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This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it.  On the last episode of the season, we talk about the one and only, inevitable (or not), mystical climax—orgasm. Is it really THAT important when it comes to a fulfilling sex life? Is it really about the journey and not the destination?  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it.  With the alternative becoming mainstream these days, we take a dive into fetishes and kinks out there. As self-proclaimed 'vanilla' and kink-curious lesbians, we share our brief experiences with alternative sex play.   Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it.  Straps-ons and dildos are they really necessary to a good sex life? We give some strong (and lazy) opinions on the matter. One thing's for sure, sex toys can help spice things up in the bedroom but why the hell are they so expensive?? Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it.  From one night stands to threesomes, what's the deal about them? We explore the horizons of our sexual openness and ask the real important question — is it alright being vanilla? Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

We all learn about sex in our early formative years and the school curriculum proves to be the perfect place for misconceptions and fear mongering, at least of what we remember from it anyway. This episode, we get singer-songwriter and actress/stuntwoman (what can she not do??), Jean Seizure, to join us as we discover just exactly how different or similar our growing up experiences were.  Follow u...

This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it.  Does sexual health matter to lesbians? We share our first experiences with sexual health tests and clinics, and other sex-related ailments. For queer women in Singapore, we list down a couple of places where testing is accessible to all.  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it.  Masturbation gets the hot seat this episode (to the horror of our religious teachers and parents). We explore the many ways and tools that get us in the mood, and why masturbating is so important to self discovery and having a great sex life.  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it.  Don't we just love a good build up? On this episode, we talk about one of the most important parts of sex — foreplay. From an intellectual discussion to listening to sensual music, there are many ways to tease and get in the mood. We share some of the ways that get us h0rny, or do just the opposite.  Follow us...

This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it.  The buzzword of the last few years, CONSENT, is somewhat of a newish concept to us, older millennials. We talk about our own experiences with giving and struggling to take consent back even as fully formed adult women (yes).  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

We're back!! Missed us? This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. It's an understatement to say that sex education is desperately lacking in Singapore .  While we're not experts, we're hoping that breaking the stigma for, especially, WLW sex can help us reclaim the way we talk and think about the issue, far far removed from the male gaze...

Our last episode for 2023 starts on a relative harmless note with beige flags (what are they? and why are they beige??) and turns into a reflection for us both. It's safe to say that we're (still) struggling with social media and the big WWW. We throw in some of our hopes for the new year and turning older in 2024. Adulting, amirite?  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok...

Did the Womens World Cup 2023 increase visibility to the world wide web of lesbians in sports? What sports did we use to excel in, do we still excel in any? And we ask the hardest question, what sport has the most lesbians? Would we date sporty spice?  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

What is LDR? Why do lesbians love getting into them? We chat about our experiences, the pros, the cons, whether we recommend them and what to do when you're apart from each other. Does an open relationship help along the way? Have you been in any? Do YOU recommend them, and what's the biggest hurdle?  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

What does the term 'U-Haul' mean in the WLW dictionary? We give acknowledgement to the lightning fast speed at which sapphics move in with each other, and breakdown the pros and cons of nesting. Does teamwork actually make the dream work?  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

The dreaded LBD (lesbian bed death) is more common than most of us realise, and no, it's not just an urban myth. Is it a symptom of something larger in the relationship or just two people get too comfortable and lazy with each other? We talk about how to rekindle the spark with your partner and share our own experiences with this awful plague. Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tik...

We explore the phenomenon of lesbians dating straight women being, of course, two women who don't do that. (Don't @ us!) Still, lots of our lesbian friends make the annual conversion pilgrimage every time. Listen to us break down the allure of the straight woman, untouched by the sapphic WLW scene.  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

Happy Pride Month and happy Pink Dot Day!!! For those who don't reside in Singapore, Pink Dot is our country's equivalent of pride 'march' where queers and allies squeeze in Hong Lim Park for a day. Listen to our season 1 bonus episode a sample of last year's Pink Dot.  Both Jess and I won't be making it for Pink Dot this year but in celebration of #pride, we're...

Are relationships ever straightforward? We dive into the trendy term 'situationships' and break that down (perhaps not so successfully). We spill the tea on some of the less clear cut and toxic relationships we've been in, and offer a solution to us helping you get out of one (1800-GET-ME-OUT).  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

From the vast (and sometimes tiny) pool of queer women, asking someone out can be daunting. We share how we've gotten our lady interests to meet us IRL and along the way discover that maybe we suck at it.  Follow us on Instagram at @maxwellmuffing and Tiktok !

We're back for a third season and this time letting loose (look Ma, no script!). Each episode will see us answer a question and listen to us digress, a particular talent of ours, from there. For episode one, we get on one of our favourite topics — sex. From forgetting our first lesbian sex encounter (were they really so forgettable??) to which fingers we prefer to use, enjoy our unscripted an...

It's the end of season two! We go back to the basics with us two chattering on about what the season has been like. We do plenty of veering off the track now that we're back off-script but don't worry, we still get back to the topics at hand. (Almost) nothing is out of bounds as we discuss our newly discovered lesbian reality TV show, #TampaBaes, to our thoughts on transfolx in spor...

For our second last episode for season two, we learn more about the trans community in Singapore as we chat with Shan Menon. A trained psychologist himself, he shares his experience as a social worker for The T Project and a youth educator. Things also get more personal as he gives us a lowdown on his coming out story as a trans man early on in his life, and how the community has changed since the...

What is it like being queer and a Muslim? We chat with Zuby, founder of the Healing Circle, an organisation in Singapore for queer Muslims that offers counselling and theoretical studies on the Quran. She candidly shares her coming out story (after 40 years of comphet), the backlash she has faced from her Muslim community, and advice for those who are struggling to reconcile their queerness with r...

We love a good drag show and on this episode, we speak to the one and only queen —  Becca D'Bus. The founder and organiser of the weekly drag performance, RIOT!, schools us on how drag is a glorious celebration of rule-breaking and finding your community.  Also up for discussion are the different forms of drag — drag kings, hyper queens and hyper kings — as well as the nemesis of a fully dres...

Singapore isn't as queer-friendly as you think it is. We speak to Jean Chong, one of the founders of Sayoni, a local organisation that focuses on research about LBQ (lesbian, bisexual, and queer) women in the country.  It's a sobering topic as we touch on the intersectionality of female violence and queerness (content warning!) as well as the nuances of queer female activism in the regio...