Respectfully Gabby

Going from male obsessed to self obsessed starts with learning how to stop obsessing over men, decenter dating, and redirect your energy into self-improvement, personal growth, and becoming your best self. What if you took all the energy you've spent obsessing over men and became that obsessed with yourself instead? The overthinking, analyzing texts, checking your phone, fantasizing about pote...

Your past does not have to dictate your future. If you’re ready to step into your winning season, it’s time to stop identifying with old stories, past trauma, and the version of yourself that learned to expect the worst. In this episode, we’re talking about how your identity is shaped by the stories you keep telling yourself, why you might find yourself waiting for the other shoe to drop even when...

How to be more confident, magnetic, and comfortable being seen. In this episode of Respectfully, Gabby , we’re talking about the psychology of confidence, the fear of being perceived, and how to become the woman who walks into a room and owns it. What makes someone seem effortlessly confident? It’s not just their looks, body, or the way they carry themselves. It’s their relationship with being see...

GET THE  IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media:  www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby   Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P How much of your day are you giving to someone who isn't even in the room? The checking. The replaying conversations. The w...

GET THE  IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media:  www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby   Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Your dream life shouldn’t feel like some distant, impossible reality that you have to become “worthy” of first. In this episode...

What makes someone have that “who the hell is she?” energy the second they walk into a room? It’s not just looks. It’s presence. In this episode, we’re talking about how to have celebrity aura, the kind of energy that makes people notice you, remember you, and feel your presence before you’ve even said a word. GET THE IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-w...

Being a good person and being a people-pleaser are two very different things. In this episode, we’re talking about why the “nice” person so often ends up feeling overlooked, underpaid, overextended, underappreciated, and frustrated that everyone else seems to get what they want. Because when you’re constantly trying to be easygoing, agreeable, understanding, and low-maintenance, you can accidental...

Want to reach Kanye West levels of unbothered? 😂 In this episode, I’m breaking down the 3 mindset shifts that will actually make you unbothered, not the fake “I don’t care” kind, but the kind where you genuinely stop letting other people’s opinions, behavior, rejection, or lack of attention dictate how you feel. If you’re tired of overthinking, overexplaining, seeking validation, or letting one p...

I’m officially locking in for the next six months and I want to bring you along for it. In this episode, I’m talking about what made me choose six months, what I’m actually changing in my life, and what “locking in” really looks like beyond just going to the gym, eating better, or being more productive. We’re also getting into why we’re so good at waiting for the perfect time to start over, Monday...

GET THE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media:  www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby   Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P You can consciously want a new life while subconsciously holding beliefs that keep you from creating it. In this episode, we’re talking about the...

What if being “delusional” is actually one of the most powerful mindset shifts you can make? In this episode, we’re breaking down the 3 things you need to create the life you actually want: focus, emotional state, and beliefs. I’m talking about the psychology behind getting clear on what you want, training your brain to look for opportunities, regulating your emotional state, and becoming delusion...

JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media:  www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby   Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P What if the life you’re dreaming about doesn’t require a man to fund it? In this episode, we’re talking about the uncomfortable truth behind making a relationship your financial...

JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media:  www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby   Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Have you ever looked at someone who hurt you and thought, How did they get to move on while I'm still picking up the pieces? In this episode, we're talking about one of the most...

Why do we get so far ahead of ourselves? We start planning our lives around a person, a career, a city, or an opportunity before we’ve even stopped to ask ourselves, Do I actually want this? Is this even for me? In this episode, we’re talking about the danger of becoming emotionally attached to a future that exists mostly in our heads—and how getting caught up in the potential of something can mak...

JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media:  www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby   Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P We've all heard the advice to "raise your standards." But what if some of the things you're calling standards are actually emotional walls you've built aft...

Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, Where did my spark go? Whether you've been heartbroken, burnt out, stuck in survival mode, or simply spent too much time centering everyone else, this episode is your reminder that your glow isn't gone—it's just waiting for you to come back to yourself. JOIN THE PROGRAM: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media...

Everyone tells you to "just let go." Stop checking his story. Stop overthinking. Stop caring so much. But if it were that simple, you would've done it already. In this episode, we're talking about why detachment isn't something you force—it's something that naturally happens when you change the beliefs keeping you emotionally hooked in the first place. I'll break down...

Today we're celebrating 4 years of the podcast! 🎉 I'm answering your questions and reflecting on some of the biggest lessons I've learned about confidence, relationships, personal growth, and becoming the woman I am today. Thank you for being part of this journey. Here's to 4 years of growth and what's next. 💖JOIN MY COMMUNITY: ⁠ https://stan.store/respectfullygabby⁠ Follow f...

JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media:  www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby   Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Passenger Princess Ebook: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/from-miss-independent-to-passenger-princess-ebook Have you ever been doing just fine when suddenly an ex texts you, an o...

Being independent is a strength—but sometimes it can become a defense mechanism. In today's episode, we're unpacking why so many high-achieving women struggle to receive help, support, love, and care. I'll share how my own journey taught me that femininity isn't about dependence—it's about allowing. This conversation is for the woman who's tired of carrying the entire world...

The Identity Upgrade Now Available! https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Do you ever feel like everyone else is ahead of you? More successful, happier, prettier, further along in life? In this episode, we're unpacking one of the big...

We’re talking about the hard truth of outgrowing friendships, recognizing the red flags we try to ignore, and what it really looks like to start over. From friendship breakups to changing seasons of life, this conversation is about choosing yourself even when it’s uncomfortable. JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media:  www.instagram.com/respectfully...

We’re talking about something almost nobody wants to admit to: jealousy. Whether it shows up in dating, relationships, or in dating, jealousy can quietly steal your peace, make you overthink, and have you acting out of fear instead of confidence. In this episode, I’m sharing why jealousy actually happens, what it’s trying to reveal about you, and how to stop letting it control your relationships....

JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media:  www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Why do some people walk into a room and instantly feel confident, attractive, and unforgettable… while others feel invisible even when they’re doing “everything right”? I’m breaki...

Why do so many women feel guilty for wanting a full, expansive life—love, success, money, freedom, and deep fulfillment? In this episode, we’re unpacking the quiet conditioning that tells you to shrink your desires, settle, or choose “just one.” I’m talking about the truth: you’re allowed to want it all—and more importantly, you’re allowed to have it.' JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/res...