Girl Stop Talking

This week on Girl Stop Talking , we’re breaking down the relationship patterns that quietly follow us into our dating lives, friendships, and every uncomfortable conversation we would rather avoid. We unpack secure, anxious, and avoidant attachment styles—including how they develop, how they show up in adult relationships, and why understanding your attachment style isn’t an excuse for unhealthy b...

This week on Girl Stop Talking , I’m recapping seven unforgettable days in Japan—and apparently, I couldn’t even make it through our first night without creating an international incident. After touching down in a foreign country, my son completely passed out inside our hotel room with the lights and TV still on… while I was locked outside with no phone, no help, and absolutely no idea what to do....

What if the thing standing between you and better intimacy isn’t a lack of chemistry—but the fact that neither of you knows how to say what you actually want? This week on *Girl Stop Talking*, Tatum sits down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton for an honest, playful conversation about communicating your wants, understanding your needs, and sharing your fantasies without making your partner feel in...

This week on Girl Stop Talking, Tatum is giving you TWO positions that tie into the topic of todays episode! We're getting honest about the difference between what turns us on in our imagination and what we genuinely want in real life. From fantasies about surrender, attention, control, being watched, and adding another person, we’re asking the bigger question: Do you want the actual experienc...

Happy fucking Monday, bitches! This week, Girl Stop Talking is coming to you live from STIMULATE, the sexual health and wellness conference in Nashville, with a lineup of quickies—and for once, we’re talking about interviews. First, I sit down with Dr. Tara to cover basically everything you’ve ever wanted to ask your most sexually adventurous friend: open relationships, sex cruises, squirting, que...

Girl Stop Talking is officially getting back to its roots: equal parts healthy habits and explicit behavior. We’re kicking things off with a weekly win and a little mindset check before diving headfirst into the return of the POS series—and yes, that stands for Position of the Week. I tried a new position, and naturally, we need to discuss what happened, how it went, and whether it deserves a repe...

Do you actually like them… or do you just really fucking want them to like you? This week, I’m joined by Nadège, sex scholar and founder of Pleasure Science, and we’re getting into the psychology behind how we flirt, date, choose partners, and sometimes completely lose ourselves trying to create connection. We break down different flirting styles , what they can reveal about how we approach attrac...

Happy fucking Monday, bitches — we’re BACK. And after taking a few months away from the podcast, it only felt right to come back with a life update and a minor 30-year-old identity crisis. I spent most of my 20s building a career and a life that gave me exactly what I wanted: financial independence, freedom, the ability to provide for my son, travel, have fun, and create a schedule that was mine....

This week’s episode is a real-time check-in — life, mindset, and everything in between. It's honest, reflective, and probably a little too relatable if you’ve been feeling off, overwhelmed, or stuck in go-mode without a pause button. We’re starting with my 75 Hard journey, honestly, felt like I failed… but ended up realizing I’m actually making decisions that are better aligned with me long-te...

This week on Girl Stop Talking , we’re getting real about something I like to call “reflection projection.” You know that moment when someone sees you showing up for yourself, chasing your dreams, and instead of being inspired… they project their insecurities onto you? Yeah, we’re unpacking all of that. I’m sharing some real-life experiences where I’ve dealt with projection, where it comes from ps...

EP126- This week’s episode is all about stepping into the next version of you — loudly, confidently, and without asking for permission. I’m opening up about shifting careers into personal development, what it looks like to lean fully into inspiring and encouraging others, and how scary — but necessary — it is to evolve in public. We’re talking reflection, self-awareness, and the power of showing u...

EP125- This week’s episode is giving glow-up energy, bedroom upgrades, and reality TV therapy. We’re debriefing weekly wins — including hitting 300 YouTube subscribers (hi, I love you), being two weeks into 75 Hard, and stepping fully into this new era where I feel high on life, locked in, and hyper self-aware about who I’m becoming. Then, of course, we check in on last week’s Position of the Week...

(Episode 124) -This week’s episode is part weekly check-in, part confidence pep talk, and part chaotic girl debrief— just the way we like it. We’re starting off with our weekly wins… but one of mine turns into a full-blown story time about fear, missed opportunities, and why playing it safe is basically a one-way ticket to staying stuck. We’re talking about how fear can literally be the death of g...

This week’s episode is a little bit of everything — wins, chaos, creativity, and a sprinkle of “did that just happen?” We’re starting off with our weekly wins and a real chat about what it’s like posting content every single day — balancing feeling inspired and creative… versus procrastinating, spiraling, and suddenly feeling overwhelmed for no reason. Then we jump into Week 2 of Sex Positions of...

Let's play catch up.. On our dreams. LOL Celebrating wins after being sick and rambling on about taking a chance on yourself. Dream Big and watch it pay off.. Weekly WINS, new positions, and finding structure this week. If this is your first episode, there are better ones I promise LOL

This week’s episode is part real-life check-in, part motivation, and part “get your life together” energy — even if you’re PMS-ing, sick, and feeling like you’ve been hit by a truck. We’re starting off with three wins from my week (because growth doesn’t stop just because your hormones are spiraling), and then we dive into one of my favorite topics: GOALS. I’m breaking down the 30-60-90 day rule ,...

This week’s episode is part mindset reset, part life update, and part hot-guy observation hour. We’re starting off with a weekly check-in and three wins from the past week , then diving into why mindset is everything when it comes to actually changing your life. I’m breaking down how the stories we tell ourselves can either keep us stuck or move us forward — and how that’s been showing up in my fi...

(Epsiode119) This week’s episode is pure story time chaos! We’re talking gym drama with a rude man who clearly woke up and chose audacity, dealing with straight-up disrespect in my Instagram comments, and — because life loves to humble you — my son walking in on my man and I during an intimate moment. This episode is all about boundaries being tested, lessons learned in real time, and navigating a...

I’m joined by the one and only Neeki Motabar, host of The Baddest B*** in the Building Podcast*, and we’re diving deep into the world of dating power plays — from singles who are in their soft girl but strategic era, to the girlies navigating long-term relationships and learning how to keep the balance of love and leverage. Neeki shares how she reimagined The 48 Laws of Power into her own 28 Girly...

This week’s episode is all about friendships, boundaries, and showing up with grace. I’m diving into the art of compartmentalizing friendships — because let’s be honest, not every friend plays the same role in our lives (and that’s totally okay). From The Therapist, The Party Starter, The Planner, The Ghost Texter, The Drama Magnet, to The Mom Friend — we all have our people who serve different pu...

116- This week’s episode is giving chaos, honesty, and birthday energy! I’m answering What Would Tatum Do? — ten hilarious (and slightly unhinged) scenarios my friends came up with to see if they could guess how I’d really react. I’m reading them for the first time on the podcast, so you’re getting my unfiltered, real-time reactions. You’ll also get clips from my birthday weekend — the hibachi din...

This week’s episode is all about the expectations we put on friendships—especially me, because girl, I’ve had some lessons to learn. I’m getting real about how I’ve lost friendships because of unrealistic expectations and how much I’ve grown from those moments. We’re also diving into your poll answers and write-ins about the struggles that come with adult friendships—because let’s be honest, it’s...

113- This week’s episode is extra special because we’re closing the chapter on my 20s and stepping into a whole new era. You know birthdays have always been a big deal for me — but this one hits different. I’m diving into childhood memories, why I’ve always celebrated birthdays like they’re my personal Super Bowl, and sharing the 30 lessons I’ve learned in 30 years. From love and friendships to ca...

112- ⚠️ Trigger Warning: Domestic Violence & Emotional Abuse ⚠️This week’s episode is a little different, giiiirl—I’m sharing my own personal (and very dramatic) story about my most toxic relationship. We’re talking court dates, restraining orders, wild nights out, people showing up where they definitely shouldn’t, and the total disconnect between the courts and the law. Now, I know that’s hea...

111- This week’s episode is a special one — my man is finally on the mic with me! We’re giving you the inside scoop on how we met, the funny details of our relationship, and answering all the questions YOU sent in on Instagram. We’re talking dating, love, and everything in between — from the silly quirks of being a couple to the deeper lessons we’ve learned along the way. And don’t worry, singles,...