Modernhood

In this episode, the guys unpack how education is shifting — and what that means for the next generation. Phillip emphasizes the importance of curiosity and lifelong learning, while Hansel and Carlos reflect on their own college journeys, the role of access, and how parents try to make the “right” decisions in a world that’s changing fast. From AI-driven schools to kids pursuing creative paths, th...

Parenting comes with enough guilt — you don’t need more of it. In this conversation, Hansel and Carlos unpack what it really means to parent intentionally without comparing yourself to others. From screen-time rules and family dinners to the art of flexibility, they get real about setting boundaries that actually work for your household. The dads also explore how media literacy, self-awareness, an...

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, the dads unpack how family traditions evolve with time — and what it means to raise kids in a world that’s both nostalgic and new. From Santa and the Tooth Fairy to honoring ancestors with coffee and candles, they share how they’re rethinking rituals to fit their modern families. The conversation dives into food, faith, and the joy of creating memories that...

This week, the dads go deep on father figures—how our dads (and stand-ins) shaped us, the messy parts we chose to unlearn, and the traditions we’re proud to carry forward. Carlos shares how a larger-than-life dad left a lasting blueprint, Phil reflects on friendship with his father across miles, and Hansel gets real about piecing together support after loss. From recording our elders’ stories to b...

Between 3 a.m. toddler monologues, grocery-store banana chaos, and 5 a.m. alarm clocks, the three of us get real about the season every parent knows too well: not-enough-sleep o’clock. We swap stories on sleep regressions, teething, and kids who “just want to hang,” then dig into the habits that keep us afloat—routines that actually work, making room for decompression, outdoor time as a secret wea...

Fatherhood flips the script—but is it really an identity change, or a shift in priorities? In this episode, Carlos, Phil, and Hansel get honest about trading solo rituals for family rhythms, building shared spaces without losing themselves, and why self-care isn’t selfish when you’re raising tiny humans. From morning pages gone missing to gym time, kitchen therapy, and two-hour runs (respectfully...

Being there matters more than doing it all. In this episode, the guys get honest about what “presence” really looks like — from toddler chaos and phone distractions to work shifts, commutes, and calendar Tetris. They unpack the guilt that creeps in, why quality time beats sheer hours, and how presence evolves as kids grow. You’ll hear practical ways to set intentions, communicate availability, and...

Should we give our kids everything we never had—or are we setting them up to miss out on life’s most valuable lessons? In this episode, Carlos, Hansel, and Phil dive into the dilemma every parent wrestles with: where’s the line between providing and spoiling? From Target trips that end in surprise pandas, to kids learning the hard way about money, to creating “artificial struggles” that teach pati...

When does it really sink in that you’re a dad? In this episode, Carlos, Phil, and Hansel swap stories about the moments that made fatherhood feel real — from delivery rooms and sleepless nights to unexpectedly tender family milestones. They dive into the emotional highs, self-care rituals (hello, skincare), and community support that help them navigate parenthood. This conversation also explores t...

In this debut episode of Modernhood, the dads gather around the mic to talk about a tradition born in lockdown: Waffle Wednesday. What started as a simple excuse to connect with friends turned into a powerful reminder about the role vulnerability, authenticity, and intention play in keeping relationships alive—especially as parents in the digital age. The conversation ranges from managing kids’ sc...

In our very first episode, hosts Carlos, Phil, and Hansel introduce themselves and share their raw, real, and relatable experiences as dads. From navigating new fatherhood to the growing pains of parenting different kids in different ways, they reflect on the highs, lows, and unexpected moments that come with raising children today. You’ll hear why this podcast exists, what to expect in future epi...