Imperfectly Poly

I'm back from a long hiatus. Its been a fun summer so far and in this episode, I'll catch you up on what's been going on in my life and how the month of June was crazy for me.

This episode of Imperfectly Poly tackles the common and often challenging experience of a partner starting a new relationship, specifically addressing the phenomenon of New Relationship Energy (NRE) . We explore the wide range of emotions that can arise, from jealousy and insecurity to occasional excitement and curiosity , validating that all these feelings are normal. Chris shares a personal anec...

This episode of Imperfectly Poly explores the intersection of polyamory and parenthood, offering insights into raising children in a non-traditional family structure. Chris discusses the importance of honesty and open communication with children, emphasizing the need to explain polyamory in an age-appropriate way. He highlights the importance of creating a stable and loving environment where child...

This episode of Imperfectly Poly delves into the sometimes confusing world of ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and polyamory, clarifying the relationship between these two terms. We explain that ENM is a broad umbrella term encompassing various relationship styles where all parties consent to multiple connections, including open relationships, swinging, and polyamory. Polyamory, however, is distinguishe...

This episode of Imperfectly Poly dives headfirst into the holiday season, exploring the unique joys and challenges that come with navigating this festive time while polyamorous. Chris shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on everything from managing family dynamics and gift-giving to prioritizing time with multiple partners. The episode emphasizes the importance of open communication with...

In this episode of Imperfectly Poly, Chris shares his recent romantic getaway with Chloe to Belamere Suites. He highlights the importance of quality time in polyamorous relationships, emphasizing how dedicated one-on-one experiences can help strengthen bonds and create lasting memories. Chris talks about the power of shared experiences, from exploring new restaurants and a cigar bar to enjoying a...

In this episode of Imperfectly Poly, we tackle the sometimes intimidating but ultimately rewarding topic of therapy. We dive into how therapy can help unpack emotional baggage, develop healthy coping mechanisms, and gain fresh perspectives - not just for polyamorous folks, but for everyone. We specifically explore how therapy can benefit those navigating the unique challenges of polyamory, such as...

In this episode, we delve into the often-challenging act of asking for help when we're feeling down. We explore the common barriers that hold us back from reaching out, from fear of vulnerability to societal expectations. Discover the power of connection and vulnerability, and how allowing others to help us can deepen our relationships and create a ripple effect of compassion. We provide practical...

We are asking some deeply personal questions on this special edition episode with both Danielle and Chloe on as guests!

In this episode we delve into the power of living in the present. I've been struggling with living in the moment so we explore why being present is crucial for happiness and well-being. We discuss common obstacles like perfectionism, technology overload, and fear, and offer practical tools like mindfulness meditation, sensory check-ins, and single-tasking challenges to help you cultivate mindfulne...

Life throws curveballs, even in the most loving polycules. Whether it's a new job, a health scare, a breakup, or any major transition, change can rock the boat for everyone involved. But fear not! In this episode, we'll delve into the emotional rollercoaster of change, exploring how one person's experience can ripple through the entire polycule. We'll discuss the importance of open communication,...

Hey, I'm Chris and I'm a Model! After a little modeling gig, I thought about doing an episode about self-esteem in polyamory.

This week I talk about different styles of polyamory and how each individual's way of doing polyamory is unique.

This week is a life update just bringing everyone back up to speed with what's been going on around here. Things have been good overall. Also, apparently I glow like a pregnant woman when I'm happy.

This week I talk about one of my personal sayings "progress, not perfection." I relate this concept to perfectionism in polyamory and relationships in general. Then I talk about how changing the focus away from perfection towards progress can help mental health significantly.

This week I talk about all things Compersion. I start with describing compersion and give examples of how compersion is not just for polyamorous relationships. Then I talk about some myths related to compersion and finally a few tips to help someone achieve compersion.

In this episode, I have my lovely girlfriend Chloe on the show and we are talking about our first month together, how we support each other and how we have been navigating Kitchen Table Poly (KTP) dynamics along with managing our New Relationship Energy (NRE).

In this episode I'm talking about how dreams can still come true even when you think they died. I also talk about some experiences with breadcrumbing and explain what that term means. I talk about how my life is on an upswing and my dreams are finally coming true.

Today I have my wife, Danielle, on as a special guest for us to talk about coming out. This is mostly us just telling our stories about coming out to family, friends and coworkers and sharing how they accepted or rejected us along the way.

This is a little life update including my first week at IOP and a first date that I went on! Listen in for more details.

A relationship is more that just what you get from a relationship but as importantly it also includes what you are able to offer the other person. In this episode, I talk about a little exercise to figure out your needs and offerings within a relationship and I encourage you to do this periodically, as these thing can change over time.

You may not see it everyday, but the support systems are there. Reach out, be vulnerable and allow people to support you. In this Episode, I'm talking about a hard day I recently had and how people supported me through it.

As I have began thinking about finding another partner, I am reminded of the importance of emotional safety. This is just me chatting about my thoughts on Emotional Safety and why its important to me.

In this episode, Chris is going to spend some time getting pretty vulnerable and opening up about his mental health journey. Chris has been sober for 3 years and diagnosed with bipolar II about two years ago. This is not the most upbeat episode, but it will shed light on who Chris is to give more context as the episodes go forward.

Welcome to February 2024! Where did the time go? Oh, yeah.... A lot happened. Chris is going to spend some time to catch you up over the last 18 months and talk about a change in format. A lot has happened so buckle up for the ride.