Simpin After Dark

I'm getting into "Post Nut Clarity" by Alemeda this week so you know I have lots of fun topics. Alemeda's music is super fun, and in this song she speaks on some really relatable feelings that most woman have probably been through. It's all about hooking up with someone when your mind wasn't right, and immediately regretting it and feeling like it wasn't worth it at all. Sex should be a mutually e...

Yung Student Loans joins me for tonight's episode. We get into Reggie Becton's song "Issues" from his 2021 debut album, California. It's about a relationship gone sour because of too many issues and games being played. We talk about "dating" versus "hanging out", and why you need to always communicate what a situation is. Then we get into the phenomenon of post-nut clarity and post-nut euphoria in...

Today's song and conversation starter is "Ain't Easy" by Muni Long. She's a singer and songwriter who's been in the game for a long time. She used to go by Priscilla Renea when she was doin more songwriting and in the pop lane, but recently did a rebrand and went full R&B when she put out her EP "Public Displays of Attention". The most popular song from it is probably "Hrs and Hrs", but today...

I got another solo episode for u guys today, featuring a song by an artist that is new to my rotation that I'm super excited about. Lou Val's song "Eternal Sunshine" from his EP, Tayo And The Dreamer, is such a dreamy love song with a psychedelic indie pop feel and just the right amount of R&B. It's all about the infatuation stage of falling in love. The part where you're blind to an...

I'm getting into FKA twig's mixtape, CAPRISONGS, today because I've been obsessed and it has such a good message while also being fun and playful. Trigger warning for this episode I'm getting into some explicit-ish details about her relationship with Shia LaBeouf, which was very abusive, so the details can definitely be upsetting. She's done many interviews in order to be a voice for women who hav...

Welcome back everyone! It’s the season premier and I’m jumping right into all the fun juicy topics with a recurring special guest, April - director & producer at Wild 7 Studios (also, my sister). As always I picked a bop to get into - “Party Tricks” by Äyanna, which is all about being stupidly in love with someone who doesn’t love you back and could not care less if you disappeared from their...

It's the season finale y'all! I picked a song from 2019 cuz it's a bop and it still hits - "Hide Out" by Mahalia, from her album Love and Compromise. It samples bits from an Eartha Kitt interview throughout the song, that go along with the theme of self love and the unwillingness to compromise when you know your worth. Mahalia addresses a man that cheated on her and was chasing women while fe...

Adele finally dropped an album, 30, and it did not disappoint. The whole project is so beautiful and sad from front to back, but I'm talking about the song, "Woman Like Me". It's the "diss track" of the album and it hits for anyone going through a breakup or divorce. She is super honest and vulnerable but she keeps it classy of course. It's the perfect song for anyone that knows their worth a...

You know I had to get into Summer Walker's highly anticipated sophomore studio album, Still Over It. Not gonna lie it's definitely still growing on me, but to be fair, it's hard to top Over It, so it's understandable. I talk about my favorite song on the album, and then I get into all the drama between Summer & London on Da Track. I start at the top of the album and work my way down, touching...

This is the second annual Halloween special edition episode, Psycho Lover Vol. 2. Master Steph joins me to get into Mariah The Scientist's song, "2 You", from her latest album RY RY WORLD. It has the perfect haunting vibes for this episode, and it's about grieving a relationship that had to end, but looking back and appreciating it for what it meant to her. Then we dive into attachment theory...

This episode is all about marriage, and my girl Erica Mo came thru to dive all the way into it. Of course marriage is a beautiful thing, but this episode we're getting into all the not so fun parts that people don't really talk about. Marriage isn't some willy nilly decision you can take lightly so we get into all the things you should consider before saying "I do". Jagged Edge has probably the mo...

Today I'm talking about the song "Your Heart", by Joyner Lucas & J. Cole. It's such a bop and it's all about this dude facing the reality that he lost a good girl and that it's all his fault for being a f***boy. J. Cole hops on to hold his homie accountable and let him know that, yeah she's probably about to be out doing her own thing and you can't even be mad because you did this to yourself....

BLKGLFNKS joins me on this episode to talk about Doja Cat's song "Alone", from her latest album Planet Her, released in June. It's all about feeling alone in a relationship and being ready to dip out and be alone. Sometime we stay in a relationship because of comfortability or because we don't wanna be alone, even if it's turned toxic and we know deep down it's best to be alone. We also talk about...

I'm talking about Shelley FKA DRAM's song "Exposure", from his self titled comeback project released in February of this year. It is soo good and all about deep sensual love. He talks about the vulnerability of opening up and "exposing" yourself to someone you love in order to build a life together. I also briefly get into his hiatus, the reason for his stage name changing, and his relationship. T...

This episode I'm getting into the myth that after marriage your sex life dies, and how the blame seems to be put on women. I'm also talking about Fousheé's song "2 l8" from her latest project Time Machine, which uses the chorus from the 1971 song "It's Too Late", by Carole King. The original song is a timeless classic and I really love Fousheé's rendition because it takes on a different perspectiv...

This episode I'm covering a lot of important juicy topics. First I start with getting into Tinashe's song "Unconditional" from her album, 333. The album is one of my favorites so far this year and although it's bop after bop, I picked this song to get into because it perfectly sheds light on how toxic the idea of unconditional love is. It's really manipulative and women have been brainwashed into...

Ryan & Troy from the AntiArt Podcast joined me for a fun crossover episode. We talked all about breakups, from how messy they can be, to different ways of breaking up, reasons for breakups, common courtesy, rebounds, rules, and more. We had to get into Summer Walker's song "Session 32" which is super short and sweet but one of my favorites. It's about peoples definition of love and fighting fo...

Got another solo episode today with lots of tips and information about long distance relationships. It's probably no ones ideal situation but life happens and you never know if you might end up on one one day. The most common reasons are going away for school, getting a new job, or some kind fo family emergency where you have to tag along. Another reason could be if you have to travel a lot for yo...

This episode I'm talking about South African singer, Elaine, and her latest single "Right Now". It's all about dealing with someone who is all talk with no progress to make up for their BS, and being ready to move on from that. It's all about focusing on yourself so much to the point that there's no looking back, and even if you wanted to, you're too busy to even consider it. Breakups are hard but...

Welcome back! This is the Season 4 kickoff and new episodes will be back every week from now on, Wednesdays at 7pm PST. Yung Student Loans (featured on Season 3's episode "Wanna Give You Love") joins me again to talk all about dating apps. We start by getting into Jenevieve's 2020 song, Baby Powder. It was the second single she dropped right after Medallion, which is another bop. She's a new artis...

This is technically episode 1 of season 4, BUT, think of it more as a preseason episode before I come back in August with regularly scheduled episodes. I'm talking "daddy issues" in honor of Father's Day which just happened this past weekend. I get into Rihanna's song "Kiss It Better" off her ANTI album and use it to show how her relationship with her dad affected her adult relationships, specific...

Last episode of the season! Master Steph joins me again to talk all about narcissistic personality disorder (npd), and most importantly the scary real life effects of narcissistic abuse. It can have detrimental effects on the brain and one's mental health. As always we get into some lyrics to get the conversation started, so for this episode we talk Jhené Aiko's "Triggered (Freestyle)". I also pla...

This episode is dedicated to all of the important things people need to talk about before moving in with their significant other. The lovely VAL, host of the Reflections with VAL. podcast, or Soulfully_VAL on instagram, joined me and blessed me with her experience and knowledge on the topic. Together we went over all the submitted tips people gave me on instagram and dove deep, because there was a...

This episode my girl Krystal joins me to talk about Charlotte Day Wilson's song "Take Care of You" ft Syd. It's another simpy one, this song is basically about being so passionately in love with someone who isn't ready for your love quite yet. We talk about how people should always give their all in a relationship even if you've been hurt before cause that's the only way you'll ever find real love...

This episode I'm talking about Alex Mali's song, "Start It Up", from her 2019 EP, Sweet & Sour. Joining me today is the talented Ivan Leon, who is a creative director in Los Angeles. He came through with some wisdom and we had a blast talking about the many facets and current state of dating culture. He's an Aquarius & I'm a Virgo so we get into our similarities and differences when it com...