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We’re live inside Tabatha’s new group, Build Bold Branding Co Marketplace Revival, and this one’s for the women ready to chart new territory. Stacey and Tabatha talk about the adventure of finding your voice in business, the evolution of that voice, and why your voice is your authority. This isn’t about playing it safe—it’s about stepping onto solid ground, not shaky footing, and daring to blaze a...

In this live conversation from the Release the Runners Crusade closed group, we talk about the beauty—and the challenge—of dreaming the same dream as friends and ministry partners. How do you stay united when you each carry different perspectives? What keeps you running together instead of pulling apart? Here’s the truth: when God’s hand is on it, you don’t have to struggle or strain. He goes befo...

This week on Hey, Var! we’re letting you in on our live conversation from the Release the Runners Crusade Facebook group as we get ready for our New Hampshire crusade this November. We’re talking about why the middle of a mission matters more than the ending—and how real success is measured in the way we work together, not just how perfect the event turns out. In the Havar way, leadership isn’t ab...

High Stakes: Where Do I Put My Stake in the Ground? Every woman comes to a moment where she has to pause, lean in, and decide: Where will I put my stake in the ground? In this episode, we explore what it means to choose your ground —the places where your pain and passion intersect, and where God might be inviting you to build something lasting. Like the pioneers who rode into new land and marked i...

We did it! FriendTrip 2025—our first-ever getaway with two other friend duos—is officially in the books, and today’s guests are living proof that you can roll with us and live to tell about it (mud, meltdowns, and all). From deflated inner tubes in murky waters to soul-soaking conversations in the hot tub, we unpack what it looked like to let go, lean in, and laugh a lot. There were definitely mom...

We’re gearing up for our first official Friend Trip Getaway!  We’ve dreamed about this for years—and now it’s finally happening. Four women, two duos, have said yes to the call (and somehow trusted us with their friendship, their time, and possibly their lives for 24 hours). In this episode, we unpack what these Spirit-led adventures mean to us, how they’ve become altars of becoming, and why we be...

It’s easy to say we trust our friends—until they ask us to prove it in ways that don’t make sense! If you’re someone who needs the full picture before you move, this one’s for you. What happens when we freefall? When you trust a God-given friend before you fully understand, it doesn’t just build the relationship—it builds something inside them too. Your trust becomes fuel, and the confidence you s...

We’re breaking alone. But shame and abandonment run deeper—convincing us connection isn’t safe, needing others is weakness, and hiding is survival. We call it strength. God calls it stolen communion. This episode uncovers the spirit of abandon—the lie that says you’re on your own—and how shame turns it into a lifestyle of silence and mistrust. 💥 In this episode: – We name wounds that shaped your...

HEY VAR PODCAST – SEASON 3.0 EPISODE 85 Welcome back to HEY, VAR!- Outfitting Women for Kingdom Friendship since 2011. This is Season 3.0, and we’re pressing deeper into the power of friendship forged in fire and anchored in purpose. On this episode, we’re diving into how we’re exploring friendship through the Havar anointing—being joined together in friendship for a heavenly task. We’re talking c...

How do you know when you're running with the right people? It's time to take an assessment and learn 3 markers of health. Join us as we upgrade into Havar 3.0 where two besties are learning to navigate the in's and out's of true Kingdom community and connection the healthy way!

Is Leadership what we think it is? Is there a healthier way? Can we turn the tide? We think we can! Stacey puts Tabatha on the reporter's hot seat to discuss how Tabatha is doing Leadership the New Wineskin Way. Whether you've been a leader for years or just getting started, we invite you to join the conversation!

It was time for a check-in! We've missed you, we've missed our mics, and even more than that, we think HAVAR is growing into a lot more than what we thought it was (what's new?!). Now we're at 82 and New. It definitely feels like a new day! We had an amazing weekend last weekend of seeing the start of something we've wanted to see for so long. Tabatha set a powerful table for local leaders and Sta...

Well, we didn't see this one coming. A passion to follow God and a calling to do it together sometimes doesn't look like what we imagined. In those times, we cling to Him and let go of what He asks us so that the greater things can come. Now we've come full circle to how we began: Sometimes friendship looks like staying, other times it looks like going, and always it looks like celebrating! Listen...

When we come to relationships only wanting to receive, it ends up being a pretty lonely feeling on both sides. The root of "I" is isolation, though it may not feel like it in the moment.  But when we come in the posture of service, it is life-giving to everyone. The root of "We" is community, and this is where we will always find our greatest fulfillment and purpose.  Join us this week a...

Have you ever felt the pain of disconnection and with it all the painful emotions it brings? When those moments come, it may seem like it's easier to check out than to check back in. But we know in HAVAR Land that we are called to never stay gone long and to always meet back at the table because that is what God-designed Friendship does. Here's how we did it this week and WHY. 

There's nothing worse than having our own thoughts bombard us and not knowing where they come from or WHO's behind them! As Christian women, this can be a constant struggle since all of us have a deep desire to hear God but can't always be certain it's Him who is speaking to us. This week's podcast takes a few pointers from the Samaritan Woman at the Well on what it's like when Jesus starts talkin...

Feeling an uptick in warfare lately? We know we are. But we are not helpless, alone, or without ways to fight! This week God is showing us how by calling us to cover one another through one powerful action word: honor. When we grasp what it truly is, an impenetrable shield of protection raises around and over us as we move together as one. This is a whole new level of Friendship in Motion that wil...

How do you know if your life is "good soil" and if you've planted the right things? God took us through a little "gardening" exercise this week to show us what to plant and how to protect the sacredness of our gardens together or individually. You're going to leave this podcast with fresh vision, renewed purpose, and a new garden that springs to life. It's planting time, Vars!  HAVAR LIFE IS...

Ok ladies, here we go! Do alcohol and the anointing of God mix? Can Havar Life at The Well include a little wine every now and then? What's the harm, right?? Well, it seems the world is asking a similar question with a phrase we heard recently: "sober curious." People have started to wonder if drinking is actually benefitting them the way they think it does and are testing it out by changing their...

"Jealousy is an ugly monster! So many of us have been isolated from having true friends because of work, home, and life responsibilities, not to mention having calls on our lives that no one understands. It's hard to watch others find friendship when you know you need it as desperately as the air you breathe!" These powerful words were written by our guest and dear friend Angie Naish, who came to...

We're celebrating Stacey's New Book Release! Stepping into the Call of Author never felt so good, and it was all made possible through Friendship—the kind that leads you onto the narrow way so that the world opens up to you. This is where the things we've prayed for our whole lives start making sense, and suddenly we know what we were made for. Join us as we take this very special look at Friendsh...

Do you ever have these ridiculous moments in your friendships that you think will stay a joke between the two of you forever and ever and then suddenly you find yourself telling it on a very public platform... like, say, a podcast?  Ex. Normal-not-so-normal conversation one day: Tab: I do care for you, Stacey.  Stacey: (completely, embarrassingly serious) But you never sit on my lap.&nbs...

Q: What do you get when you put two best friends in a room with a lighter?  A: A prophetic act to burn man-made labels and replace them with the truth of our God-given design. Once the smoke cleared, not only could we breathe again, but we could also see more clearly how God is doing this for all of us! Labels can be subtle little things that are spoken over us, sometimes maliciously but ofte...

Think Disney's just for kids? Well, look again... at Encanto! This story follows Mirabel who, despite lacking a "special gift" like everyone else in her family, fights to save her family's home, which is cracking from the inside due to perfectionism, control, an unwillingness to admit that something is wrong, and so many other reasons!  If Wisdom can scream from the streets like Proverbs says...

Do you ever feel like there's something missing, like you're not sure how to plug-in or show up, and when you do, maybe you still feel unsatisfied or frustrated? Like something just isn't clicking in? The second you received salvation, you were given Holy Spirit gifts. They are unique to you and empower you to take your place in the family of God as an active and contributing member of His superna...