Intimate Moments: Relationship Corner

Amanda Maqebuka is back in the studio, welcoming Pastor Thobi Dlamini—aka Pastor T —for a highly informative session on The Types of Intimacies. Pastor unpacks key dimensions: emotional intimacy for heartfelt vulnerability, spiritual bonds through shared faith, physical closeness with healthy boundaries, intellectual exchanges that spark growth, and even financial transparency in relationships. Di...

Tumi B is joined by Apostle Calvin Kubayi, an apostle, lawyer, husband, and father by divine instruction, for Part 2 of Single Parenting from a man's perspective. They focus on navigating marriage to a partner without children when you already have kids from a previous relationship. Key insights include: Communication and boundaries: Discuss expectations, roles, and discipline approaches upfront t...

Lukho Mkwedi Phuthi explains why she enters marriage during intimate moments, referencing Pastor Takalane G Mosekwa's book "Marriage is Not Obsolete." She addresses the pressures women face: anxiety about age and biological clocks, peer pressure from watching friends marry, family demands for grandchildren and lineage, and the societal lie that being single equals failure—none of which form the fo...

Tumie B welcomes Boang Monama, father of young Mohau, to Intimate Moments for an honest discussion on single parenting from a father's viewpoint. They unpack realities—causes like divorce, death, abandonment; challenges raising sons alone amid absent-father stereotypes; pains of missing milestones without partner support; frustrations battling societal judgment questioning male competency. Boang s...

Lukho Mkwedi Phuthi welcomes Coach Thobeka Dlamini to Intimate Moments for a powerful discussion on Rejection - Healing those wounds. They unpack rejection's damage—rooted in childhood shaming, romantic betrayal, workplace exclusion—creating orphan mindsets blocking Kingdom identity and relationships. Coach Thobeka reveals healing path: Acknowledge pain without shame, release offenders through for...

Lukho Mkwedi Phuthi welcomes Coach Thobeka Dlamini to Intimate Moments for a powerful discussion on Rejection - Healing those wounds. They unpack rejection's damage—rooted in childhood shaming, romantic betrayal, workplace exclusion—creating orphan mindsets blocking Kingdom identity and relationships. Coach Thobeka reveals healing path: Acknowledge pain without shame, release offenders through for...

Amanda Maqabuka returns with Nomaxabiso Possie for an impactful marriage segment, unpacking Waiting on the Lord is not a punishment—Part 1. They confront singleness struggles: Loneliness echoing empty promises, societal pressure demanding premature vows, discernment clouded by desperation, wholeness sacrificed on comparison altars. The duo reframes biblical waiting as divine strategy—preparation,...

Amanda Maqabuka returns with Nomaxabiso Possie for an impactful marriage segment, unpacking Waiting on the Lord is not a punishment—Part 1. They confront singleness struggles: Loneliness echoing empty promises, societal pressure demanding premature vows, discernment clouded by desperation, wholeness sacrificed on comparison altars. The duo reframes biblical waiting as divine strategy—preparation,...

Amanda Maqabuka welcomes Ms. Portia Ncqebe (aka Lilian Nqwai)—born-again mother, wife, motivational speaker, counselor, public speaker, radio host, preacher, and sister in Christ—to explore Called Together. This dynamic duo unpacks why couples are divinely summoned to unite in service, prayer, ministry, parenting, and beyond, amplifying impact through shared purpose and spiritual synergy. They con...

Amanda Maqabuka welcomes Ms. Portia Ncqebe (aka Lilian Nqwai)—born-again mother, wife, motivational speaker, counselor, public speaker, radio host, preacher, and sister in Christ—to explore Called Together. This dynamic duo unpacks why couples are divinely summoned to unite in service, prayer, ministry, parenting, and beyond, amplifying impact through shared purpose and spiritual synergy. They con...

Amanda Maqebuka welcomes Ms. Khanya Sishuba is a young lady, born-again , firstborn from Cape Town, raised in the Eastern Cape and ready to unpack today's topic: "Waiting on the Lord." They clarify it's active trust, not punishment or wasted time: A sacred season where God forges character, mends wounds, and syncs hearts with His perfect will. Far from passive delay, biblical waiting builds streng...

Amanda Maqebuka welcomes Ms. Khanya Sishuba is a young lady, born-again , firstborn from Cape Town, raised in the Eastern Cape and ready to unpack today's topic: "Waiting on the Lord." They clarify it's active trust, not punishment or wasted time: A sacred season where God forges character, mends wounds, and syncs hearts with His perfect will. Far from passive delay, biblical waiting builds streng...

Amanda Maqebuka welcomes Pastor Makhaba to the studio, unpacking Red Flags to Watch Before You Say I Do—crucial warnings often missed in love's blind haze. High emotions fuel marriage dreams, but Pastor Makhaba exposes overlooked dangers: anger issues, financial irresponsibility, spiritual mismatch, and controlling tendencies that sabotage lifelong commitment. Many stumble here, blinded by passion...

Amanda Maqebuka welcomes Pastor Makhaba to the studio, unpacking Red Flags to Watch Before You Say I Do—crucial warnings often missed in love's blind haze. High emotions fuel marriage dreams, but Pastor Makhaba exposes overlooked dangers: anger issues, financial irresponsibility, spiritual mismatch, and controlling tendencies that sabotage lifelong commitment. Many stumble here, blinded by passion...

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe returns to the studio with Pastor Mvinjelwa for Part 2 of their discussion on Selfishness in Marriage. They explore how putting personal needs, pride, or comfort above the marriage harms trust, intimacy, and unity. The conversation highlights subtle forms of selfishness—emotional withdrawal, financial secrecy, lack of help at home, or demanding one’s own way—and how these crea...

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe returns to the studio with Pastor Mvinjelwa for Part 1 of their discussion on Selfishness in Marriage. They explore how putting personal needs, pride, or comfort above the marriage harms trust, intimacy, and unity. The conversation highlights subtle forms of selfishness—emotional withdrawal, financial secrecy, lack of help at home, or demanding one’s own way—and how these crea...

Amanda Maqebuka and Pastor Makhaba discuss the purpose of marriage in Part 2, urging intentional entry beyond peer pressure, lust, or financial gain. Couples must discern God's calling, seeking a partner aligned with shared values, spiritual maturity, and complementary strengths for companionship, procreation, and mutual sanctification. Preparation involves self-examination, premarital counseling,...

Amanda Maqebuka and Pastor Makhaba discuss the purpose of marriage in Part 1, urging intentional entry beyond peer pressure, lust, or financial gain. Couples must discern God's calling, seeking a partner aligned with shared values, spiritual maturity, and complementary strengths for companionship, procreation, and mutual sanctification. Preparation involves self-examination, premarital counseling,...

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe continues discussing "Understanding Love Languages Part 2," focusing on the five love languages as introduced by Dr. Gary Chapman. These include: 1. Words of Affirmation: expressing love through spoken or written praise and appreciation. 2. Quality Time: giving focused, undistracted attention to your partner. 3. Physical Touch: showing love through affectionate touch like hugs...

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe discusses "Understanding Love Languages Part 1," focusing on the five love languages as introduced by Dr. Gary Chapman. These include: 1. Words of Affirmation: expressing love through spoken or written praise and appreciation. 2. Quality Time: giving focused, undistracted attention to your partner. 3. Physical Touch: showing love through affectionate touch like hugs and kisses...

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Nokuthula Ncethani discuss "Waiting On The Lord Part 2," reflecting on Nokuthula's personal journey. She shares her struggles and hurts before marriage, emphasizing that there is no one-size-fits-all formula for relationships because everyone’s experiences differ. Nokuthula talks about how she finally found the right partner and their marriage journey, highlighting lessons...

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Nokuthula Ncethani discuss "Waiting On The Lord Part 1," reflecting on Nokuthula's personal journey. She shares her struggles and hurts before marriage, emphasizing that there is no one-size-fits-all formula for relationships because everyone’s experiences differ. Nokuthula talks about how she finally found the right partner and their marriage journey, highlighting lessons...

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Sinoxolo Nozozo discuss the importance of Working On Yourself before Saying I Do. Preparing for marriage is not about being a perfect wife but about learning to understand, love, and be kind to yourself. This self-care shapes how you will show up in your marriage, influencing how you relate to and support your spouse. Emphasizing personal growth and self-awareness before...

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Sinoxolo Nozozo discuss the importance of Working On Yourself before Saying I Do. Preparing for marriage is not about being a perfect wife but about learning to understand, love, and be kind to yourself. This self-care shapes how you will show up in your marriage, influencing how you relate to and support your spouse. Emphasizing personal growth and self-awareness before...

Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Pastor T discuss Kinds of Intimacy in marriage Part 1. They explore different types of intimacy that build a strong marital bond beyond just the physical aspect. Key types include emotional intimacy (sharing feelings and supporting each other), physical intimacy (non-sexual touch like hugging and holding hands), intellectual intimacy (sharing thoughts and ideas), experien...