Lessons in Self Worth

Send us a text Do you have an abandonment wound? Or are you questioning if you have one? An abandonment wound can affect your daily life in very subtle ways. An abandonment wound is usually the result of past experiences and it can hugely impact your life today, as an adult. The question is, how does your abandonment wound show up in your daily life? Seeing these patterns improve your wellbeing, c...

Send us a text WATCH ON YOUTUBE This workshop is sponsored by my signature 6-week course, Becoming Secure. It does exactly what it says on the tin... it helps you move from feeling insecure, lost, or anxious, to feeling grounded, confident, and secure. It’s six weeks to rediscovering yourself..and right now there’s a special early bird offer available. Join Becoming Secure with Early Bird Pricing...

Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP (Breaking The Rules) Part 5: If you struggle with anxiety, anxious attachment, and your mood - it is very possible you are living by hidden rules and inner guidelines without even realising it. Rules like “I must always please others” “I need to be chosen” or “I have to get it right or I’ll be on my own” can leave you feeling anxious, self-critical, and stuck in the sa...

Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP (Breaking The Rules) Part 4 If you’ve ever noticed that your anxiety or low mood is tangled up with self-esteem, this episode is a must-listen (or must-watch). There are sneaky thoughts and beliefs holding you back, keeping you stuck in self-criticism, stopping you from feeling confident, and blocking you from being your true self. This, mini episode (4) is here to giv...

Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP (Breaking The Rules) Today's bitesize episode is for those of you that prefer a real exercise compared to theory and ideas. Rules for Living help you live a life where you feel OK, so long as those rules are met. The second they are not, that's when you spiral. E.G. If you believe you should make everyone happy, you will lose yourself the second you think you...

Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP (Breaking The Rules) PART 2: Rules That Lead to ANXIETY In today's bitesize episode I am sharing with you a key reason why you fall into panic, worry, & obsessing at certain times in your life. There is something that triggers this cycle and knowing about it has truly changed my life and how I manage my mood and thoughts. If you care what others thinking, or n...

Send us a text In this mini episode Carly Ann introduces a popular concept (Rules for Living) that is discussed in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.  Rules for living are influenced by your own negative core beliefs and they actually maintain low self-esteem, anxiety, low mood, and self doubt It is when your rule for living is broken that you spiral into worry and feeling bad If you can begin to unde...

Send us a text Have you heard of limerence? The longing, obsessing, and thinking about someone you like. In this episode Carly Ann talk about what limerence is, what keeps you hooked on them (why you can't let go). What makes this different to any other episode? I talk about the fact that logically you do know better. You have read the books and you're doing the inner work, yet you still...

Send us a text Brand New Free Workshop HERE These are not your usual affirmations. In this video, you won’t just repeat words, you’ll be guided to see, feel, and imagine the outcome as if it’s already real. This combination of affirmations and guided imagery creates a powerful shift in your mind and body, making it easier to attract what you desire and rewire old patterns that hold you back. If yo...

Send us a text You know the logic. You know what you should do. And yet… you keep repeating the same patterns. Why? In this video, I break down what’s really going on beneath the surface when logic and self-awareness aren’t enough to create change. You've read the books, done the work, and yet you keep defaulting to old patterns. You chase people, you over-give, you self-criticise - even thou...

Send us a text TRY THIS: 5 Steps That Will Help You Overcome Your Biggest Fears Fear can feel like it’s running the show.. keeping you stuck, small, and second-guessing every move. But what if you could face those fears head-on and finally stop letting them control your life? In this episode, I’m sharing five powerful, practical steps that will help you break free, to go from stuck to secure. Whet...

Send us a text If your body feels like it’s either buzzing with anxiety or completely shut down, you’re not alone. In this mini training, Carly Ann explores how physical sensations like overwhelm, tension, or numbness can keep you stuck in the same painful cycles. You’ll learn why your body reacts the way it does, how these sensations maintain anxious patterns, and one powerful tip you can start u...

Send us a text Did you know your behaviours influence so much of how you feel and what you do? In this training, Carly Ann is sharing one powerful question that can help you shift your actions, align with your values, and become the version of you that you actually desire to be. Whether you’re stuck in old patterns or ready to take that next step forward, this episode will give you a simple but ga...

Send us a text In this episode, we explore the power of emotions - how they show up, how they influence what we do, and why managing them matters so much, especially when you don’t feel good enough. You’ll hear insights on how emotions can hijack your thoughts and actions, and simple ways to work with them instead of against them. If you’re ready to get curious about your feelings and stop letting...

Send us a text Welcome to Day 3 of Becoming Unstuck – today is all about your thoughts.  If you ever feel owned by your mind, trapped in spirals of overthinking, self-doubt, or fear, this episode is yours. If you know you have negative thoughts that move you away from who you want to be - listen now or save for later! Carly Ann shares a brilliant, practical tool to help you stop being a prisoner o...

Send us a text Triggered? Feeling stuck in the same painful loops? Rejected, blamed, out of control?  Whether it is a specific person or a song on the radio, your triggers aren’t the enemy.. they’re the message. If you keep spiralling in love or life, this training is part of your RESET! ✨ Stuck to Secure starts 1st August - 21 days to reset and break the cycle:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/21...

Send us a text Training 1/6 - Becoming Unstuck Stuck in anxious loops or reacting in ways that don’t feel like you? This powerful exercise will help you take a first step in moving TOWRDS the life and love your desire and how to shift. You’ll learn how to spot the moment you’re at a choice point, and how to move towards the secure, grounded version of you. Join in with the exercise or just listen...

Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/free-btc-workshop  This meditation is your emergency pause button when you need to soothe and regulate right now. To help with the spiral, the overwhelm, the noise in your head - this 5 minute audio will bring you back . Back into your body. Back into the present. Back into safety. Whether you’re feeling anxious, triggered, heartbroken,...

Send us a text If you’ve ever been stuck in a worry spiral...the kind that hijacks your mind, interrupts your sleep, and makes you question everything (non stop)..this episode is for you. I was in one recently. And while I didn’t fix it overnight, I found something that helped in the middle of it . This isn’t a neat “5 steps to stop overthinking” episode. It’s a real look at what happens when anxi...

Send us a text We all fall into patterns – but some of them silently chip away at our self-worth. In today’s episode, Carly Ann is uncovering the sneaky habits and thought loops that keep you stuck in low self-esteem and anxiety.  These are 3 common patterns that damage your self-worth if left ignored. In this episode you will receive practical, powerful tips to start rebuilding your self worth fr...

Send us a text Ready for a powerful mid-year reset? This guided manifestation meditation is designed to help you get back on track, reconnect with your goals, and start attracting the life you truly desire. It will guide you to cut ties with what does not serve you and call in what you desire Whether you're manifesting love, success, confidence, or a fresh start... this is your chance to paus...

Send us a text Do you you keep going back to the good times with someone who’s no longer in your life? Whether that’s an ex, a situationship, or something that never fully got off the ground. In this episode of Lessons in Attachment , Carly Ann (therapist & coach helping you heal anxious attachment) breaks down the real psychological reasons why we play the positives and stay stuck on a loop f...

Send us a text A Radical Acceptance Practice If you have anxious attachment, you may find yourself stuck in the highlight reel of your relationship - that means replaying the good times over and over, wondering what went wrong, and blaming yourself when the present doesn’t match up This gentle, guided exercise is designed to help you practice radical acceptance - to hold space for the memories and...

Send us a text Your inner critic knows exactly when to strike, and if you can be ready for it - you can stop it in its tracks! In this episode, Carly Ann shares the common moments where self-criticism hits hardest, especially for those with anxious attachment, low self-worth, or a constant fear of not being good enough. Plus stay tuned because you will because you will get so much value - Carly An...

Send us a text A motivational episode - consider it your personal pep talk to manage your inner critic and give you a confidence boost.  Carly Ann is here to help if you’ve got something coming up that’s making you nervous. Whether it’s a date, a job interview, a boundary to set, or a tough conversation, this episode will help settle your mind and lift your energy. It’s for those moments when your...