N'tyce Conversations

 New Episode Drops Tonight at 7PM! Episode Title: Give Me Back My Name! When the marriage ends, does the name have to go too? Tonight, we’re breaking down the drama of exes who demand their former spouse drop the last name — ego, identity, kids, and all. It’s blunt. It’s real. It’s one of those conversations people don’t want to have but should. Tune in tonight at 7PM wherever you get your podcast...

📄In this episode, we’re diving into the 80/20 love rule — that tricky balance between needs and wants in relationships. You might have 80% of what you need with your partner, but that tempting 20% you want can start looking really good. Is it worth chasing? Or are we just running from the work love really requires? We’re breaking down why people jump for that 20%, what “watering your own grass” a...

📝 We’ve all got a past. But when it comes to parenting, how much should you reveal? In this episode, we dive deep into the age-old question: Should you tell your kids about the crazy things you did back in the day, or keep it locked away forever? From “none of your business” to “let me be real with you,” we explore the pros and cons, the right timing, and how much is too much to share. Join the c...

📝Are you a freak in the sheets… or just vanilla with sprinkles? In this episode, things get spicy—and a little hilarious—as we break down the freak scale from 1 to 10. From missionary-only lovers to sex swing pros, we explore what it means to be vanilla, adventurous, freaky, and full-blown kinky. You’ll hear about wild bedroom setups, questionable door frames, and that one game on a girls' tr...

🎯"Do Nice Guys Finish Last?"It’s one of the oldest debates in dating — but are we confusing nice with weak? In this honest, unfiltered convo, we break down the myths about “nice guys,” the allure of the bad boy, and what women really want, especially after 40. Is being a gentleman mistaken for being soft? And is unpredictability really more attractive than stability? Let’s talk about wh...

📖 Beyoncé said it best: “Let me upgrade you.” But what does that really mean in relationships? In this episode of N’tyce Conversations , Ernest and Felicia unpack the fine line between helping your partner level up and overstepping. From fixing his wardrobe to polishing his business game, when is “upgrading” love — and when does it backfire? We talk Bobby Brown, fashion faux pas, and the danger o...

📖Let’s get real — 68% of women admit to faking it at some point in their lives. But why? Is it about protecting a partner’s ego, avoiding awkwardness, or just wanting the moment to end? In this episode of N’tyce Conversations, Ernest and Felicia dive deep into the taboo topic of faking orgasms. We’re pulling back the covers (literally and figuratively) to talk honesty, satisfaction, and whether p...

Can scheduling sex actually save your relationship… or does it kill the mood? Let’s talk about it. In this episode, we dive into the not-so-spontaneous but oh-so-important topic of scheduling sex. Is planning intimacy the secret to keeping passion alive in long-term relationships, or does it kill the mood? We break down the myths, benefits, and real-life strategies couples use to make sure their s...

📖 Studies say the average man lasts just 5.4 minutes in bed, while it takes most women 13 minutes to climax. That’s a serious gap. So what’s the solution? Should men “train for stamina,” should women adjust expectations, or is it about technique over time? In this episode of N’tyce Conversations, Ernest and Felicia break down the real talk about the bedroom gap — what’s too short, what’s too long...

It’s 2025, but the debate is still hot: should a man always pick up the tab on the first date—or is it fair game for anyone? Ernest and Felicia get real about modern gender roles, expectations, and what happens when tradition meets reality. Is paying a sign of respect… or just outdated thinking? This conversation might just change how you look at dating forever.

🎙️ Is body count still a thing for grown folks? In this episode of N’tyce Conversations, Felicia and Ernest get raw about the question people love to avoid: how many partners is too many — and does it even matter after 40? From honesty (or the lack of it), to evolving standards, to why people lie in the first place — we’re not holding back. Grown, real, and unapologetic.  #body count in relationsh...

Is money sexy—or stressful—in your relationship? In this episode of N’tyce Conversations, Ernest and Felicia dive deep into “Financial Foreplay”—where desire meets dollars. Is being the breadwinner a turn-on? Can you really date on a budget? What happens when gender roles and money collide? We’re talking cash, compatibility, and connection. Buckle up—this conversation might just cost you… or make...

You’re doing all the things couples do—dates, sleepovers, even family cookouts—but when someone asks what y’all are... silence. In this episode, we dive headfirst into the murky waters of situationships. Are they just lazy relationships disguised as “taking it slow,” or are they emotional limbos we willingly sign up for out of fear, comfort, or confusion? One thing's for sure—somebody's not being...

Preview for Episode 12 - Situationships

What would you say to the younger you—the one who thought they knew it all? In this episode, Ernest and Felicia get real about growth, regrets, and hard-earned lessons from back in the day. From wild youth to wisdom, they reflect on the crack era, street culture, and the self-awareness that only time can bring. It’s raw, it’s reflective, and it’s all love.

Is "sexy" just for the young? Not a chance. In this episode of N’tyce Conversations, Felicia and Ernest (aka Esquire) keep it grown and unapologetic as they explore what it really means to be sexy over 40. From fupas and dad bods to confidence, catfishing with Spanx, and getting naked with the lights on—this is the kind of real talk the internet needs. #sex at any age, #aging and intimacy, #senior...

What would you do if your ex left you....then started dating the same sex? Let's unpack the shock, ego, and emotions behind this unexpected twist. Real talk. No filters. Just grown conversation. ntyce conversations, YouTube, dating over 40,

We’ve all thought about it. That ex you still think about—can second chances really work? This week on N’tyce Conversations, Ernest and Felicia get into the truth about going back to a past love. When is it redemption, and when is it just repeating the cycle? Whether you’re thinking about circling back or already there, this episode will help you move with clarity—not confusion.

Heartbreak changes you—but it doesn’t have to break you. In this episode of N’tyce Conversations, Ernest and Felicia unpack what it really looks like to restart your love life after a deep emotional loss. From healing in silence to learning how to trust again, this is the real talk most of us wish we had sooner. If you’ve ever wondered how to move forward without losing yourself in the process, th...

In this episode, we’re stepping into some uncomfortable but necessary territory: the unfolding legal saga surrounding Sean “Diddy” Combs. With mounting lawsuits, disturbing video footage, and resurfaced allegations spanning decades, the conversation is no longer just about one man — it’s about culture, silence, protection, and the price of power. Felicia and Ernest sit down to dissect not just wha...

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Foreplay isn’t just a warm-up—it’s an art form. In this sensual and insightful episode of N’tyce Conversations, we explore how anticipation, touch, and intentional intimacy become even more powerful with age. For the grown and sexy over 40, foreplay often holds more meaning, deeper connection, and greater satisfaction than ever before. Foreplay hits different over 40. Join us on N’tyce Conversatio...

Why is oral intimacy still taboo in parts of the Black community—especially for grown folks over 40? On this episode of N’tyce Conversations, we explore the roots, the resistance, and the rise of pleasure without shame. Let’s talk about it.

In this premiere episode, we take you behind the scenes of N’tyce Conversations—where bold meets polished and real talk lives. Get to know the voices behind the mic: one unfiltered, one refined, both passionate about creating a space for grown and sexy dialogue. We share how our paths crossed, the energy that sparked this podcast, and why we believe it’s time for authentic, elevated conversations...

Is the future of intimacy already here? Join us as we unpack the rise of sextech, AI companions, and what it all means for love, pleasure, and connection after 40. It’s grown, it’s sexy, and it’s a convo you don’t want to miss.