Mess and The City

Okay, so what do we call those types of people who follow you on all your socials but never interact with your content? MONITORING SPIRITS!!! Tune in to hear our opinion about 'these kinds of people' and why it takes away the fun in social media.

Remember that one time my friend canceled on me and I then met the love of my life? Yeah, no me neither. But all the girls on TikTok do! It's called the butterfly effect, apparently. Let's dive into this concept and chat about the role it has played in our lives.

A lot is going on..... But even in some of the darkest times, it's important to take care of ourselves and each other. So tune in for some old-school fun and yap. Let's dilly-dally together :)

What are the young girls and gurls in their early twenties up to these days? And why is it so hard to keep up? Let’s chitchat about it!

To be in community with others, or to be completely independent, that's the question. Let's talk about what it takes to build and sustain a community, whether with friends or family. And is that even still possible in this modern age? Tune in to hear our take on this.

Cause really, do you need ANOTHER job? Why can't we just enjoy our talents and hobbies in peace these days? Does everything need to become a side hustle? Let's talk about it! #girlbossgaslightgatekeep #sidehustles

What to do while waiting for your flight from the DMV to Amsterdam? Record a new podcast episode with your dear friend and co-host! Tune in to hear our thoughts about old friendships, meeting new people, and having tough conversations with longtime friends. Can you believe it? This is the first we are recording irl, side by side! We hope you enjoy it.

Or... to exist is to spend? Cause can you really still go outside without spending money? If you ask us, the answer is ‘NO’!! But according to our favorite Boomers, we got it all wrong.

Oh my, it has been a year. So let’s talk about it! What did we learn, what did we watch, what did we read, what did we listen to, and what do we want to do differently in the new year? Tune in to get some answers and for some laughs!

Yes, we need to talk about Spotify Wrapped again... but also, does Santa go to the White House, and why are biology teachers so mean? Tune in for some answers, and some laughs!

Let’s talk about the one and only real friendship test: Girls Trips! Can you bring your boyfriend? Can you talk about relationship trouble, and do you bring someone back to the room? Tune in the hear our opinions and everything about our worst trips, featuring the one and only girls trip connoisseur Amay Garay.

Let’s talk about it…. Cause honestly it’s all we’ve been talking about this past week: the elections. How did we get here? And where do we go from here? Tune in to hear our opinions on the outcome, the uptick in Latinos supporting Trump, and Black women taking a step back. Also, take a shot every time Nahawi says: “I think it’s interesting.”

No, cause really…. What is the difference between being delusional and having big dreams? And how do you set up a GoFundMe account to secure a down payment on your dream home? Tune in for a new episode to hear us yapp about these topics!

We are back y’all! Did you miss us? Tune in for the very first episode of season two, where your favorite hosts Nahawi and Veronica reminisce on their summer holiday and discuss everything else under the sun: from ‘streetwalker fashion’ and 'uncancelling' celebrities to swifties, barbz, and lesbian love.

That’s it for now folks! Season 1 of Mess and The City is done. Can You believe it? Time flies when you’re having fun. Tune in one more time to hear us talk about dating, Sex and the City, and all the things we have learned while recording our first season. See you soon! Follow us on Instagram @messandthecitypod for updates on season 2. Thank you for listening and for all your support.

This week we are swiping left and right on Bumble and Hinge! You really don't want to miss this... So tune in to hear all about our online dating experiences, our 'icks', and of course our potential dates.

Let’s continue the seriousness! And let’s continue to talk about Baby Reindeer and I May Destroy You, and how these two shows have beautifully created space to talk about sexuality, assault, and trauma. In part 2 of this miniseries, we go a little bit further and discuss how the depiction of SA and domestic violence in the media affects our thought process and behaviors. We also talk about holding...

Let’s get a bit more serious this time. Let’s talk about Baby Reindeer and I May Destroy You, and how these two shows have masterfully created space to talk about sexuality, assault, and trauma. In part 1 of a 2 part miniseries, we set the foundation to get into a broader conversation about the depiction of assault in movies and TV shows, and the complex but beautiful space survivors of these assa...

Let’s talk about drinking culture: from the US to Europe and from the Caribbean to Central America! Tune in for a fun episode with our special guest Hector Gonzalez Magno.

Happy Sunday and happy new MATC episode. Tune in for a little history lesson about the restrictions on pleasure in the US with no one other than our friend and scientist Brian Weakly.

After a mid-season break your favorite podcast is back! And let's get into it darlings because we really need to talk about ‘block etiquette’ and getting a 'Ring by Spring’. So tune in for a brand new episode of Mess And The City with your hosts Nahawi & Veronica.

Girls hold up! Is the big three spilling their big tea? Apparently… Tune in to hear our opinions about the Drake & Cole vs Kendrick rap beef, produced by no one other than Future.

Would we ever pull a Brad Pitt? Meaning, would we ever date a person that looks or acts just like us? And how do we feel about changing up our aesthetic for our partner? Tune in to a new episode of Mess And The City to hear our opinions on dating our twin!

Who’s messier than an athlete who can’t play sports anymore? Veronica, Nahawi, and Ajani with a microphone in hand! Let’s get our heads in the game and talk about sports. Tune in for a fun podcast with no one other than our favorite sports connoisseur, journalist, and podcast host Ajani Daniel.

Let’s dive into the art of celebrating yourself, the evil eye, and recognizing the backhanded compliments for what they really are; shady affffffff! As always tune in for a good time with your two podcast hosts Veronica and Nahawi.