Jillian on Love

Dating in 2026 feels harder than ever—but what if the problem isn’t you, it’s how you’re approaching it? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the biggest mindset shifts she’s seen actually work with her clients—from letting go of the pressure to “find the one,” to raising your standards in the right way, slowing down attraction, and learning how to choose connection over fantasy. If you’re tired o...

Have you ever been in a healthy relationship and still felt anxious waiting for it to fall apart? In this coaching episode, Jillian works one-on-one with a woman who can’t stop overthinking as her relationship moves out of the honeymoon phase. Together, they unpack why reassurance fades, how anxiety quietly sabotages connection, and what actually keeps love secure—without creating problems where n...

In this episode, Jillian reads from It Begins With You to break down one of the most painful patterns in modern dating: confusing lust, intensity, and obsession with real love. She explains why chemistry can feel intoxicating—and why it so often leads to confusion, unmet needs, and heartbreak. If you’ve ever felt addicted to someone who couldn’t show up for you, this episode brings clarity back to...

What if the reason your relationship feels so painful is because you’re loving someone’s potential instead of who they actually are? In this episode, Jillian unpacks why trying to fix or change a partner creates resentment, pressure, and emotional burnout. She explores emotional capacity, radical self-honesty, and how to communicate your needs without turning love into a project. Join the Consciou...

In this special coaching episode, Jillian sits down with a 38-year-old listener who’s four dates into a new connection and stuck in her head about one big question: Is he actually interested, or just passive? Together, they unpack why slow, calm chemistry can feel confusing when you’re used to intensity, what to do when someone’s texting and effort don’t quite match your needs, and how to treat ea...

Many people feel pulled toward someone who isn’t good for them, even when they know the relationship is toxic. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five core reasons we become addicted to people who mistreat us — from erotic charge, to low self-worth, to boredom and unmet needs. She shares personal experience, clinical insight, and the psychology of desire to help listeners finally understand...

Is it really “embarrassing” to have a boyfriend? In this episode, Jillian unpacks the viral Vogue UK article and the cultural shift that’s convincing women to hide their relationships. She explores the deeper shadow dynamics at play — jealousy, shrinking ourselves to belong, and the fear of being judged if a relationship ends. Jillian makes a powerful case for owning your joy, celebrating healthy...

In this episode, Jillian breaks down ten of the most important — and sometimes painful — lessons she’s learned about love. From why chemistry without safety creates chaos, to how habits shape happiness, to the truth about readiness, accountability, and emotional maturity, she walks through the mindsets that actually build lasting connection. These lessons are equal parts grounding and liberating,...

In this special live coaching session, Jillian speaks with a woman who is struggling to end her 17-year marriage to a good man—and wrestling with overwhelming guilt about breaking up her family. As they unpack the story, a deeper truth emerges: the real turning point wasn’t “lack of growth” or “misaligned goals,” but a painful and confusing experience in which her husband repeatedly encouraged her...

Jillian dives into one of the most confusing parts of love—telling the difference between an unmet need and an unrealistic expectation. She breaks down how projection, attachment, and self-awareness shape what we ask for in relationships, and what happens when those needs go unanswered. Plus, she answers a moving listener question about letting go of unrequited love, sharing tangible ways to find...

Jillian dives into heartbreak—the kind that feels endless—and explains why “just move on” misses the mark. She reframes breakups as a form of living grief and walks listeners through a practical healing plan: stop romanticizing the ex, rewrite the story from multiple perspectives, and choose proactive recovery. With personal examples and grounded tools, Jillian shows how to transform rejection int...

Jillian breaks down one of the most talked-about topics in modern psychology: attachment styles. But instead of sticking to labels, she challenges the oversimplified ways we use them—and offers a more grounded, compassionate way to understand why we love, cling, or pull away. Jillian shares personal insights into how she healed her own attachment wounds and explains the deeper influences of cultur...

What happens when you love your partner but the passion is gone? In this episode, Jillian dives deep into one of the most common struggles in long-term relationships — losing physical and emotional spark. She breaks down why attraction fades, what it really takes to rekindle chemistry, and how to tell if it can truly come back. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/...

Sometimes, the hardest truth to face is that the person you love is the one you need to walk away from. Today, Jillian answers three listener letters from people stuck in relationships where love, addiction, betrayal, or avoidance are keeping them trapped. She dives deep into what it means to trust yourself again, why you can’t save someone who’s drowning, and how self-respect—not attachment—is wh...

Jillian teaches how to truly manifest a soulmate—without the “woo.” She shares a proven step-by-step method that has helped thousands of people attract emotionally healthy, aligned relationships—complete with simple daily practices to calm your system, raise your standards, and date with intention. Jillian reframes manifestation as an intentional, grounded process of co-creation: She breaks down w...

This is my most vulnerable episode yet. For the first time, I open up about my relationship with my father and the deep impact it had on how I saw myself, my relationships, and my life. I share what it was like growing up with a difficult parent, the ways it shaped my identity, and the healing process I had to go through to finally make peace. If you’ve ever carried pain, anger, or grief toward a...

Do you ever wonder why you keep attracting the wrong person? In this episode, Jillian unpacks the unconscious blocks that prevent us from finding healthy love. She shares why distrust and resentment poison connection, how fear of not being “enough” sabotages relationships, and why wasting time with the wrong partner only delays the right one. Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman S...

Jillian welcomes Sheleana Aiyana—author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman—for a deep dive into conscious relationships, healing attachment wounds, and nervous system regulation. Sheleana shares personal stories of trauma, resilience, and transformation, offering powerful insight into how we can move from survival patterns to secure connection. They explore everything from how to know...

Feeling stuck, lost, or like life just isn’t turning out how you hoped? In this personal episode, Jillian shares practical tools to help you navigate life’s harder seasons—whether you’re in a crisis or simply in a rut. She explores how movement, connection, mindset shifts, and boundaries can help you break free from emotional burnout and rediscover joy. Drawing from her own upbringing, client expe...

Breaking up is never easy—especially when the person you’re leaving isn’t toxic, cruel, or a bad partner, but simply not the right match. In this episode, Jillian shares her personal story of ending a relationship with a “good person” and the powerful lessons she learned about values, lifestyle alignment, friendship, and trust. She explores the subtle red flags we often ignore, the fear of becomin...

Dating can stir up all kinds of insecurities, but it doesn’t have to cost you your self-worth. In this episode, Jillian walks you through seven practical steps to help you date with confidence, protect your heart, and stay rooted in your values. You’ll learn how to spot tests that reveal old patterns, challenge the limiting beliefs holding you back, and avoid over-investing in the wrong people. If...

In this episode, Jillian shares five powerful relationship boundaries you should never cross if you want your connection to last. From why saying “I need space” can cause unintended harm, to how silent treatment erodes trust, she breaks down the hidden damage these behaviors can do—and what to do instead. You’ll learn how to communicate your needs clearly, avoid destructive arguments, and foster s...

Jillian sits down with Sage Robbins—speaker, mother, and longtime wife to Tony Robbins—for a heartfelt exploration of emotional freedom, self-awareness, and lasting love. Sage shares how her own path has been shaped by profound loss, personal growth, and her decades-long relationship with one of the world’s most powerful figures. Together, they dive into the nuance of masculine and feminine energy...

If you've ever felt like you're walking on eggshells in a relationship, this episode is a must-listen. Jillian unpacks what it really means to feel emotionally safe in a romantic relationship—and why it's absolutely essential. From trust and consistency to the ability to argue without fear, she shares what emotional safety looks like, how to build it, and why your nervous system depends on it. She...

If someone hurt you, disappointed you, or failed to show up the way you needed—this episode will change how you see it. Jillian shares the truth that transformed her life: people can only meet you where they are, not where you wish they could be. Learn how to stop internalizing others’ limitations, let go of unrealistic expectations, and finally feel the emotional freedom that comes from not takin...