Out The Gayte

Gaytors, we have some news. After four incredible years together, we have decided to bring Out The Gayte to an end. And what a shame because we're sure this would've been the year we finally made the FieldDays trip happen. But we wanted to come back in for one final poddy record to tell you about our summer holidays, chat about whether date nights are required in long term relationships, why Brad...

It's that time of the year where the boys leave their loved ones at home, sneak into the podcast studio on Christmas morning, pop open a bottle and swap gifts. There are some doozies under the tree, and the boys are very merry and VERY gay. Plus we look forward to 2026 and share our hopes and dreams for the new year. Merry Christmas, Gaytors! Follow the podcast on Instagram See omnystudio.com/list...

Welcome to the final main pod of 2025 - and there's so much to cover off! First up, has anyone else ever put the metal cage from a champagne bottle over their private parts? No?! Just Brad?! Chris has a warning for anyone using Facebook Marketplace after he was scammed trying to buy a trailer. The boys are now all deep in the world of Heated Rivalry, and Matty wants to know if the horniest show on...

Christmas is here and the boys have cracked open a cold one for the penultimate episode of 2025. We go full boomer this week with our gripes - including loud BYOs, bad drivers, and escalator hogs. Matty had some transport dramas trying to get to a wedding in Canterbury last week - enter his hero Leanne. We talk erections (Christmas tree edition), and the importance of balls in the erection process...

There is a big discussion to kick off this week's pod about wheelie bins, tow bars, and why Brad thinks Matty needs to get an engineer in to weld together a rig - it'll all make sense! Turns out we were lead astray and you actually can  have peacocks on a residential property! There are gay sheep overseas and the boys are outraged on their behalf - BLATANT sheep homophobia is at play, and Out...

The Bumuda Triangle is no more - with Matty moved, it’s more of a squiggly line. But boy oh boy do we have some stories from Matty’s move to the “farm”. He’s a cowboy now, don’t you know?! There are winners and losers in sport this week - first the NZ Breakers who have refused to wear a Pride flag. We're not happy, Jan. But there's a gorgeous story worth celebra...

Come crack open a cold one with the boys this week as the summer vibes are ON. First thing's first, we discuss the (not so) breaking news of the first openly gay Sexiest Man Alive - and we are here for him and his slutty little glasses. We told you about the Olympic athlete in hot water over his OnlyFans account, but he has now given the middle finger to his haters by revealing how much he's actua...

The sun is shining and the boys are ready to declare - summer is here! There was only one way this episode was ever going to start, though, and that is with a deep dive into Matty and Brad's Tunnel Tour '25. Hear all about the bus nicknamed Black Beauty, the gorgeous guide named Ezra, the slight hiccup which resulted in a bout of hitchhiking, and the copious amounts of wine consumed. There's also...

The Doc is full and the boys are energised this week - but first thing's first, what the hell happened at the big gay Halloween party?! Brad brings this week's Hottie of the Week via the new hit show Boots - and it has us reminiscing about our foray into male erotica. We have managed to get our hands on an advanced copy of the upcoming Kiwi Firefighters' calendar, so for the good of the Gaytors we...

Did you miss us?! We are BACK! It’s been a hot minute and there is so much to catch up on, including, but not limited to: Chris' European adventures, which involved him having to come out all over again  Matty's bad boy reputation now that he's got a tattoo Brad's new TV show obsession, which includes a peen count that you'll be very impressed by Plus Matty has a proposition for the boy...

Once again Pockets and Brad have knocked one out of the park and come together for a record without fearless leader Chris on board to handle logistics this week. Straight out the gate (no pun intended) Brad needs to confront Matty about something his partner Karl witnessed this weekend - it involves a stop sign and a sprinkling of road rage. There's a couple of Hotties to discuss - first up are we...

The boys had to start this week's episode with a gentle ribbing of Pockets who found himself the lead story on two major news publications after his disastrous weekend! One of us is about to go to Disneyland for the first time, one of us has been EIGHT times, and one swears he’ll never ever go - can you guess who’s who?! We discuss the news of Charlie Kirk's death, and the complicated...

There's a lot in the doc this week for the boys to get through - and first thing's first, did Chris follow through with the challenge set for him to talk to his gym crush? You know we can't resist talking about The White Lotus - and with the news that the next season will be filmed in France, we start building our dream cast. We also have a few TV recommendations for you this week, including somet...

Move over Sticky Bishops - there's a new fast food item taking the boys by the horns, so to speak. None of us are immune to a cheeky perv from time to time, but it turns Chris has been checking out someone he actually knows! So the boys have set him a challenge. There's not one, not two, but THREE hotties of the week - including the son of a very famous couple. Brad's been investigating elephants...

You know it’s a good week on Out The Gayte when there’s not one, but two, Hotties of the Week, and we likey. We run through a list of things that just feel gay - like lying on your stomach on the phone. We toss around a few ideas for the title of ep, and of course one of them is Jonathan Bailey related. We’ve got two new words to add to your vocabulary - get ready to use dwerking...

There is a LOT to catch up on this week - our Papi Chris is back from Mexico with everything that went down with his surrogacy journey. Firstly, how was the clinic's cuck chair, and what visual aids were available? But secondly, why a sea turtle felt like a message from on high. Brad, the master of words, teaches the boys about the phrase "crutch cruise", after he swung past the local skate park f...

A very proud moment this week, as the pairing most likely to pull pin on a podcast record manage to get together! Chris is away in Mexico kickstarting his journey to daddyhood, and we were excited to get a voice message from him! It was a stressful morning for Pockets, with his dog Otis going missing - find out where he ended up! Plus is Brad a lifesaver?! He was a first responder to an incident o...

There is  big news on the pod this week - Chris has his bags packed ready to jet off to Mexico for the start of his journey to fatherhood! We get the full low down on what's involved, and the part that's already making him emotional. Matty had a big mix-up with his Uber Eats delivery while hungover on the couch - but if there's a silver lining, at least it didn't involve a Sticky Bishop. Ther...

The boys are strapped in, but it turns out Brad and Matty have been seeing a lot of each other recently. First there was the birthday dinner where Brad learnt something about Pockets that he's been hiding, and it got him very hot and bothered. Then the two of them had a date night Saturday night at Brad's house - and yes, it did involve a Sticky Bishop - but Matty needs to confess something. Chris...

The boys, perhaps for the first time in Out The Gayte history, have followed through with something! The plans made it out of the group chat and the fellas headed along to the Falcons strip show fundraiser. But before that, there were pre-drinks at Brad's, and Chris found something in his bathroom that he's never mentioned to us before now. Speaking of bathrooms, you will not believe what was foun...

Never heard the phrase “sticky bishop” before?! Don't stress - by the end of this episode, you'll have heard it 100 times. Matty watched the rugby on the weekend as was suddenly very interested in the commentary after some wildly sexual innuendo. Speaking of rugby, we were very invested in Brad's story about the straight team mates who got a little...umm...gay in the locker rooms. The...

It's a raspy start to the pod with Pockets losing his voice over the weekend at a queer party - but wait til you hear about the despicable behaviour by new podcast villain "Shitty Little Twink". We had a Gaytor slide into our DMs with an update for Chris on the Shawn Mendes/Robert Irwin rumours and it is JUICY. Budapest Pride was cancelled, but you try telling the hungry gays of Hungary that they...

We've got a full house this week with the boys back together and the internal flirting is at an all-time high. Chris has been duped by AI and the deception really stings - why did he think Robert Irwin had fallen in love with a male pop star?! Not usually one for decisiveness, Pockets took control of the group ordering at a restaurant, but a rogue dish tipped him over the edge. Matariki has us all...

Brad's back! And the boys are begging him to show off his Speedo tan line. There was a mid-winter Christmas gathering at Pockets' house this weekend, and his story swings wildly from wholesome slow cooker chat to debaucherous gay clubbing in a matter of minutes! Chris was so overwhelmed by all your beautiful feedback about his journey to fatherhood, and there's an update this week - he has been *a...

Brad's back on Naked Attraction: All Stars but Chris and Matty have SO much to discuss. First up, Pockets roped in his husband to reluctantly take part in a running race - so did their marriage survive?  There is HUGE news in Chris' household involving the potential pitter-patter of little feet - you're not going to want to miss this. We're still obsessed with the real-world MAFS experiment,...