If A Heart Could Speak

Comparison is the thief of joy. In this episode of IF A HEART COULD SPEAK, we discuss how grief can enter our lives from feeling the loss of what we think our lives should be vs what it is. The idea of what we think our lives should be comes from living vicariously through the lens of someone else’s experience. But I’ve learned that there’s no such thing as a life that’s better than mine. So this...

In this episode of IF A HEART COULD SPEAK we talk about radical forgiveness. My heart has been through many trials and the lesson on the other end has always included forgiveness. Forgiveness of others, forgiveness of myself, and forgiving God because I know I needed the revelation at the end of my detriment. & so I forgive to heal, but it was never easy which is why it’s so radical. Still I had t...

In this episode of If A Heart Could Speak, we discuss Love and devotion. This is a beautiful dialogue with my Partner in Love, Boo Bear, where we speak about love as more than emotion, but an action, and how to do it within our relationships even when it’s difficult.

𝙸𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚎𝚙𝚒𝚜𝚘𝚍𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝙸𝚏 𝙰 𝙷𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚝 𝙲𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚂𝚙𝚎𝚊𝚔 𝚠𝚎 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚝𝚊𝚕𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚋𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝙻 𝙾 𝚅 𝙴 ✨ 𝙰𝚐𝚊𝚙𝚎 𝙻 𝙾 𝚅 𝙴 𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚒𝚏𝚒𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚢. 𝙰𝚐𝚊𝚙𝚎 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚘𝚏𝚝𝚎𝚗 𝚍𝚎𝚜𝚌𝚛𝚒𝚋𝚎𝚍 𝚊𝚜 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜, 𝚞𝚗𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚎𝚡𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚜 𝚋𝚎𝚢𝚘𝚗𝚍 𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝚘𝚛 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜. 𝙸𝚝'𝚜 𝚊 𝚍𝚎𝚎𝚙, 𝚜𝚊𝚌𝚛𝚒𝚏𝚒𝚌𝚒𝚊𝚕 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚜𝚎𝚎𝚔𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚠𝚎𝚕𝚕-𝚋𝚎𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚑𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚒𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚜, 𝚛𝚎𝚐𝚊𝚛𝚍𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚌𝚒𝚛𝚌𝚞𝚖𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎𝚜. 𝙰𝚐𝚊𝚙𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚝𝚢𝚙𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚞𝚗𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚍𝚘𝚎𝚜 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚍𝚎𝚙𝚎𝚗𝚍 𝚘𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝚘...

Maybe you’re not like me, maybe you don’t want to fight the urge to go over the deep end. Maybe you need the crash out to release the pent up frustration.. I get it! & I’m here with you.. it’s okay not to be okay. It’s okay to let loose and spiral out of control sometimes. Cuz you’re human and earth is a ghetto place.. So let’s say you do crash out, and you’re somewhere in a ditch, laying face...

In this episode we discuss the urge to Crash Out when life gets tough.. I’ll admit, Keeping a balance in life is kinda hard for me. Because it’s like I’m constantly weighing one thing against the other trying to find an equilibrium, that feels too hard to maintain. Some days I want to tip the scales and go all the way to the polar end of a thing - spiraling to its depths at full capacity, even wit...

In this episode of If A Heart Could Speak, we discuss divine timing, and trusting the process of your manifestations unfolding in a timeline that is beyond your control. Rejection may be redirection, and a delay is not a denial.. what you desire, desires you. Trust that things are still working in your favor, even when you can’t see it ✨

In this episode of If A Heart Could Speak, we discuss making the grand exit from survival mode. Embracing life from the lens of love, and retraining our brains to operate from a space of softness 🫀✨

BLVCK-MAIL is now If A Heart Could Speak After almost 3 yrs of a hiatus, we are back! & there’s been a rebrand. You’re probably wondering where I’ve been and why I went.. this episode is the “Tell All” 🤭 Anywho, welcome back Chy Lights! It’s time for us to ignite on a whole other level ✨

Set Aside Time To Reflect. In this episode of BLVCK-MAIL, we learn about how pausing allows growth to catch up with you. There’s power in being still and opening your mind and heart to the lessons that are at bay. Only with being present can we receive them. Here there are a series of questions and guidance on how to you pause and receive divine messages.

Believe In Yourself. You must see value in yourself to add value to yourself. This chapter focuses on how to build self esteem in order to manifest your dreams

Develop Self Awareness. You must know yourself to grow yourself. This chapter is about understanding your wants, your needs, your habits in order to know how to grow on your journey. We go over questions and scenarios that open up conversations to bring you closer to self awareness and accountability.

Be An Intentional Learner .. in this episode of BLVCK-MAIL we discuss the power of learning with intention and the 8 gaps that may have derailed you from achieving your goals. We discuss ways to overcome those gaps as well. I believe it’s important to recognize where most people go wrong so that they can get on the right path.

In This Episode Of BLVCK-MAIL I discuss the gift of peace; forgiveness. It’s not easy dealing with forgiveness. Sometimes you may have to open your heart to forgive someone. Sometimes you may have to put your pride aside to ask for forgiveness. Sometimes you may need to forgive yourself. Either way it goes when you forgive you present a gift of peace. Forgiveness is the acceptance of light.. God f...

In this episode of BLVCK-MAIL, I speak about giving up your piece for a piece of shit! That’s ghetto af! If a person brings you down, they don’t need to be around. PERIOD! & that’s on self worth.

On this episode of BLVCK-MAIL, I open up about my blindness to abuse. Abuse is psychological, physical, emotional, and verbal. This is an hard episode for me to post because I’ve never actually spoken to anyone about the toxic side of my relationship. This episode is for anyone who probably doesn’t realize that they’re in a abusive relationship because there are no clinical bruises. The scars a sp...

Let’s be honest, Anxiety can be a real a bitch! In this episode of BLVCK-MAIL, I speak about my personal experience with anxiety. I speak on how it kicks my ass daily, and how I conquer it daily. This is a good episode for anyone who battles anxiety, the people who may think they’re crazy some days. You’re not alone! & guess what, Anxiety Aint Got Nothing On You ✨

This was a conversation with my dear friend. She was told me her sister likes to say she’s a broke Millionaire and I had to break down the power of THE WORDz

In this episode of BLVCK-MAIL I speak about how expectations can ruin your experience. I give advice on how to allow life to flow with ease.

Hello, Chy Lights 💡!! This episode of BLVCK-MAIL is about fertile grounds! Many times we ask for blessings yet our lives are not prepared to receive them. I give you tips on how to put yourself in position to receive the things you want and need. It all starts with a fruitful foundation.

In This Episode Of BLVCK-MAIL we become lighter through the process of releasing low vibrational tendencies and making space opportunities of love & light through affirmations. “I am releasing _____ and making space for ____”

In this episode of BLVCK-MAIL I remind you that Everything unfolds as it should & I share with you my insight on how to get over the unfavorable situations and how to receive your blessings with grace.

Today’s BLVCK-MAIL message is about honoring your feelings, even the ones that aren’t so positive. The ones that make you feel like shit, because it’s okay not to be okay.

I had a thought.. it felt fruitful. & so I’m sharing it with you. I’m rejoicing with you. I’ve been inspired to tell you SOMETHING GOOD IS COMING YOUR WAY. GVO

This episode of BLVCK-MAIL is about letting go of all that old shit. That toxic shit that doesn’t deserve you. I guide you through the motions of being sick and tired of being sick and tired. In this episode we release all things that weigh you down. You gotta LET GO to GROW & GLOW 🌟