HER Dating & Relationship Secrets

The Importance of Human Touch 04.05.2026 5:36 ↓

Barry explains The Importance of Human Touch, then goes through the various types of touch that are healthy and needed. He suggests how to bring more loving, healthy, nurturing touch into our lives today!

Embracing Imperfection 02.05.2026 6:20 ↓

Barry explains how Embracing Imperfection improves dating and relationships and gives one simple action to take today to embrace imperfection!

How To Know You’re Ready 01.05.2026 5:55 ↓

Barry explains “How To Know You’re Ready”; how to know you’re ready for a relationship again, how to know you’re ready to fully commit or marry, how to know if you’re ready to end or leave a relationship. He shares the two questions to ask yourself to find out if you are ready, and how to prepare so you are ready for your next stage in your dating or relationship journey.

“Flower Watering” Technique To Create Closeness 30.04.2026 3:28 ↓

You have to like someone to love them fully — in this episode Barry shares the “Flower Watering” Technique to help create a feeling of affinity, closeness, and often chemistry too. It’s an easy way to create better connection with people you are meeting, dating or in a relationship with. It also works to create rapport with co workers, family and friends.

Overworked & Underloved 29.04.2026 5:45 ↓

Barry describes how we can become “Overworked & Underloved”. He explains where it starts in our early life, how it develops and looks in relationships, and gives solutions for how to fix it and get the love you really deserve without having to do everything for everybody.

Learning to Say “No” 28.04.2026 6:36 ↓

Learning to Say “No”

“I’m Sick Of Working On Myself!” The Gift of Being Fed The F Up 27.04.2026 4:59 ↓

“I’m Sick Of Working On Myself!” The Gift of Being Fed The F Up

Why Men Say One Thing But Do Another (Actions vs Words) 26.04.2026 5:37 ↓

Why Men Say One Thing But Do Another (Actions vs Words)

You're Stuck In Your 'But'! 25.04.2026 5:09 ↓

" I know... BUT" is the most destructive thing you can think and say -- in this episode I explain why and how to get out of your 'BUT'.

How To Get A Man With Clear Goal-Setting 24.04.2026 5:29 ↓

How To Get A Man With Clear Goal-Setting

Kissing! The Deeper Language of Lips (And Sometimes Tongues!) 23.04.2026 6:25 ↓

Kissing! The Deeper Language of Lips (And Sometimes Tongues!) 🫦 👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏻

How Yo Activate Your Most Accurate "Picker"! 22.04.2026 5:45 ↓

How Yo Activate Your Most Accurate "Picker"!

A Personal Share (Why I Do This & My Hope For You) 21.04.2026 4:54 ↓

A Personal Share (Why I Do This & My Hope For You)

You Can't Live In The Past & Fall In Love In The Present 20.04.2026 3:32 ↓

You Can't Live In The Past & Fall In Love In The Present

The Ultimate First Date Primer 19.04.2026 7:30 ↓

The Ultimate First Date Primer!

Are You Ready For 'The One'? 18.04.2026 7:07 ↓

Are You Ready For 'The One'? Let’s find out!

All Your Relationship & Dating Problems Are From Unmet Needs 17.04.2026 5:41 ↓

In this 5 minute episode we’ll identify YOUR biggest unmet need Now!

Getting Out! 16.04.2026 2:29 ↓

Want to get off the apps? Get outside! Here’s how and why!

Is It Him Or Me? 15.04.2026 6:35 ↓

In this episode, we discuss understanding men’s behavior, and most importantly understanding your own.

How To Communicate With Men (Indirect & Direct Communication) 12.04.2026 6:04 ↓

How To Communicate With Men (Indirect & Direct Communication) (* PLEASE NOTE: my recording platform continues to add a lisp effect. Working to get that fixed, but this content was too important for you to not hear it, so here it is!)

A Day Off of Dating & Relating 10.04.2026 3:26 ↓

The importance of A Day Off of Dating & Relating

Are You Lonesome Tonight? Dealing with Loneliness, Separation and Disconnection 09.04.2026 9:26 ↓

Are You Lonesome Tonight? Dealing with Loneliness, Separation and Disconnection

Fear Around Dating, Relationships and Kids 08.04.2026 6:56 ↓

Whether you’re single and want kids, a single parent, or have kids and are in a relationship, your fears around kids can be big obstacle to dating and relationships. In this episode address the types of fears that can arise and what to do about them.

How Are You Doing? (Deep Self-Caring) 06.04.2026 5:51 ↓

How Are You Doing? (Deep Self-Caring) Take this moment for yourself.

Do You Know Who You Are In Relationships? 04.04.2026 8:17 ↓

Do You Know Who You Are In Relationships?