I Have Thoughts with Amira

Nobody tells you that graduating college might actually be one of the hardest transitions of your life. You finally have freedom, a paycheck, and no homework. Congratulations! Now what the fuck are you supposed to do with yourself? Three years out of college, Amira unpacks the post-grad adjustment period and why your twenties can feel like one big existential fever dream. From having too much free...

Halloween is just any other night out, except you’re in a costume and paying a cover. In her pre-Halloween episode, Amira argues that Halloween is the New Year’s Eve and Fourth of July of the fall: a night loaded with expectations and a price tag. She also confesses that late-stage fall scares her more than any haunted house. She covers everything from Spirit Halloween trauma, the online costume l...

I saw Harry Styles at Madison Square Garden, and after ten days of processing (and one very honest look at my credit card statement), I’m ready to talk about it. In this episode of I Have Thoughts with Amira, I break down the no-frills show that felt like hanging out with my best friend Harry, and how he comes across as so genuinely himself. I also get into the tension of believing in an artist an...

One month into living in New York, and I did NOT expect to feel this way. I fucking love it. In this episode, I’m sharing my first-month gut reactions to NYC — what surprised me, what challenged me, and why this city has made me feel more alive than I expected. I’m talking apartment hunting, subway disasters, introducing myself to strangers, germaphobia, spending too much money, and the pressure t...

What if self-care has started to feel like… work? In this episode of I Have Thoughts with Amira , I’m unpacking my complicated relationship with rest, productivity, and self-care as a high-achieving person who feels like she needs to earn a break. I’m getting into the difference between self-maintenance and actual self-care, why wellness culture can turn “taking care of yourself” into another opti...

I can afford it. But should I buy it? I’ve been thinking a lot about the difference between being able to afford something and deciding that it’s actually worth your money. Because I supposedly value experiences over “stuff”… yet somehow I own a $375 hairdryer, $225 sneakers, and a $2,000 mattress. So where’s the line between spending money on things that genuinely make your life better and buying...

What if the problem in dating isn't that your standards are too high—but that you're checking the wrong boxes? When you're dating, it's easy to focus on the obvious: appearance, career, income, education, or whether someone fits your “type.” But those boxes don't necessarily tell you whether you're actually compatible. In this episode of I Have Thoughts , Amira breaks down...

We continue the dating saga as we dissect what happens after the first date. In summary, dating can make you feel like you’ve completely lost the plot. One great date and suddenly you’re wondering what your first name would look like with their last name. One bad date and you’re convinced you’ll never find anyone. In this episode, I’m talking about how to stay grounded through all three: the amazi...

First dates can feel like a high-stakes audition—but what if we're approaching them all wrong? In this episode, I’m breaking down my philosophy on first dates, whether you’re meeting a potential romantic partner or a new friend. We’re talking outfits, chivalry, boundaries, conversation, flirting, and my four levels of first-date questions. My biggest piece of advice? Stop trying to figure out...

We love social media. We hate social media. We can't stop opening it. In this episode, Amira explores our complicated relationship with the internet—from Instagram and doomscrolling to algorithms, and the emotional whiplash of being online. Is social media making us more connected, more informed, or just more anxious? Amira reflects on taking a three-month break from Instagram, what she learne...

It's officially Q3, which means it's time for my very opinionated list of what's in and what's officially out this summer. In this episode, I'm sharing my hottest takes—from why chewing gum and social drinking are in the past, to overconsumption, protein-everything, and our collective addiction to constant stimulation. Then we're flipping the script with everything I'm...

From the Olympics to the NBA Finals to the FIFA World Cup, athletics this year has felt different. In this episode, I'm exploring why some of our biggest cultural moments happen around a game, why sports are one of the last things that still make us feel united, and the power of complete strangers celebrating together in the streets. Along the way, I make the case that bandwagon sports fans mi...

This week, we're taking a break from pop culture because I have thoughts about my own life. I'm sharing a little life update on where I've been, why the podcast schedule has been a little unpredictable, and the exciting (and slightly terrifying) next chapter ahead. It's been a season of excitement, chaos, and adaptability. Consider this a quick catch-up, a behind-the-scenes look at...

Most viewers are obsessed with the new series Off Campus … but does it actually deserve the hype? In this episode, Amira dives into what makes Off Campus wildly entertaining, surprisingly heartfelt, and… yes, undeniably flawed. From the unexpected emotional depth and refreshing moments of friendship, mental health, and genuine connection, to the questionable acting, plot quirks, and scenes that fu...

Amira dives into her brutally honest insights on dating apps and the difference between endless swipes and meaningful relationships. Amira reveals her favorite profile optimization tactics—like the perfect pictures, engaging prompts, and what to avoid at all costs—so you can stand out amid the chaos. This episode is for anyone dating in today’s digital landscape—whether you’re seasoned, skeptical,...

My passionate, overthinking, and astute friends, you have found your newest home. Welcome to I Have Thoughts with Amira ; we will channel our brain power to discuss pop culture, dating, and the in between stage of being in your 20s. Let the discourse commence!