ParentTalk# with Bev

This episode continues the theme looking at some hidden cost around what our children might carried beneath the surface.  “Children are always watching. Always listening.  The question is: what are they carrying from the environments we call home—our relationships, families, and circles of friends?”  Listen as I think out loud. If you want to be part of the conversations reach out because the conv...

We praise the parent who “shows up.” But what about the one who never left? In this episode, I unpack some hidden costs behind co-parenting—the invisible labour that often goes unrecognised. This isn’t about blaming men or the absent parent.. It’s about naming patterns, setting boundaries, and telling a fuller story. If you’ve ever felt unseen in your parenting journey… this conversation is for yo...

Join me in our final conversation with  Stephen as we explore beneath the surface when his world changed after the loss of his wife and left raising two young children. He shares a few 'gems' that might help others  going through a similar situation and maybe a new image that vulnerability can be healing.  We can only go so deep in a conversation like this. If you want to explore more of Stephen’s...

Join me in a conversation with a father whose world changed after the loss of his wife, while raising two young children under the age of five. Trigger warning: This episode includes honest discussion around grief—a human experience many of us carry quietly. Because beneath the surface, beyond the roles we play and the faces we show the world, are stories that deserve space, and voices that deserv...

This episode is more than a story—it’s a lesson, a warning, and a call to support a mother fighting for her child. Because this could happen to anyone’s child..  Link to more information and donation page  https://www.tiktok.com/@shezreal7 If you can’t donate, share. If you can’t share, listen (this conversation could save somebody) If you can listen...learn.    🎧 ParentTalk#withBev Guest contact...

This isn’t just a podcast… it’s a reminder. To ask questions. To check your stuff. To stop carrying things you don’t have to carry alone. Help available from : -  citizensadvice.org.uk, https://capuk.org/ If this episode resonates with you, don’t keep it to yourself— share it, follow, and be part of the community we’re building. 🎧 ParentTalk#withBev – Check Your Stuff  Guests contact email parent...

What if life getting in the way… is actually life trying to tell you something? On this episode of ParentTalk#withBev , it’s not just about a stolen car. It’s about what gets exposed when the noise settles. Where we need to heal. Where the real work is. Are we courageous enough to become unstuck? To try something new? To heal ourselves — so we don’t hand the hurt to our children? Are we choosing g...

Life gets in the way sometimes — but that doesn’t mean we quit. We rest. We reset. We reach out. We ask for support. And when we’re ready, we rise. Join me as I share what’s been going on and the questions I’m asking myself as I step into this new season of rising. If you’d like to be a guest and share your story, reach out at parenttalkwithbev@gmail.com . Let’s learn, support, and grow together....

A heartfelt reflection from a Black British mum navigating parenting, presence, and purpose—from schoolyard lessons to adult children, betrayal to boundaries. Join me in Phuket as I shares raw truths, spiritual wisdom, and the unfiltered reality of guiding my young adults through life’s complexities—with curiosity, compassion, and a touch of Caribbean grit. 🎧 Tap in if you’re a parent, an auntie,...

Have we, as parents, lost our curiosity? Between surviving the day-to-day, navigating tech we're not fluent in, and trying to keep up with our kids’ fast-moving digital lives—are we missing moments to truly connect ? In this episode, I dive into everything from AI to TikTok, Kendrick Lamar to K-pop, rabbit holes on YouTube, Netflix dramas, parenting shame, and the power of just being curious . Not...

My guest today is  Lisa Watson a transformational coach dedicated to building a generation that won’t need healing. Through her (re)Parent Yourself Method and the Awaken the One children's book series, she offers a unique approach to breaking generational patterns. Her work bridges spiritual wisdom with practical strategies, empowering individuals to rewrite limiting beliefs and nurture authentic...

I've had conversations with many parents along my journey—single parents, co-parents, and those in partnerships. One theme keeps coming up: the feeling of struggling alone. But why struggle alone? How can we shift this? How can we rewrite this narrative? Listen as I share experiences and practical steps to break this cycle. Maybe it’s time to #FindYourTribe and #MakeThatChange —because no one shou...

Welcome to Part 2 with my guest, Michelle, who is sharing her knowledge around parent's rights in the English Education System?  We recap an item from Part 1 clarifying points, rules and timeframes. Is home education a real choice? What's the difference between Home Schooling and Home Education? What should parents understand If your school says it's not working so move your child? How might paren...

What are parent's rights in the England Education System? If my child has additional learning needs do these right change? What are some rules and timeframes? My guest has over 20 years experience and gives us some valuable insight. Websites referred to in this interview are below. Please copy and paste links where applicable. https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/send-code-of-practice-0-to-2...

A longer than usual podcast about a Black mother's search for healing in a system where services are not holistic. Listen as she shares her experience  with us. Trigger warnings! Some of this may be uncomfortable listening but she leaves us with gems we ALL can learn from. Find the courage to reach out for support & information.  Instagram -@SANCTUARY4SISTERHOOD  Email: INFO@SANCTUARYFORSISTER...

Did you know you need to be a UK homeowner to act as guarantor for you child's rent outside of halls of residents? In Bristol you do! I never knew it was an issue until now.  Low income families with bright children going to university be aware. Starting a degree is not the issue but continuing to the end can be the challenge.   Links below for more research so you can be prepared or campaign for...

Do you know what a H.EA.R. is? Nor did I. If you have children at university or going to university you should know about this. Found out about it while helping a student. Sharing experiences help us to support our children and our communities better. Warning!!  Death by suicide mentioned. Websites mentioned; www.open.ac.uk/study/credit-transfer and www.oiahe.org.uk .  Reach out if you want to be...

Sharing my response to an incident a Year 7 mother is facing with her daughter's new secondary school.  Nipping things in the bud early is key. Schools keep written records, even an email is a record, so parents need to do the same.   What could/should we ask the school to do? Can we use role play at home to help our children practice how they respond to help them survive?  Instagram: Bevparenttal...

When it comes to grandparents and our children are parents always between a rock and a hard place?  A nan's comment, to her grandchild, led to a lengthy conversation between me and her mum. This podcast is some of my reflections on the struggles, questions and tensions of a complex relationships with our parents in this new grandparent role.  How do we find the courage to tell our parents they are...

This was the last unpublished podcast for 2022 reflecting on how we might deal with the long journey of parenting. Like others, over the past twenty years, I have had to find my way over and my journey is not finished.  I sometimes have felt crushed, in this space, but share some things that might help us to cope a little more on our pathways. This parenting experience  is not a short distance jou...

Christmas season 2022 can be the lonely for so many reasons. Parents, or anyone alone at this time can seem hopeless.  Is that  true?  What might we learn from loneliness? How might we share what's really important?  May we find joy in  the simple things and gain hope for our tomorrows. Blessed Holidays All! 

A "nitty gritty" final part of our discussion on the topic.  Do more Black teachers need to apply to teach in these places? Shouldn't different cultures be in these spaces to show the world is a wider place? Is it all about networking rather than education?  Listen as each guest leaves a word of wisdom/advice or encouragement for us all.

I am joined in this discussion by teachers, support staff, parents and a student talking about a  Black experience in Independent/Private Schools.  Why did we send our children to boarding schools? Is  it the right thing to do? Are independent/private schools better environments for our children? Listen as we talk about pros, cons, racism and much more.  

Parenting is a juggling 'act' for many of us. We often hide our struggles, but parents are speaking more about the impact of this topic, on them and their children, triggering this episode. I am sharing a few examples and five sources where help can be found in the UK.  Listen and share for the betterment of our parenting communities as together we can be stronger. Organisations mentioned;  (CAB)...

The controversial use of the N word by a white pupil, at my friends school, triggered a conversation between 2 black mothers. Why is it when our kids are the victims we can find ourselves being called the 'bully'? This and much more in this episode.  Akala addressing the N word you tube clip I hold no copyright to this clip and share for reference of how he addressed the question.  https://youtu.b...