HER Dating & Relationship Secrets

“Why Am I Always With Emotionally-Unavailable Partners?”

Breakups (Understanding The Importance of “Why”)

Barry shares a quick, easy, but overlooked way to improve your dating and relationships!

Barry describes the essential nature of patience to create a healthy relationship. He touches on how to be patient, how to not bo too passive, and how to tell the difference between fear-based restlessness and certainty-based action. He shares the missing piece that really makes empowered patience possible, and how you can use it today!

Exercise To Find Out Your Relationship Beliefs

The Biggest Turn-Off For Men

In “Signs A Relationship Will Last” Barry shares 3 clues a relationship has a good chance of lasting!

Barry explores what it means to ‘Be Together’. This has different connotations based on many factors like relationship status (single, in a long term relationship), family background (only child, how present parents were, siblings, experiences), and so on. Barry explains how the way we feel about togetherness defines how we approach dating and relationships! Get ready to look at yourself, dating a...

Barry describes how and when a person stops being true to themself. He shares exactly how to stay true to who you are while dating or in a relationship.

How Weekends Affect Your Relationships, Dating and You

Barry describes how living in close proximity in cities, being in cars and work cubicles, and using high volume technologicalS social interactions has left us feeling more isolated despite the closeness and connectivity. He explains how we experience junk food emotional connection, and how Abstract Loss and lack of face to face experiences feed loneliness. Then he presents a compelling case for wh...

Barry explains how physical and emotional energy affect your dating and relationships. He offers examples and some simple suggestions to get into a positive energy surplus! Get this episode! Get energized!

Barry describes how single people and those in relationships can maintain emotional and sexual intimacy and connection when life hands them a bad day or challenging situation. He offers a method of identifying the one thing that needs to be cleared in order to have closeness and intimacy despite life’s problems!

Barry explains the positive and negative forms of ego as a man’s sense of self. He describes how these affect you if you meet, date or are in a relationship with him. Barry suggests ways to look at male ego so it helps you have a healthy man for a healthy, empowered relationship.

Barry describes the three main types of relationship - no relationship, short-term and long-term, plus a fourth bonus type, the on-again-off-again relationship. He explains the needs each one meets and which needs are not met by that type of relationship. Listen and decide which is right for you, and why!

Knowing yourself is the basis upon which you relate to yourself, your partner, and your entire life. In this episode, learn how we develop a sense of self, and how to cultivate healthy self knowledge so you can consciously choose the woman you want to be, at your best. We cover the influence of parents, the two main ways to gain self-knowledge, the benefits and drawbacks, and we end with a few que...

Barry explains “The Power of Choice & Meaning in Dating and Relationships”. He gives two examples of how choosing a different meaning can change your dating and relationships.

Barry shares a the ways to show yourself so you can connect fully — single women have to show themselves fully for their soulmate to notice who they uniquely are, those in relationships can stop showing themselves fully and then lose intmacy with their partner. Barry gives you ways to fully show yourself, from personal fashion style, to sharing parts of yourself openly, to just getting out of the...

Barry describes the types of “Loss of Control”. He covers how we can seek control over situations and partners to feel more comfortable, safe and secure, how that creates blind spots and problems, and our loss of self-control through emotions we cannot control. He gives examples like not being able to stop thinking about an ex, or intense reactions in escalating arguments where self control is los...

Barry describes the dating and relationship challenges of being a very successful woman, plus his conversation with Maria Shriver about this. He also shares about a study on this, plus what to do about it to have a healthy relationship that celebrated your FULL success and power.

Barry explains how to choose love. There’s a reason we can tolerate dating people who aren’t as loving as we deserve, stay with those people, or go back to those people — there is a reason we often do not choose love, and we end up feeling unloved. Barry explains the core reason, how to choose love, and how to start with an action today.

Without “Believing In Love” there is no way to find love, fall in love, or stay in love! But WHAT you believe love IS can be healthy or unhealthy. Barry delineates the development of our definition of love, and explains how our belief in love changes over time. He shares a simple exercise to give you conscious awareness if your love beliefs.

Barry describes a simple change that immediately improves how we approach dating and relationships! It’s quick and it works — IF you do it!

In “Friends With Benefits (Does It Work?)” Barry describes the emotional mechanics of why we sometimes choose this arrangement, how is can work in certain circumstances, when it doesn’t work, and how to tell the difference.

Barry goes deep into “How Men See You”. He covers how our past wounds can form beliefs that alter how much of our true selves we show others, as well as how identifying a man’s top needs will tell you how he sees you. He gives actions to take today to be seen, and feel safe and loved for who you authentically are.