My Best Ex

End of Year Wrap- Celebrating Growth and Change Join Gloria and Zina as they wrap up 2025 with reflections, gratitude, and a look ahead to 2026. In this episode, they share personal rituals, discuss the journey of Gloria's show "Auntie Supreme" in development with CBS, and explore the power of surrender and listening as they prepare for the new year. Tune in for an inspiring convers...

Gloria and Zina explore the complexities of navigating grief and loss during the holiday season. They discuss personal experiences with loss, the importance of honoring loved ones, and the emotional fluctuations that come with grief. The conversation emphasizes the significance of kindness and connection, especially during difficult times, and how acts of generosity can serve as a tribute to those...

Gloria and Zina discuss their experiences surrounding Zina's recent wedding, touching on themes of friendship, life changes, and the emotional journey of planning and executing a wedding. They share personal anecdotes about the road trip to the wedding, unexpected weather challenges, and the magic of the ceremony. The conversation emphasizes the importance of being present during significant...

Gloria and Zina discuss Zina's upcoming wedding, the excitement surrounding it, and the preparations involved. They delve into the significance of intimate weddings, the process of writing personal vows, and the deeper meaning of marriage beyond just the ceremony. They talk about the peak queerness of Gloria giving the toast at the wedding and the  conversation highlights the importance of su...

In this episode of My Best Ex, Gloria and Zina go down a musical memory lane with a chat about the Lilith Fair documentary. They also check in about their personal assignments, the metaphor of trees shedding their baggage, and the significance of female artists in the 90s music scene. The conversation culminates in imagining a modern-day Lilith Fair, highlighting the ongoing need for spaces that c...

In this episode, Gloria and Zina check-in on the assignments that Glo gave to Zina. They discuss the importance of recognizing small miracles in daily life, and the challenges of journaling. They also explore the concept of artist dates as a form of self-care and reflect on Gloria's recent birthday trip to Banff, Canada, highlighting the beauty of nature and the joy of reconnecting with frien...

Zina weighs in on the life assignments she gave Gloria. They also discuss the challenges of navigating career paths and the power of positive thinking and manifestation. The conversation emphasizes the significance of joy in the creative process and the need to surrender to life's uncertainties while remaining open to new possibilities. Gloria gives Zina some life assignments that she needs t...

Gloria and Zina discuss the challenges and adjustments of moving from LA to Atlanta, including feelings of homesickness and the search for familiar comforts like food. They explore the importance of self-care routines, the excitement of new adventures, and the complexities of dating in a new city. Zina gives Gloria an assignment to get out of the house and try something new. We’ll see the next epi...

In this episode, Gloria and Zina explore themes of friendship, life transitions, and personal aspirations through a card game, “Scenario Cards,” a late night “I can’t sleep purchase,”  that Gloria purchased at 3am off of Instagram. They discuss their new living situations, reflect on their dreams of experiencing natural wonders, and share their thoughts on what they would wish for if given a mirac...

Get ready for some Big Dana Energy as we welcome the absolutely incredible Dana Goldberg to the show! Dana brings her signature wit and warmth as she dishes on everything from her bartending days to navigating the wild world of maintaining friendships with exes. Dana, who’s raised over $70 million for causes close to her heart through organizations like GLAAD and the Human Rights Campaign, proves...

In this episode of My Best Ex, Gloria and Zina celebrate National Dog Day with a mix of laughs, love, and a few wild dog-mom confessions. From pampered pups to the outrageous things they’ve done in the name of canine devotion, it’s clear these two would do just about anything for their pets. The only thing they can’t agree on? Whether pet psychics are the real deal—or just a doggone scam.

In this hot topic and engaging conversation, Gloria and Zina explore the complexities of friendship, political discourse, and the challenges of navigating social interactions in today's world. A personal anecdote that Zina shares about a surprising encounter in Queens,  leads to a broader discussion about race, gender, and the nature of political conversations. Gloria talks about the latest t...

In this very special episode of My Best Ex, hosts Gloria and Zina welcome Bridget and Kyle from the hit Netflix reality series, Queer Ultimatum. Zina reminds everyone what led to her chance encounter with the couple and then Bridget and Kyle discuss their experiences on the show, and the pressures of reality TV. They also give some tea on some of the behind  the scenes happenings. They open up abo...

Gloria and Zina reflect on their recent interview with Sister Mary. They discuss the idea of living a life of service, and the ripple effect of positive actions. The conversation also touches on the hosts' musings about what it would be like to be a nun, the importance of radical love, and a chance encounter with stars from Queer Ultimatum, who will be guests on their next episode.

In this episode of My Best Ex, Gloria and Zina welcome Sister Mary, who shares her journey from a typical life to becoming a vowed religious sister. The conversation explores the differences between nuns and sisters, the challenges of family acceptance, and the importance of inclusivity in faith. Sister Mary discusses her daily life, the significance of community, and the rise of spiritual retreat...

In this episode, Gloria and Zina delve into the intersection of spirituality and identity, particularly within the LGBTQ community. They discuss personal experiences with faith, as Zina coins the term “closeted Christian,” and they talk about the challenges of identifying as LGBTQ, and being a person of faith, using the WNBA player Paige Bueckers as a reference. The conversation also touches on th...

Gloria and Zina  spread the gospel of Jewel as they honor the legacy of Jewel Thais- Williams, a trailblazer in the Black queer community in Los Angeles. They discuss her life, contributions, and the impact of her establishment, Catch One, as a safe space for Black LGBTQ+ people.  They each take a trip down memory lane as they remember their first experiences walking intoCatch One as baby dykes an...

This week, Gloria and Zina discuss the reality show 'Queer Ultimatum,' exploring its premise, the relationships of various couples, and the emotional dynamics at play. They play armchair  therapists and analyze the couples' behaviors and they try to decide who in the cast they are most like.  

Gloria and Zina welcome the legendary Lynn Love- a former firefighter turned wine shop owner, and community leader in her own right. The conversation explores themes of  personal growth and the journey of transitioning careers. Lynn thoughtfully shares her experiences as one of the first Black female firefighters in Cincinnati, discussing the challenges and rewards of her 30-year career. We find o...

Gloria and Zina have their first guest… and in the spirit of “Deep Lez” they bring on one of Zina's exes, Sherry. Sherry and Zina talk about how they first met and Sherry shares her journey from the political arena in the US to finding her paradise in Mexico. They also talk about the importance of community, safety, and belonging for queer individuals, as well as Sherry's vision for crea...

In this episode of 'My Best Ex', hosts Gloria and Zina take questions from their listeners. They tell a ridiculous story of how you shouldn’t call the police for dog issues and they discuss the importance of allowing growth in friendships, the dynamics of long-lasting connections, and how humor can play a vital role in navigating challenges.  The conversation highlights the significance...

The conversation highlights the evolution of their identities and the importance of representation in the lesbian community. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into their past relationships, exploring the complexities of love, breakups, and family expectations.

Gloria and Zina kick-off Pride Month by sharing their personal experiences with Pride events and their coming out journeys. They reflect on the significance of Pride as a celebration of identity and community, while also acknowledging the activism that is integral to its history. They explore the complexities of coming out, the dynamics of family relationships, and the importance of grace within t...

This episode of 'My Best Ex', opens with a shout out to the podcast, “We Can Do Hard Things,” as Zina unpacks her experience of going to the book tour in NYC. Inspired by a section in the book, Gloria and Zina dive deep into the concept of attachment styles because, “what could be more lesbian?” They explore secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles, sharing personal...

In this episode of 'My Best Ex', Gloria and Zina delve into the complexities of midlife shifts. The episode kicks off with a silly back and forth in which Gloria agrees to disagree about Zina’s real age. Zina explains the theory behind why she decided to change her birthday while Glo accuses Zina of being Benjamin Button. They discuss the physical and emotional changes that come with age...