Healing With Charlie

In this latest guest episode, I chat with Allie K. Campbell about her experience with ADHD and fearful avoidant attachment. We explore tips and mindset strategies to thrive in life and dating! Follow Allie K. Campbell https://linktr.ee/alliekcampbell https://www.tiktok.com/@alliekcampbell https://www.instagram.com/alliekcampbell https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cGD4S-KjME Download My Free 14-day N...

I had a chance to chat with Andrea Kretschmer (LSW) who shared their experience with fearful avoidant attachment, BPD, and shame as a social construct that keeps people stuck in unhealthy patterns. Andrea also shares advice and tips on healing relationships with the self and others. Connect with Andrea to learn more about them: https://www.tiktok.com/@andylynnevans https://linktr.ee/andykret Inter...

Going no contact with a dismissive avoidant ex can be one the most challenging experiences during a breakup. This video explains how soon an avoidant might break no contact and reach out to you based on various factors relating to your relationship. their attachment style and breakup with them Interested In A 1-1 Session With Me? Use The Link Below To Book A Call ⬇️ https://www.healingwithcharlie....

Not sure if your avoidant is emotionally invested? Here are 7 signs to look out for that indicate they value your presence in their life, and deeply care about you. Interested In A 1-1 Session With Me? Use The Link Below To Book A Call ⬇️ https://www.healingwithcharlie.co/services Download My Free 14-day No Contact Journal⬇️ https://www.healingwithcharlie.co/no-contact-journal-signup Connect with...

In this video, I detail the five most common reasons why dismissive avoidants pull away from connections and relationships. Interested In A 1-1 Session With Me? Use The Link Below To Book A Call ⬇️ https://www.healingwithcharlie.co/services Download My Free 14-day No Contact Journal⬇️ https://www.healingwithcharlie.co/no-contact-journal-signup Connect with me for more tips and advice to heal your...

When I started my healing journey, I thought I was anxiously attached because of how I was reacting to my breakup at the time. As my healing journey continued, I discovered I was a fearful avoidant (both anxious and avoidant). This video outlines the process I followed to heal my anxious parts and ultimately discover my avoidant ones too! Interested In A 1-1 Session With Me? Use The Link Below To...

The fearful avoidant and anxious attachment relationship style is a common relationship dynamic that is often misunderstood. In this episode, I break down each attachment style, how their core wounds manifest as behaviours within this dynamic and what both can do to make this relationship work! Download My Free 14-day No Contact Journal⬇️ https://www.healingwithcharlie.co/no-contact-journal-signup...

Do you have anxious attachment? Avoidant? Fearful avoidant or secure? Have you wondered what happens when these styles date other avoidants? Then this episode is for you! This episode explains what can happen when other attachment styles date dismissive avoidants and why it doesn't always end in disaster! I also share advice on how each relationship depending on your attachment style combos ca...

In this special guest episode, I chat with mindset coach Lauren Plante on her healing journey. From healing through breakups to helping others reprogram their mindset, Lauren shares her experience as she's helped others grow and succeed in their relationships and careers. Connect with Lauren: https://www.instagram.com/lauplante https://www.youtube.com/@LaurenPlante https://www.tiktok.com/@laup...

Dating avoidants can be a complex and frustrating experience. For many, frustration arises when they deactivate and seemingly pull away. In today's episode, I explain why avoidants deactivate along with 5 common deactivating strategies. Download My Free 14-day No Contact Journal⬇️ https://www.healingwithcharlie.co/no-contact-journal-signup Interested In A 1-1 Session With Me? Use The Link Belo...

I've heard this story countless times. You start dating someone new, and it's amazing. You spend so much time together and they're putting in great effort to be with you. Then suddenly, there's a shift in their behaviour and you notice it immediately. They're not texting you as much, they're not as excited when they interact with you, and they start saying things like &quot...

In this episode, I cover the 4 common signs when an avoidant wants to reconnect with you and possibly get back together after a breakup. I also outline some of the things you both should discuss if the idea of getting back together becomes real. Download My Free 14-day No Contact Journal⬇️ https://www.healingwithcharlie.co/no-contact-journal-signup Interested In A 1-1 Session With Me? Use The Link...

In this special guest episode, I chat with Brittany Bacinski on her healing journey. From discovering her fearful avoidant attachment style while dating, to writing as a form of healing and growth, Brittany shares the insights she's gained as a best-selling author! Connect with Brittany: https://www.instagram.com/brittanybacinski https://www.tiktok.com/@brittanybacinski https://brittanybacinsk...

Avoidants don't always come back, but many of them do because of two reasons. Both are outlined in this episode! Chapters: 00:00 Avoidants Come Back 00:29 First Reason They Come Back 00:48 Why They Pull Away Abruptly 03:07 Second Reason They Come Back 05:39 How Anxious & Avoidants Process Breakups Differently 06:27 What Do You Do When They Come Back 08:02 What Avoidants Experience Durning...

If you're going through no contact with an avoidant ex, the fear of being forgotten may have crossed your mind. Fear not! This episode explains why this can be a good thing that brings you both together again. Chapters: 00:00 Intro 00:37 What Is No Contact? 01:50 Will Your Ex Forget You? 02:40 When They Forget About You 03:21 When They Start To Remember You Again 04:24 Do They Think About You...

No contact with fearful avoidants can be an emotional rollercoaster. During this time, you may wonder what they're feeling or thinking and that's exactly what this episode covers! Chapters: 00:00 Intro 00:48 What Is No Contact? 01:31 Phase 1 - Relief 04:25 Phase 2 - Numbing 06:39 Phase 3 - Longing 09:38 What To Do When They Come Back Download My Free 14-day No Contact Journal⬇️ https://www...

No contact for anxious preoccupied attachers can be an emotional rollercoaster. During this time, you may wonder what they're feeling or thinking and that's exactly what this episode covers! Connect with me for more tips and advice to heal your attachment style! https://healingwithcharlie.co https://healingwithcharlie.co/links https://www.tiktok.com/@healingwithcharlie

No contact with a dismissive avoidant ex is one of the hardest experiences. During this time, you may wonder what they're feeling or thinking and that's exactly what this video covers. Connect with me for more tips and advice to heal your attachment style! https://healingwithcharlie.co https://healingwithcharlie.co/links https://www.tiktok.com/@healingwithcharlie

Creating an intimate and safe connection with an avoidant partner can be difficult. However, with the right tools and mindset, it's possible to get them to open up with you! Connect with me for more tips and advice to heal your attachment style! ⁠⁠⁠www.healingwithcharlie.co⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@healingwithcharlie⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healingwithcharlie⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Free 14-day No Contac...

Disorganized attachment can be confusing for couples to navigate, and result in mixed emotions and behaviour within the relationship. In this video, I cover the traits of the fearful avoidant attachment style, how it manifests as behaviours within relationships and how to heal it to become more securely attached. Connect with me for more tips and advice to heal your attachment style! ⁠⁠www.healing...

Avoidant attachment can be draining and cause couples to miss out on great moments for deep connection. In this video, I cover the traits of an avoidant attachment style, how it manifests as behaviours within relationships and how to heal it to become more securely attached. Connect with me for more tips and advice to heal your attachment style! ⁠www.healingwithcharlie.co⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@...

Anxious attachment can be exhausting and place immense stress on a relationship. In today's episode, I cover the traits of an anxious attachment style, how it manifests as behaviours within relationships and how to heal it to become more securely attached. Connect with me for more tips and advice to begin healing your attachment style: ⁠⁠www.healingwithcharlie.co⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@hea...