Divas and Duckets

Some of us live by the phrase "YOLO" a little too much when it comes to money while others clinch their fist like Scrooge McDuck. Generally, there tends to be a psychological explanation behind both attitudes toward money. In this episode, we delve deeper into the reasons and thought processes driving many of our financial decisions and habits. Where You Can Find Us Instagram YouTube Facebook

Whether you're into Valentine's Day or not, many celebrated Love Day recently. In this episode, we look back at our experiences with wedding planning, our wedding days and expenses we could take (or leave) in hindsight. We also discuss changes after marriage, financially and otherwise. Where You Can Find Us Instagram YouTube Facebook

We weren't waiting until May to do a mental health check in. Statistically, it can be difficult to find a therapist who looks like you: currently black therapists account for about 4-5% of the total provider population. The numbers are the same for Hispanic/Latino and Asian providers. In this episode, we discuss our current therapy journey, how we've found providers we resonate with and concepts w...

Life and experiences tend to be the best teachers, but we don't believe in gatekeeping. In this episode, we discuss simple (and not so simple) lessons we've learned along the way to save money, secure better interest rates on loans and more! Where you can find us Instagram YouTube Facebook

In these uncertain times, many are being impacted by downsizing and layoffs. Others are looking to make a change and transition into new areas. In this episode, Quick and Lee sit down to discuss their experiences with career starts, stops and pauses including lessons learned along the way and tips for those who are currently looking for their next opportunity. Where you can find us Instagram YouTu...

Everything has a price tag, and everyone has their thing: for some it's luxury bags or cars, for others it's the relaxation of a massage. Where some would argue a particular expenditure is an unnecessary splurge, others would find it almost impossible to part with. In this episode, Quick and Lee sit down and have a little fun discussing circumstances when they'd "throw dem dollars" or tighten thei...

Proposals and engagements are exciting! Planning a wedding is fun (for some). However, what most people don't talk about is the cost, not only of the actual ceremony, but the finances and important conversations to have once you've blended your life with that of your partner. In this episode, Quick and Lee break down the dollars, cents, and arrangements to think about and discuss should you choose...

To shack or not to shack? It's an important decision and discussion to have with your partner. Admittedly, there can be many financial incentives (especially in this economy) as well as draw backs. In this episode, we discuss all that, things to consider, and share our own experiences with cohabitating. Where You Can Find Us Instagram YouTube Facebook

Coming into Q4, you may have done some reviews at work depending on your job's fiscal year. You may also be looking toward the end of year and assessing where you are in terms of your goals. In this episode we discuss things to consider, how to pivot, and encourage you to give grace. Where You Can Find Us Instagram YouTube Facebook

It's been too long! Life has truly lifed since our last episode. Here's a sneak peek into what we've been up to and what we have in store! Where You Can Find Us Instagram YouTube Facebook

In this economy, many of us are trying to create multiple streams of income...or perhaps you'd like to be your own boss. One popular (and potentially lucrative) stream of income is transportation, specifically trucking. Enter Fred Yancy, who specializes in car hauling. In this episode, Fred walks us through his journey from army vet to entrepreneur, describes several paths those interested in truc...

They say money doesn't mix with friends and family, which can certainly be true when it comes to blending business with loved ones. Depending on each person's goals and interests, it just may (or may NOT) be a good idea. In this episode we explore things to consider when going into business with friends, how to handle not feeling supported by friends, what we've learned along the way as friends in...

On average, people are getting married older compared to generations before. That said, many may have accrued assets over the years prior to meeting that special someone. In this episode we speak with Attorney Rasheda Jiles Sanders to discuss what constitutes "marital property" vs "separate property", the real deal about prenups, how to protect yourself beforehand from fallout in the unfortunate e...

All too often, we hear stories in the news of celebrity's family members fighting over an estate. As abstract as it seems, it is far too common that individuals pass without a will or estate plan in place. If you have any asset whatsoever, you need a will at the very least! In this episode, we sit down with Attorney Robyn Hicks-Guinn where we discuss how to protect your assets, how to plan for you...

Money--be it debt, the lack thereof, or a combination of two--can be a major source of stress. We've shared numerous times on this show that finance is one of the top two reasons for divorce. Let's face it, money is a big deal! When our money is funny or we aren't where we'd like to be financially, it can take a toll on our mental health manifesting as stress, anxiety, and even depression. In this...

In honor of Mental Health Awareness month, we have straight talk with Dr. Travis Andrews about black men and mental health. We discuss: the stereotypes--and even fear--they have to navigate daily and the toll that can have on their mental health as well as how to show up for black men and encourage (and honor) vulnerability. Where You Can Find Us Where You Can Find Dr. Andrews Dr. Andrews IG

It may not be easy to hear but most of us will have a life event within our lifetime that requires long-term disability benefits or long-term care. Many of us may have experience with the latter in caring for aging family members or loved ones. What you may not know is that if you're just depending on your employer benefits, you may not be fully covered. Enter Jevertus "JB" Burnett. In this episod...

Wedding season is upon us! Like most things in life, weddings are far from free. In fact as of 2022, the average cost for a wedding with 150 guests is hovering around $30,000! That's no small chunk of change and determining what items can stand to be cut when budgeting can be a struggle--enter Sharee Allen of Couture Events by Sharee. We sat down with Sharee to discuss how to cut wedding costs, ho...

The average American owes about 30-50K in student loans and around 5-15K in credit card debt. Getting ahold of debt can seem to be an impossible task, especially nowadays when wages are stagnating while the price of everything is steadily on the rise. In this episode, we break down how to tackle debt one step at a time, what factors make up your credit score, how much each factor weighs on your cr...

Nothing in life is free and apparently dating is no exception. Lately however, it seems like the quest for connection is putting many in a financial crunch. The average first date now costs over $75 and in a recent Lending Tree poll. 32% of people stated that they would still go on a date even if they could not afford it! In this episode, we discuss how to date without going into debt, date ideas...

It's a trendy term lately, "soft life". For some it simply means living with a sense of balance and refusing to remain in unhealthy situations. However, the term has also taken on a life of its own thanks to social media as some align the term with luxurious living or liken a soft life to cutting people off when things get tough or uncomfortable. In this episode we discuss soft life--what it is, w...

"It's the most wonderful time of the year!!!" (for some). It's around this time when many begin to plot out goals they'd like to achieve in the coming year and take stock of what went well (and not so well) over the last twelve months. Whether you crushed 2022 or have room to improve, the Divas are here! We're dedicating this episode to making sure our listeners are giving themselves grace. We're...

No matter what poll you look at, you'll find that the top 2 reasons for divorce revolve around issues with sex and money. This episode, Quick and Lee bring themselves to the table to honestly discuss their views on: earning more (or less) than their partner, if they'd pay for the first date, how soon they have conversations about money with bae in real life and more. Where You Can Find Us

Did you know that every 9 seconds a woman in the US is assaulted or beaten? Or that as many as 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men face domestic violence from an intimate partner? Domestic Violence remains a serious issue across the nation and many victims suffer in silence due to shame, lack of resources and isolation. In honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we sat down with Dr. Angelia Riggsbee,...

The more things change, the more some things remain the same such as the stigma against women who choose not to have children, presumptions about stay-at-home moms or the fact that women generally are still the primary caretaker regardless of their employment status. That decision, having children, affects women in multiple ways--their time, their expenses even their yearly bonuses. In this episod...