HERE'S A THOUGHT with THE MAKHS

In today's instalment, Phetola has a heart-to-heart with Lehakoe in a candid conversation about life, growing up and a vision for the future...   #TheMakhs #Lehakoe #Conversation #Daughter

We’ve all heard the jokes about the frequency or infrequency of married sex. Is this a fact or myth?   If true, how can we cultivate and sustain a satisfying sex life in marriage♥️   #sexlife #marriedsex #themakhs  For business inquiries please email us on @info.themakhs@gmail.com   Instagram: Please follow and connect with us on:   TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the...

Why do we feel the pressure to fit in when we were born to stand out?   We learn from Psychology, broken down by the Maslow’s hierarchy of needs that Love and Belonging are a huge psychological need.   Therefore people may feel pressure to conform so they fit in or are accepted, or so they don't feel awkward or uncomfortable. In today’s instalment we unpack the pressures of try...

In a world where some women are earning more than their partners and some men choose to be stay at home dads, are gender roles still relevant?

In celebration of the month of love, we unpack what dating advice we would give our daughters or our younger selves♥️

Today we discuss Communication Hacks For HIM.    Love, The Makhs   For business inquiries, please email us on: info.themakhs@gmail.com   Please follow and connect with us on:    Instagram:   TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m...  Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut...  Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me...

We get a lot of people asking us whether we ever fight.  Well…we disagree a lot less these days.  A lot of our arguments stemmed from miscommunication.  Today we share Communication Hacks For Her.    Love,  The Makhs   For business inquiries please email us on  info.themakhs@gmail.com   Please follow and connect with us on:    Instagram: &nbsp...

In today’s instalment we react to Meagan Good and Devon Franklin’s divorce.   Love, The Makhs   For business inquiries please email us on info.themakhs@gmail.com   Please follow and connect with us on:    Instagram:   TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagra...

In today’s PODCAST we discuss the complexities of dating an actor.  What are the rules of engagement and where do we draw the line.   For business inquiries please email us on info.themakhs@gmail.com   Please follow and connect with us on:   Instagram:   TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_mediu...

Do you believe in girlfriend or wife allowance? Let's discuss this hot topic.  Feel free to share your views with us.   Love, The Makhs

There are so many disputes that are birthed through the contentious subject of the opposite sex and exes in relationships. Today we share our perspectives based on our personal experience.

In todays' instalment we discuss the lessons learnt while finding our marriage in a dead place.

In today's instalment we share our lobolo journey. The good, the bad and the funny.  Join us as we take a trip down memory lane.

To love out loud means to love boldly and freely without any reservations. When we love out loud, we inspire others to do the same. Let’s spread the love

There is nothing inherently wrong with being single, and there is nothing inherently good about being in a relationship. We often look at marriage as the grand prize. In today's instalment, we unpack navigating being single and satisfied.   Love, #TheMakhs

What does childhood trauma look like in adults? Childhood trauma in adults can impact experiences and relationships with others due to experienced feelings of shame, and guilt. Childhood trauma also results in feeling disconnected, and being unable to relate to others.  Let's discuss...

Mjolo (dating) doesn’t have to be a pandemic. In this instalment we encourage you to date beyond marriage. Remain forever girlfriends/boyfriends

Financial problems and financial stress can impact your relationship or marriage in many different ways. Your health, emotional and physical intimacy, and home can all be negatively affected by money matters...  Today we share our personal story of the impact finances has had on our relationship. Love The Makhs

In a modern age, being single is no longer a life stage but a state of being, relished by thriving solo communities around the world. Despite this, we still tend to put marriage on a pedestal. Getting wed equals radiant couples searching for wild flower arrangements on Pinterest, or marking the #5years mark with tasteful black and white snaps on Insta. More than a milestone, it’s an entrenched cul...