Hilda's Shoulder

Naija Man I'm sure you've experienced that "fart" sound that comes from the vagina when you're intimate with your woman! It's not evidence of her illness or that she has been with numerous sexual partners! It's just science! Listen and learn!

It is the preference of our culture for the man to be the breadwinner of the home. Sometimes he is not so lucky. His wife may have more money than him or he may have no money at all. What expectations are on the woman in this situation? Listen to the podcast and send in your comments.

For Naija Women, spilling your guts in to-to about your ex-lovers may not work out for your relationship most of the time if you are with a typical Naija Man. A Naija woman must understand the man she is with and reveal very key information about her past on a need-to-know basis. Quite unfairly,Naija men tell women their relationship war stories on a whim and the women are usually not offended. Li...

Is it money for sex or sex for money? Is it sex for sex ? What are your thoughts? Would you give sex for no money? Is it right to give sex with no expectation from your partner or spouse? Listen and share your views with me here on Anchor or via email - hildasshoulder4u@gmail.com

I got feedback from male listeners saying they wanted me to do a sequel to "Naija Women and Bad Sex. So,this is it! Naija Women are very strong individuals who have a lot on their plate like many women all over the world. Whether she is a homemaker or working wife/woman or Mom,the activities she is involved in physically weighs her down and this sometimes makes her give bad sex or no sex at all. T...

Naija Women should stop suffering in silence. If your partner or Husband truly values you,he should appreciate an honest cry from his woman. He should not be ofended if she tells him that she is not being satisfied sexually . The couple should work on removing the culprit that is preventing them from enjoying sexual bliss. If it is a medical condition that can be treated then, that's the way to go...

Some wives won't or dont kneel down to their husbands. Are they wrong not to do it? Does it show how much she loves her husband? Listen to my thoughts.

Naija people love age and ageing. Women are impliedly made to embrace old age and not do "young things".I don't agree with this. Listen.

Faking orgasms all the time can go on for only so long!

Sexual expression is key in courtship and marriage. Faking an orgasm Whatever an orgasm to make your man happy is not the way to go! Look for the real thing and experience bliss!

Many women are not in tune with their vaginas. It is time to pay special attention to it as it impacts your health more than you know.

Nigerian Husbands generally want a domesticated wife and some wives dont think its important.

In Nigeria, there's so much pressure placed on young people to get married. Not much is told to the newbie Nigerian wife. She must forge her own way rightly or wrongly to make her marriage work.