Pouring and Parenting

Send us Fan Mail Hosts Sil and Inish celebrate their first Halloween special by comparing pre-kid Halloween partying with family traditions today. They trade practical takes on decorating, trick-or-treating safety, candy budgets and limits, and letting kids choose costumes, with plenty of personal stories along the way. Follow us on: Instagram Youtube TikTok Facebook This episode may include refer...

Send us Fan Mail Women spend years bleeding, sweating, cramping, forgetting words, and somehow still keeping everyone else alive. This episode is a hilarious, brutally honest look at the full hormonal journey from teenage periods to PCOS to the chaos of perimenopause — and why none of it is even remotely fair. Sil and Inish get real about the first time Bloody Mary arrived, the embarrassment, the...

Send us Fan Mail Mom guilt can make even a little time for yourself feel selfish.  In this episode of Pouring and Parenting , Sil and Inish talk about why so many mothers feel guilty pursuing hobbies or taking a break—and how social media’s “perfect parent” pressure can make it worse. Through personal stories and an honest conversation about family expectations, they explore reclaiming your identi...

Text Us Here! Chores are not just about a clean house - they are about raising kids who can function without you. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re helping your child by doing everything yourself, this conversation will make you rethink the whole “it’s faster if I just do it” trap. Sil and Inish get honest about the great chore debate, from the chaos of their own childhood chores to what they...

Text Us Here! Respect is supposed to help kids move through the world—but what happens when discipline feels too strict, too soft, or just plain confusing? Sil and Inish unpack the tension behind modern parenting, from old-school “because I said so” rules to gentle parenting that may be drifting into passive parenting. Along the way, they ask a question many families face: Is respect automatically...

Text Us Here! The advice to “stop judging” is useless if you don’t understand why we do it. This conversation gets uncomfortably real about the split-second assumptions we make about parents, spouses, strangers, and even the people sitting in church beside us—and why those judgments usually say more about our own stress than the other person’s character. Sil and Inish kick things off with a confes...

Text Us Here! Being the friend who always says yes can quietly drain your energy, your time, and your sense of self. In Elastic Heart , Inish and Sil unpack what happens when you stop orbiting around everyone else's plans, log off the social media noise, and start protecting your own peace. A study shows nearly half of friendships can be one-sided, and this episode gets honest about how that...

Text Us Here! This episode covers two highly relatable parenting mysteries: random wet spots around the house and whether the five second rule still counts once you have kids. Sil and Inish talk through toddler chaos, the shift away from beige, overly curated parenting aesthetics, and the very real gap between social media perfection and everyday family life. It is a candid, funny conversation bet...

Text Us Here! In this episode of Pouring and Parenting , hosts Inish and Sil help listeners reset for the final stretch of the year without guilt or overwhelm. They focus on how to revisit goals, simplify priorities, and get ahead of the holiday season by communicating clearly with your partner. We discuss why August feels like a second New Year for parents, how to shift from goal guilt to an edit...

Text Us Here! In this episode of Pouring and Parenting , Sil and Inish get real about the ways parents can unintentionally hold their kids back — from overhelping with everyday tasks to stepping in too quickly out of anxiety or convenience. The conversation explores the tension between protecting children and giving them space to grow, make mistakes, and build confidence. They also dig into a wild...

Text Us Here! Sleep Regression in Kids and Marriage: What Growth Looks Like in Both This episode covers two kinds of regression that can make life feel chaotic: child sleep regression and marriage regression. Sil and Inish explain why both can show up during periods of growth, and why they usually signal development rather than failure. We discuss the biggest sleep shifts from birth through age tw...

Text Us Here! What if saying yes to everyone else is the very thing draining your body, your marriage, and your peace? Sil and Inish make the case for a better way in this honest, funny, and deeply practical conversation about the power of no. They start with the reality most people ignore: people-pleasing is not just a personality quirk, it can show up as burnout, shallow breathing, jaw tension,...

Text Us Here! Moving chaos tests your marriage—and how to come out stronger — Discover how relocating, whether across town or across states, can turn your relationship into a battlefield. But there's hope: insider tips to keep your love intact amid the chaos. When the stress of packing, unpacking, and cultural shifts hits hard, it’s easy to forget that marriage isn’t always a perfect 50-50 pa...

Text Us Here! Back to school isn’t just about shopping for supplies — it’s a rollercoaster of emotions for parents and kids alike. From nostalgic trips down memory lane to the chaos of outfitting your little ones, this episode dives into the real behind-the-scenes of gearing up for a new school year. Whether it's choosing the trendiest backpacks that cost more than your rent, navigating the c...

Text Us Here! Most couples drift into the roommate zone without even realizing it—and it’s often because they forget to nurture their connection amidst parenting chaos. But what if re-igniting your intimacy is simpler than you think? Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, a powerhouse sex and family therapist, reveals practical, everyday strategies to reclaim your passion and strengthen your marriage—no matte...

Text Us Here! Most parents think “summer break” means chill and top Beach Bum vibes. But Inish reveals the truth: being a summer mom means chaos, popcorn on the floor, and a bathroom meet-cute in Spanish. If you’re drowning in popsicle wrappers, drowning in the heat, or just trying to keep your kids from turning your house into a zoo, this episode is your emergency lifeboat. Join us as we dive int...

Text Us Here! Most of us are living in a digital hall of mirrors — flashing screens, endless episodes, and guilty pleasures that steal hours we’ll never get back. But what if all that scrolling and binge-watching is quietly shrinking your kid’s attention span and your sanity? Spoiler: It’s happening, and the stats are shocking—seven hours of screen time daily for adults, and kids fleeing actual mo...

Text Us Here! Most parents agree: summer is a wild, wonderful rollercoaster, but it gets even better when you know the unspoken rules of party etiquette, fireworks, and family fun. Sil and Inish spill the summer tea—minus the sunscreen—on how to survive the chaos, avoid awkward invites, and keep your sanity in check during this sun-soaked season. From the best ways to celebrate America’s 250th bir...

Text Us Here! Most parents feel like they're running a circus with a thousand balls in the air. In this episode, we reveal the secret hacks that turn chaos into calm—think of them as the cheat codes for adulting. From "blame the clock" tactics with your kids to digital calendars that actually work (yes, you read that right), you'll discover how to reclaim your sanity one small...

Text Us Here! Most fathers just want a guilt-free day to watch sports, game, or sleep in—without the "what do I get dad?" stress. But what if this Father’s Day you totally flipped the script and gave him something he actually cares about—like peace, self-care, or even a fancy new gadget? Yep, the latest trends are all about respecting dad’s chill, embracing his hobbies, and honoring his...

Text Us Here! Most parents today are chasing that viral fame—at the expense of their kids’ dignity, safety, and even sanity. In this eye-opening episode, we dive into the shocking world of digital parent shaming, bizarre child bargaining, and embarrassing social media stunts that leave everyone asking, “Who thought this was okay?” Think public shaming of kids on TikTok is just cringe? Think again....

Text Us Here! Your past doesn’t have to be a ghost haunting your present—unlock your freedom with the 'Old Me' dropout!   If your skeletons are turning into full-blown Mariah-sized closets, this episode is your VIP pass to clean house, forgive yourself, and live lighter than ever. Ever ponder whether those teenage and twenties mistakes are secretly plotting to sabotage your happiness tod...

Text Us Here! Ever wonder how busy moms and dads truly survive a day?   Prepare to laugh, learn, and maybe even slightly envy as Inish and Sil pull back the curtain on their hilarious, chaotic routines. They take you through a typical day—from the wild morning scramble with leftover breakfast battles to the secret sauce behind their “pouring and parenting” lifestyle. You'll discover how trend...

Text Us Here! Most people with crazy in-laws or relationship dilemmas turn to social media for advice. But what if that advice leads to a soap opera? Discover the hilarious (and sometimes horrifying) truths behind strangers' comments on everything from co-parenting drama to wedding day chaos. In this episode, Sil and Inish unpack the wildest social media cries for help—from Coachella camping...

Text Us Here! In this episode, hosts Inish and Sil explore the concept of "living apart together" and its impact on modern relationships. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, from sleep divorces to phone privacy, and how these can lead to healthier, happier lives. With humor and insight, they tackle the challenges of personal space and offer practical tips for couples and p...