necessary one: Grief and Coping with Loss. Most people automatically connect grief with a funeral. We think it only belongs when someone passes away. But as today’s interview with Coach Chi illustrates, grief happens profoundly when we lose a relationship through divorce. The brain p...

In this encouraging episode, I discuss how solo mothers can move from survival mode to a life of healing, transformation, and purpose through Christ. Drawing from biblical principles and personal experience, I share three powerful tools every solo mother needs: renewing your mind with God’s truth, embracing your current mission as a mother, and finding strength through Godly mentorship and Christ-...

This episode shares an inspiring introduction to the Courage to Believe 21 Day Christian Devotional for Single Moms, focusing on faith, resilience, and emotional strength. Whether you're a solo parent or seeking spiritual encouragement, discover practical insights and biblical guidance tailored for your journey. Key topics: - Overcoming emotional turmoil as a single mother through faith - How Scri...

Healing the father wound through Christ is more than just a spiritual concept—it's a pathway to reclaim your true identity and break free from generational pain. If you’ve ever felt the ache of an absent or unloving father, this episode offers a powerful revelation: your worth and who you are can be reshaped by understanding God's unwavering, nurturing love. Discover how confronting deep-seated ab...

Breaking free from the solo mom identity is more than changing titles. It's a journey of rediscovering yourself and reclaiming your happiness. If you're tired of feeling overwhelmed, alone, and unsure of how to rebuild your life after separation or divorce, this episode offers a powerful perspective from Irina Shehovsov, a transformational coach and solo mom who’s been there. Irina shares her hear...

In this episode, I explore the profound contrast between temporary repair and true restoration through faith. This episode is a powerful reminder that healing in Christ is deep, transformative, and worth pursuing, especially for single moms navigating the pain of loss and life’s unexpected shifts. Key topics: The symbolism of Kintsugi and why it reflects resilience but not complete healing The dif...

What do you do when life feels heavy, unfair, and overwhelming and you still have to show up for your children? In this heartfelt and deeply personal episode, J. Rosemarie Francis speaks directly to the solo mom who is struggling silently, whether in her workplace, her mental health, her relationships, or her walk with God. Through a powerful real-life story, she shares what it looks like to move...

This episode hooks with the transformative promise of grace and healing during heartbreak, tailored directly to single moms facing pain from their children’s actions. It offers concrete spiritual and practical insights, tapping into core emotional struggles while inspiring trust in divine guidance. The clear focus on modeling behavior makes the content relatable, actionable, and deeply encouraging...

Discover how the modern solo mom is challenging outdated stereotypes and building powerful, independent lives. This episode explores the true demographics, economic contributions, and inspiring stories of single mothers who are reshaping perceptions and paving the way for future generations. Key Topics The myth vs. reality of the solo mom story in the United States Demographic insights: How many s...

In this episode, Carol Ann Kates shares practical tips on how single moms can save time, money, and reduce food waste while managing busy schedules. Her insights on planning, storage, and shopping smarter aim to empower you with confidence and clarity around food routines, so you can focus on what matters most. Your family. Key topics covered: Strategies to extend produce shelf life and reduce was...

Episode Overview In this special birthday edition, we pause to celebrate the gift of another year of life and health while leaning into the beautiful, often messy reality of motherhood. For the "solo mom" navigating a relentless schedule, the pressure to maintain a robust, traditional spiritual life can frequently lead to burnout rather than peace. In this episode I address the universal struggle...

Some seasons feel like one long storm. Bills stacking up. Prayers that seem unanswered. Nights when you wonder how much longer you can keep going. And the hardest part? The waiting. Waiting for breakthrough. Waiting for healing. Waiting for God to move. In this bonus episode, I share a story of faith, resilience, and what it really looks like to hold onto hope when everything feels uncertain. Thro...

Does your life feel like a ship tossed on the ocean? Whether it’s financial struggles, difficulty with a teenager, illness, or the ache of loneliness, we all face storms that we cannot control. In this heartfelt episode, talk about the reality of the "monsters" we face as solo moms and how to find true rest even when the winds are still raging. Drawing on biblical promises and personal experience,...

Episode Summary: In this episode, we explore the powerful theme of fear from a biblical perspective, specifically tailored for the unique challenges faced by single mothers. Drawing from the first day of the devotional, " Courage to Believe: 21 Day Devotional for Single Moms ," we discuss how fear can impact our decisions and how to find peace by trusting in God’s promises. Key Takeaways: Acknowle...

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about a 3 AM realization that brought three haunting words to the surface: "So much blood." I share the heartbreaking story of losing my first son, Andre, at 22 weeks, and how that trauma connects to the biblical account of the woman with the issue of blood. Listen as I introduces my new short story, Healing Hem: The Minine Miller Story . Whether you are...

Shame has a way of whispering lies that make us believe we're failing our children. As single moms, we carry burdens that feel too heavy. We wonder if we're enough, if our kids deserve better, or if other families are silently judging our choices. While working on the audiobook version of my Courage to Believe Christian Devotional , Day 7 struck me in a profound way. It addresses that crushing wei...

Are you lying awake at 3am with your mind racing through endless worry loops about things you cannot control? You're not alone. That familiar gnawing anxiety that steals your sleep and leaves you exhausted before the day even begins is more than just a feeling. It's a signal that something deeper needs to shift. In this episode, I share an AI-generated deep dive into Day 2 of my 21-day devotional...

Does it feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulder, especially at this time of year? What if I told you there's a place of rest available to you, even when life feels overwhelming and chaotic? In this heartfelt episode, I share a simple yet profound observation about why our children can drift off to sleep so peacefully, despite all their protests about bedtime. Their secre...

Episode Summary: What do you do when the weight of being a "solo parent" becomes physically unbearable? In this special bonus episode, we are going into the "nuts and bolts" of resilience by analyzing the introduction to my new book, Courage to Believe: 21 Day Devotional for Single Moms . This deep dive explores the "architecture of stress relief" and how I moved from a debilitating cycle of panic...

The holiday season can feel particularly isolating when you're raising children alone. If you've been struggling with chronic loneliness or feeling disconnected during what's supposed to be a joyful time, this message is for you. Drawing from personal experiences of abandonment and the emotional aftermath of divorce, I share insights from day three of my Courage to Believe 21-Day Devotional for Si...