Great Date Guy

Every relationship starts the same way. And ends the same way. What if that's not a coincidence? In this episode, we cover why your relationships keep falling apart. What hidden habits keep that cycle going. And the very uncomfortable secret to erasing the storms that tear relationships apart.

Being an ethnic minority can come with extra dating challenges - from unfair stereotypes to plain old prejudice. But are those externally imposed hurdles really the key factor holding you back? In this episode... Why my race really WASN'T the issue with my dating struggles. The uncomfortable stereotypes Asian men face (and what I did). How to spot if you're blaming race instead of lacking...

This episode is for anyone still struggling with those stubborn mental blocks to finding the partner they desire and deserve. The 9 mind viruses that made me undatable (and how I cured them) Why you need to stop consuming dating advice. The 5-minute face meditation that removed my anxiety around hot women. How staring at a woman’s photo could save your dating life. Why you secretly believe you don...

Candid insights and practical strategies for anyone seeking a fresh perspective on revamping their dating life. Tune in to uncover the secret to a game changing dating reset. The #1 thing I'd do before dating again (hint: most guys don't do this and it's not good) Why social shotgunning is better than Tinder for 80% of men. Why I stopped playing it cool with women The step-by-step way...

Where she's actually looking at when she sees you Why you keep getting ghosted How to become 2x more attractive without changing anything about yourself The little known secret that makes men more attractive to single women. The real reason it feels like all the dating advice you're getting contradicts itself How to pick clothes that make you stand out to girls

Not sure you're supposed to be with the person you're dating? Here are some major signs you need to gtfo. Why it's so hard to leave abusive relationships (and what actually qualifies?) Signs your partner is never going to change (even if they keep promising you that they will) Why liars lie, and how to spot them. The no. 1 trait you DO NOT want your partner to have (it can be tricky to...

This is why you keep getting worse and worse results on that dating app you love/hate. (Hint: it doesn't have shit to do with your rizz) Been awhile, gang. But we're back. In this episode... The real reason why you're still single (and hating it) The sinister design of dating apps, how that makes it harder to find real connection, and how to beat the system. Five ways to instantly impr...

Thought about just leaving the podcast as it was, but that woulda been wierd. Leaving without saying goodbye.  As a special thank you for listening, I thought I'd record a podcast where I taught everything I wish I'd learned the moment I hit 18. Inside... The difference between a steamy vs. platonic date How to stop being so outcome dependent The one thing you must avoid if you don't want dat...

In this episode: 1. The no. 1 reason you aren't getting better with women. 2. Why most men get stuck settling for less and how to stop the cycle. 3. How to know if you're thinking like a boy vs. thinking like a man. 4. The biggest thing you need to change today if you're still taking rejection personally. 5. Why self compassion is one of the most, if not THE most important skill you can learn on y...

In this episode... She wants sex! We talk about how to create conversations and environments that help her have sex with YOU. What to do when sex starts to feel like WORK and STRESS Why your fear of rejection is running the show in the bedroom (in the worst possible way) and how to erase it How to create the kind of juicy emotional intimacy that women crave The ONLY mindset that will consistently...

You want to date out of your league? This is everything I've learned in the past month about attracting and dating gorgeous women. Once you've listened to this podcast you will understand... The optimal way to structure your profile Absolute dos and don'ts when writing your "about me" The types of women to absolutely avoid when you're swiping online How women assess men for dating and relationship...

Welcome to the horror show that is online dating. Today we cover off on why so many women seem to be so damned skittish and unavailable (there's actually a good reason for that. Surprised? I was, too). And maybe more importantly, what we can do about that. If you're tired of feeling rejected, unattractive, or just plain resigned about your online dating experience, dis one for you.

By now you've probably had it drilled into your skull that as a man you need to be more dominant in the bedroom, boardroom, and apparently everywhere else you're expected to show up. While dominance is an important thing, most experts never bother explaining that dominance is what naturally happens when someone is an effective leader. People surrender their power to you. Now there are MANY ways to...

If you've ever wanted to talk to someone absolutely gorgeous only to choke and have the whole thing go down in flames moments later...this is for you. In this episode... Mary walks us through how to stop self sabotaging (and why it happens) when the stakes are high... A quick, 3 minute exercise to stop approach anxiety and other strong, unpleasant emotions... Why you should be paying more attentio...

Today we talk about breaking up with honor. In a world of ghosting and silent resentment, this is how you show up as a goddamn warrior. This is how you break up without living to regret it - AND we'll show you how to do it with the utmost compassion and love for yourself, the other person, and the relationship you shared. Inside... What to do when things get too spicy and you're ready to snap? How...

In this episode, we share the exact step by step method to become a conflict breaker. Someone who can halt big ugly fights and confrontation in their tracks - before they cross the point of no return. This is among one of the most attractive skills you can ever learn as a romantic partner. Today we share… 3 skills that will immediately de-escalate conflict The one thing you absolutely need to avoi...

I think by now, most men have learned that being told they're *nice* is the kiss of death. It's almost worse than being told you aren't tall enough... But what does it actually mean to be a "nice guy" and is being a bad boy actually any better? As ye olde adage goes, "women love a**holes"...but is that actually even true? In this episode, we talk about the pros and cons of each approach, how to re...

This episode is for you if… Life feels like Groundhog Day. The problems and challenges won’t stop coming, and worst of all, it feels like they’re on repeat. You keep dating the same horrible people. You keep getting steamrolled or taken advantage of at work. You keep trying to start a business and they just keep on failing. By the time you finish, you’ll get… Two foolproof approaches to breaking t...

What's up baddies. Got a sizzling hot take from our guest today Ashley Cox. In this episode: What keeps nice guys trapped in a cycle of endless painful relationships? How this relationship dynamic forces women to occupy a masculine role (that they hate!) How to stop your partner from unconsciously manipulating you and ignoring your boundaries The easiest way to shed your nice guy tendencies and st...

Welcome to the sh*tty part of dating. Where we've built up this story in our head of how things are ending happily ever after, only to be greeted by silence, loss of communication, and pain. One moment they're in love with us. The next, they won't call us back. In this episode we discuss exactly what to do.. How to stop the pain.. What causes this behavior.. And what to expect if you continue.

In this episode, Scott gets interviewed on exactly how he gets so many dates just by talking with strangers. This is a skill that mystifies me, too - so we've got almost an hour of content here for you today on the step by step, how to cultivate the proper mindset, and a few examples of how a good approach would look.

This is a big one for me. Any time I suspect someone might be upset at me it fucks me up in a big way. I’m talking about staying up late, not getting enough sleep, being distracted all day. So in this ep, I’ll be talking about how I got through caring too much what other people think – and by that, I mean everything I learned from having my TEDx talk launch and suddenly start getting hundreds of c...

And this podcast we run through one very simple exercise that will help you stop reacting with anger, hurt, or feelings of rejection when things go wrong. If you've noticed that you've been getting into arguments or very weird head spaces more often than you like, this is the one for you.

Clean your space. Look at the areas in your home and in your life you have been consciously or unconsciously avoiding. And start feeling everything that comes up. An important distinction here. What do we mean by feel your feelings? Emotions always come with a sensation in the body. That's why we call em feelings. If you want to have emotional mastery, the first place to look is... Can I just obse...

In this episode... How to rapidly advance your social skills with attractive women What pitfalls to avoid if you want to learn to be good as quickly as possible The secret to minimizing your discomfort while maximizing your growth What I do with my eye contact to completely avoid coming across creepy And of course, there's more...