Sex Ed The Musical

You're about to meet my friend  Sabrina Schroeder , who is single, smart, adventurous, athletic, hilarious, a cat lover, defiantly carnivorous, a beer enthusiast, and a million more things.  Oh yeah, she's also disabled. In this episode, we talk about what it's like to date when you're disabled. How she meets people. What it's like to have sex when you have disabilities. How she navigates the alwa...

May was National Masturbation Month! Did you spend all 31 days dialing your rotary phone?   I certainly hope so.   You may not realize this, but one of the keys to stronger, longer lasting orgasms is a healthy pelvic floor. But what is a pelvic floor, and does it require a cork underlayment?   Sorry…I watch a lot of home improvement shows. On this episode, I talk to  Dr. Rachel Gelman . With over...

Having sex with someone new can be a potentially stressful situation. "How do I measure up with their other partners?" "What do they think of my body?" "Am I pleasing them?" Now, imagine you're in bed with a professional SEX COACH whose job is to teach people how to enjoy the most fulfilling sex and pleasure possible. That is A LOT of pressure. For you…and them. On this episode I speak with Wendy...

Amish Paradise. Eat It. Like A Surgeon. I Love Rocky Road. Smells Like Nirvana. I Lost On Jeopardy. White & Nerdy … Since the early 80s,  "Weird Al" Yankovic has been churning out hit song parodies, some more enduring than the original songs that inspired them. An unapologetic nerd and proud outsider, his songs are not just commentaries on pop culture, they're also full of references to Star Wars,...

"Follow your bliss and don't be afraid. Doors will open where you didn't know they were going to be." — Joseph Campbell Imagine you've produced some of the biggest hit shows in television. You've won accolades and prestigious, pointy awards for your work. You're at the top of your game and everyone wants to hire you. Yet, you're totally miserable. Not so hard to believe, really. In this Re/Invente...

fan·ta·sy /ˈfan(t)əsē/ noun Imagination, especially when extravagant and unrestrained. Often impossible or improbable. It's a fact. We all have fantasies. From scoring the game-winning touchdown, to winning an Academy Award, to destroying the drum kit in your next door neighbor's garage with a sledge hammer. I'm speaking hypothetically, of course. Fantasies are a healthy and normal part of the hum...

Welcome back you sickening bitches! (sorry…I've been watching a lot of RuPaul's Drag Race ) Sooooo, after going Under Covers with a few fellas, I figured I'd flip the script and in this episode speak to a professional in the world of sex. A Sex Coach, to be exact. Okay, what's a Sex Coach? Great question, thank you for asking. According to the folks at Sex Coach U , Sex Coaching is not is not sex...

This week's conversation is with a male, who spent his first 24 years as a female. Not exactly by choice. As Forest says on his website, thehumanconditioncoaching.com "Growing up as a doubly closeted gay boy in the Midwest, I cultivated a vivid world inside my head where I felt safe and free. Eventually, I would have to come out of hiding no matter how scary it felt. I realized the fear was never...

7th grade. It's a boy/girl party in my best friend's basement. There are about 10 of us there. Rumors by Fleetwood Mac, is playing non-stop on the record player. The lights are low. The air is filled with equal parts anticipation and terror. Someone suggests we play a game called 7 Minutes in Heaven. The voice you're about to hear belongs to someone who was also at that party. We eventually lost t...

Three years ago on this podcast, I began asking women of different ages, sexual identities and socioeconomic backgrounds a series of questions about the most intimate details of their lives. I called the interviews Under Covers. All of the women were asked the same questions about their sexual awakenings, different partners, early experiences and relationships, with the hope that we could find hea...

"This is the best way for me to be seen. How I want to be seen. And that is as a Muslim woman." When nurse practitioner Neda walked into a pole dancing class while wearing a hijab, she had no agenda. A life-long athlete, she had purchased a Class Pass and decided to use it to learn some "ho stuff" from "a bunch of strippers." However, she learned a lot more than just some "ho stuff," and by the en...

Imagine you had the perfect partner. Someone who constantly saw to your needs. Put you first. Gave you whatever you wanted whenever you wanted it. Treated you with respect, tenderness and unconditional love at all times. Sounds pretty amazing, huh? Well, it turns out this relationship is possible. That very person is right within reach. Closer than you'd ever imagine. That person is YOU. On this e...

Cynthia Nixon. Meredith Baxter. Niecy Nash. Cassandra Peterson/Elvira. Elizabeth Gilbert. Glennon Doyle. Carol Liefer. Wanda Sykes. What do the incredibly accomplished and talented women on this list all have in common? They all dated and/or married men…until later in life when they all fell in love with other woman. Often to their own surprise. Known as Later in Life Lesbians, these women discove...

Slut. Whore. Trollop. Skank. Nympho. THAT kind of girl. Have you ever noticed how many words there are for judging women who enjoy sex? Now let's consider some of the words for men who enjoy sex. Gigolo. Stud. Casanova. Player. Ladies' man. Wait a second! All of those are compliments! That's weird. No, it's actually quite deliberate. In fact, if you want to insult a man who likes sex, you have to...

I can certainly see why you might assume my life is a non-stop, swinging, suburban bacchanal. Unfortunately it's a lot less groovy than you'd imagine. Sure I can be found at the occasional sex party. However, while most folks are there for NSA, consensual hook ups, I'm likely being overwhelmed by bad flooring. That's because I have a problem. I'm a serial remodeler. As a result, I'm totally addict...

The standards of masculinity are not exactly clear. On one end of the spectrum, you have the guy driving a Prius who's in touch with his feelings, does yoga, drinks kombucha, has tons of female friends and rejects all forms of violence. On the other end, you have the guy driving a giant pick up truck who's addicted to violence, porn, hating women, dominating men, and who rejects anything perceived...

For years I've been extolling the health benefits of masturbation. But did you know buzzing one off on the daily could lead to a lucrative career? That's right. You can be a sex toy reviewer!!! Now, before you think just about anyone can become the Pauline Kael of strap-ons, you have to realize that this job takes dedication, a relatively fearless snatch and genuine writing talent. In fact, there'...

Has your sex drive vanished? Are you no longer interested in intimacy? Would you rather spend 45 minutes waiting in line for a vegan taquito sample at Costco, than have sex? Well…you're not alone. In April 2018, Pamela Joy delivered the TEDx talk, Reclaiming Female Sexual Desire , which has been viewed nearly 2,000,000 times. Her brave and personal story clearly struck a note with all of the other...

"Make failure your fuel." —Abby Wambach   About 4 years ago, after I left Playboy, I was feeling completely directionless in my career. Overnight all of my structure, value and access to unlimited free lube had vanished. I had not vision for my future. Looking for some next-level guidance, I reached out to a Shaman I had met a few months earlier at a retreat. She point blank asked me, "Exactly wha...

Welcome Back! Yep, I've taken a few weeks off this summer to release my first book, 3 Secrets To The Happy and Healthy Relationship You've Always F*cking Wanted which, I am thrilled to announce is a…   A Top 100 Book on Amazon and the #1 NEW RELEASE IN SEXUAL HEALTH!   I wrote this book because I realized that millions of people are caught up in toxic relationship overthinking. They're constantly...

Imagine if your job is selling a product that is likely be rejected by 29 out of 30 buyers. Those are terrible odds. Well if you're a TV producer trying to sell new shows, that's a pretty typical fail rate. On this episode I speak with Dave Noll, a wildly successful TV producer who has created, pitched and sold some of the most iconic TV shows in history, including the Food Network mega-hit franch...

Earlier this week, an active player in the NFL made huge news. Carl Nassib, a defensive end for the Las Vegas Raiders came out as gay . As of this writing, he is the only openly gay active NFL player. Hopefully, he won't be alone for long. "Carl Nassib's powerful coming out is a historic reflection of the growing state of LGBTQ visibility and inclusion in the world of professional sports, which ha...

There are lots of men. Straight men who are often married with children. Navy SEALs, football players, construction workers, lawyers, doctors, mechanics, factory workers — you name it. Just regular guys…who happen to prefer to have sex with other guys. Are they gay? Not if you ask them. Sexual identity is complex. On this show I speak with The Straight Guy Whisperer , a gay man whose sexual partne...

Imagine one day you're heartbroken, alone, and then to make matters worse, totally rejected by some random stranger in a seedy basement sex shop in New York. But within a few years, you are transformed into the most desirable woman in the room. This amazing metamorphosis really happened, and you're about to find out how. On this week's podcast, I speak to the Swinging Single Girl. We follow her st...

Would you ever consider having an open marriage? In the Colonial Era, marriage was largely about property and procreation. Of course, back then the average life expectancy was about 36 years old. Which means, "till death do us part" wasn't really that long of a commitment. The modern idea of marriage as being about romance, companionship and registering for new dishes at Macy's, didn't emerge unti...