Outwitting the Manipulator

Join Robin and Dennis in this episode of Outwitting the Manipulator as they dive into the fascinating and chilling world of manipulation through the lens of the hit Netflix series "Baby Reindeer." This unique show provides a gripping example of coercive control and psychological manipulation, bringing to life six key tactics used by manipulators. From excessive communication to gaslighting and fal...

In this episode of 'Outwitting the Manipulator,' Robin and Dennis delve into the complexities of passive-aggressive behavior from a communication coaching perspective, rather than a therapeutic one. Throughout the discussion, they differentiate between aggressive, passive, and passive-aggressive behaviors, providing insights into how such dynamics manifest in both personal and professional setting...

Robin and Dennis discuss how to evaluate if your relationships are healthy or unhealthy. They emphasize that happiness and health in relationships are fundamental human rights and responsibilities. The episode outlines three essential steps for assessing the health of any relationship: expressing feelings without blame, ensuring the other person is receptive and truly listens, and observing if the...

In this episode Robin and Dennis guide listeners on how to navigate situations where they observe someone they care about being manipulated. The concept of 'murdering the messenger' is discussed, emphasizing the idea that trying to help can sometimes lead to backlash, especially in sensitive relational dynamics like coercion or manipulation, making the helper a new target. The episode covers strat...

Robin Golinski and Dr. Dennis Becker discuss verbal and physical aggression in sports, focusing on manipulation tactics used by coaches and the impact on athletes. They explore the normalization of aggression in sports at all levels and the dangerous trend of aggression being celebrated and rewarded. The discussion delves into the importance of good coaching, emphasizing understanding individual m...

The podcast delves into the intricate dynamics of communication, manipulation, and persuasion, exploring whether manipulation can ever be deemed appropriate or beneficial. Robin and Dr. Becker engage in a thought-provoking discussion about the complexities of human behavior, emphasizing the importance of critical thinking and curiosity in the face of manipulation. They dissect various scenarios, f...

In this episode of the "Outwitting the Manipulator" podcast, Robin Golinski and Dr. Dennis Becker discuss the prevalence and impact of manipulation in society. They delve into the reasons behind the increasing instances of manipulation in personal relationships, corporations, and governments. Robin and Dennis explore the psychological and evolutionary aspects of manipulation, emphasizing that any...

Robin Golinsky and Dr. Dennis Becker host "Outwitting the Manipulator," a weekly live stream focused on dissecting manipulation and offering strategies to counteract it. In this episode, they discuss the importance of curiosity, critical thinking, and courage in navigating manipulative situations. Robin and Dennis emphasize that a curious mind is an active, thinking mind, distinct from mere distra...

The conversation revolves around the pervasive use of a false sense of urgency in manipulation, whether in marketing tactics, personal interactions, or sales pitches. Dennis and Robin discuss various instances where urgency is manufactured to prompt immediate action without thoughtful consideration. They highlight how manipulators exploit vulnerability, distractiveness, and emotional triggers to p...

ChatGPT In this conversation, Robin and Dennis discuss the topic of manipulation and compliance in relationships, particularly coercive control. They emphasize the importance of recognizing manipulation tactics, taking action to resist manipulation, and avoiding compliance with manipulative behavior. Robin shares her experience of observing manipulative dynamics in online forums and discusses the...

Dennis and Robin delve into the topic how individuals can navigate the spectrum between paranoia and blind trust. They discuss the impact of fear on one's susceptibility to manipulation, using examples such as vaccination beliefs and religious faith. They emphasize the importance of curiosity and critical thinking in avoiding manipulation, encouraging listeners to ask questions and look deeper int...

Your credibility, your integrity, and your reputation are everything. Dennis and Robin talk to you about what your "ethos" is and how a manipulator can "shop" that ethos and use it for their own gain.

Valentine's Day is known for love, chocolate, roses ... and manipulation? Absolutely, according to Robin and Dennis, who are here to guide you through what is often a trecherous day.

Robin and Dennis discuss social media, and how it preys upon people's insecurities. The moving of 'optional' to 'mandatory' for social media has been a tool of manipulation, particularly for teenagers. The episode covers this phenomenon and what can be done about it.

The holiday season brings cheer, but it also gives opportunties for the manipulators. Robin and Dennis help you avoid holiday gloom.

Robin and Dennis welcome Simon, who shares his story of a challenging childhood fraught with manipulation.

Robin and Dennis address the odious fear of speaking, a very common problem at the top of almost everyone's list.

Rich, a former CPA, joins the show to discuss inauthenticity and manipulation in the business world.

Inertia. What has that got to do with manipulation? Inertia is a human condition that's very common, and it's when you're stuck. It's not moving forward. It's not doing anything. You cycle through life. Sometimes you're active and productive. Other times you experience inertia throughout the day. Robin and Dennis discuss the intersection of intertia and manipulation.

Alison Kurt joins the show with an open and honest account of her experiences with a narciissist.

When is a compliment not a compliment? When it is backhanded -- and thus a tool of manipulation. Robin and Dennis discuss.

Dennis and Robin hear a tale shared by Vanessa, a young target of manipulation.

Communication is a good thing -- until it is used for manipulation. Robin & Dennis discuss.

Dennis and Robin explain what "love bombing" is -- then hear a real example of it with guest Lolya Pushak.

Are you complicit in your own manipulation? Robin and Dennis discuss what you need to know.