In Bed with Madi Webb

EP035: In part 2 of one of my last episodes “how to be a girl’s girl” I explained how we begin to deconstruct our internalized misogyny so that we can transcend the competition and comparison of other women, and lift them and ourselves up instead. In order to be a true girl’s girl, we have to understand what the beliefs that are engrained in us are in order to eradicate them. That’s why this entir...

EP034: I am SO excited for you all to listen to this weeks episode as we have a SPECIAL guest, Emily, to come and recap all things COACHELLA!! What an CRAZY weekend I had and I can't wait to update you ALL! Topics: -MY favorite day -MY favorite OUTFIT -DAY BY DAY outfit breakdown -Perception of others/Reactionary Feminism -SECRET boyfriend -Friendship Breakup storytime -CRAYON MAN story time -...

EP033: Last week we discussed internalized misogyny (the idea that femininity inherently has less value than masculinity and that the closer something is in proximity of femininity, the more incompetent and useless it is.) Which (to decode that one for you) is basically saying that feminine women are incompetent and useless. Now that we've covered that, what do we do about it? That's what...

EP032: Being a girl's girl means being part of a powerful alliance that actively works against our societal conditioning to compete with each other and tear one another down. Instead, we celebrate femininity and female unity in all its forms. I openly admit that I once struggled with internalized misogyny and was a 'pick me girl' - someone who deliberately puts down other women or dimi...

EP031: Friendship breakups can be more painful than romantic breakups because women's friendships often serve as the emotional foundations of our lives. Despite how devastating these breakups can be, there is limited media coverage addressing this topic. As we change and evolve, our friendships may no longer fit who we have become. If you're experiencing a friendship breakup, it's okay...

EP030: Balancing self-care and ambition is crucial for achieving sustainable success and preventing burnout. As a recovering perfectionist, people-pleaser, and workaholic, I've learned the hard way that neglecting self-care in pursuit of ambitious goals can lead to physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion. In this episode, I share my personal journey and the dangers of an unbalanced work ethic....

EP029: Many people assume gossip is inherently bad - something to feel guilty about. But I disagree. I don't think gossip is wrong in itself. In fact, I believe the stigma around gossip exists to serve the interests of those in power by trying to undermine communication and solidarity among marginalized groups, especially women. Think about it - when was the last time you heard the term "gossip" u...

EP028: After I had a weekend of being patronized and belittled by an insecure man, my best friend Emily gave me the BEST advice that I wanted her to share on the podcast. I grew up thinking that men were better than women (gross, I know) in a very patriarchal environment. This is why I am so passionate about empowering women now, because I was absolutely NOT empowered. Sometimes I slip back into t...

EP027: When talking with friends who are people-pleasers or struggling in the dating world, I always recommend the book "Why Men Love Bitches". The core message I want to convey, personalized for you, is the importance of being your authentic, multi-faceted self from the very beginning. Set clear boundaries and communicate your needs openly. This approach will filter out people who are incompatibl...

EP026: Transforming from a people pleaser to a confident "bitch," means embracing independence, self-respect, and setting boundaries. We know that the best way to stop being a people pleaser is to practice. Practice saying no and let yourself be uncomfortable about it. And the more you practice, the easier it will be. And the more you prioritize your needs, you will see the positive effect it has...

EP025: There are studies that suggest if you're overly nice and genuine, people might end up hating you for it. I'm not saying you should be a b**** to everyone, but maybe be more careful about who you allow access into your life and your energy.  My goal is to save you from years of thinking you're the problem when, in reality, you might be unknowingly caught in a competition you didn't real...

EP024: Every time I talk about self love on social media there’s always that person in the comments who calls me selfish or self absorbed. I want to talk about it on this episode because it was something I struggled with a lot when I was trying to empower myself. In this episode I explore the question “is self love selfish?” & why authentic self love is anything but selfish.  Topics: &nbs...

EP023: When you think of 'authenticity,' most people confuse it with 'not having a filter' or just saying anything that comes to your mind. However, authenticity is not about expressing every thought out loud. Being yourself doesn't mean sharing every thought and feeling without a filter. It is so much deeper than that, and it is absolutely critical to our personal development and our relationship...

EP022: I talk about self love so much and I have done so much work in that area that I almost forget how confusing it can be when someone says "you need to love yourself" - genuinely what does that mean? How do you love yourself? Especially if you have had the message of "selflessness" and "put others first" shoved down your throat your whole life. Loving yourself is not easy, but it will lit...

EP021: Everyone's always saying, 'focus on yourself,' but seriously, what does that even mean? Where do you start? No one tells us the step-by-step. Well, today in this episode, we're gonna break it down. Focusing on yourself is empowering—it's freeing, and it makes you incredibly magnetic. Get ready to understand yourself, take charge, and watch it enhance your life. Topics: 0-00:45 intro to podc...

EP020: We can't control the past. All we can do is set ourselves up for success in the future, and we have a new opportunity to do that in 2024. Transforming your life begins with self-love, and in this episode, I delve into numerous practical tips on cultivating self-love. Additionally, I offer expert tips on creating a powerful vision board that serves as a catalyst for manifesting your dream li...

EP019: Sometimes it feels like fear is the root of all evil. Commitment issues? Fear. Staying in a job you hate? Fear. Staying in a relationship that isn't serving you anymore? Fear! Fear has stopped me from doing so many things in the past, but this is my attempt to move past fear and into bravery. Bravery is not the absence of fear, it's just doing it anyways. the goal is always to choose braver...

EP018: Today I want to talk about living alone especially because I am MOVING! Personally I think one of the best things you can do for yourself as a young adult is to live on your own. Especially as young women we spend so much of our time looking and caring after other people, but it's beyond amazing to have your own space. A space to do things that you want to do, cultivate your own interests,...

EP017: TRIGGER WARNING: This episode is about recovery from eating disorders. This is obviously a super sensitive topic, but one I care deeply about. I shared about my eating disorder publicly on my social media, and now I want to share about how I have healed. I’ve been in recovery for a year now, and I am so excited to share everything I have experienced and learned with you here. Topics:  ...

EP016: I have been diagnosed with ADHD but I am honestly very very good at it so I want to share with you some tips that have helped me, skills I have learned, and how it has impacted my life. All WITHOUT medication. The tools I am going to give you in this episode are not just for people with ADHD or add, they can and should be used by anyone who is trying to get organized. Topics:   ⁃&...

EP015: I don't think I could be a very good friend to other people until I figured out how to be a good friend to myself. And that means showing up as my authentic self, not as a version of me that I thought would make me more likable for other people. For a long time I didn't know what I liked, I just knew what I didn't like… That all FINALLY changed:) I also put together six things you can physi...

EP014: What I have been learning about self doubt is that especially when it comes up really really strong, and we start having a lot of fear about the next steps, or having a lot of anxiety about it. It's actually usually a sign that we are just ready to level up. That we are ready to upgrade ourselves in someway or upgrade our external world in someway. I think it's just very hard to see it that...

EP013: TW The vulnerability queen is back to dump some truth all over this podcast. You probably don't need another reminder that social media is only a highlight reel, but I am someone who's whole goal is to spread healing and empowerment to the women who follow me. I think that's why it has been such a hard blow dealing with my own mental health recently, while publicly supporting others. ...

EP012: My most HIGHLY requested podcast- and one I wish I had when I was being manipulated. I want to remind you that manipulation would not be manipulation if you knew you were being manipulated, ok?? the whole POINT of manipulation is that you don't know it's happening to you. So if listening to this podcast is just another way for you to continue to blame or shame yourself into feeling guilty f...

EP011: The biggest misconception about boundaries is that they are meant to keep people out of our lives, but we set boundaries so we can teach people how to treat us and keep them in our lives. If you have a big heart, this episode is for you:) Boundaries are your best friend ESPECIALLY when you have a big heart.  If you're tired of having to block people or consistently remove people from y...