DIORBECCA's Thoughts

You can't teach what you haven't learned.

You teach people in general and your lover specifically how to treat you by what you allow, accept, tolerate, communicate and demand. By not teaching these lessons effectively, you set yourself up for heartbreak and disrespect. Therefore, you have to accept your role as the teacher and realize that you are responsible to set the parameters for what is acceptable and preferred treatment by your par...

Is it really love if there's no trust?

Our moral standards, views and perceptions varies due to our individual differences. However one thing that remains constant is the truth and fact.

I recently joined club house and it went like.....

Before either gender decides to get married, there's always a tale of gut feelings (from men). For women, they always require a kind of thoughtfulness that money can't buy. As you have heard from my friends, the certainty of marriage after courtship doesn't require a set of rules written in stone (especially when you feel your money, sex or domestic duties will guarantee marriage). To the best of...

Tell me what you think.

This is me not minding my business 🙃

Let's go a little deep into commitments that comes with friendship.

What's your New Year's resolutions looking like?

When they tell you who they are, don't just ignore it.

"Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house".

"Being a good man is something you do, not something you are".

"Fear is like a rocking chair. It will keep you busy but take you nowhere".

Be safe this holiday season so you can celebrate many more holiday seasons to come. Be the reason someone smiles today. Pay kindness forward. Make it rain SURPRISES!😊

Don't worry about people waltzing in and out of your life. They're either helping you discover new sides to you, or they are leaving you lessons to learn from. Either way, you are growing into an amazing version of yourself.

Studies into inter-personal connectivity have shown that friendships are the most important relationships we have in terms of our health and happiness, and cultivating them into old age could even help us live longer. Here is our shared experiences so far...

Old enough to get married? Then act like it for your sake. 🙂

How about testing yourself to know if you're ready to share your personal space, push your patience limit, practice having a mature conversation and above learning conflict management with your other half.

No matter how beautiful and successful you are, there's just one important factor that'll always determine the fate of your relationship. This episode details what to expect as a single mom in the dating pond.

He can look like the husband material all six yards but doesn't want to be your husband even for just a quarter yard.

It took me a while to realize he was a narcissist, but it's too late now.

Going all in too soon will make you make permanent plans with temporary people. When they leave, you'll hurt the most.

#ENDSARS is a trending situation in Nigeria. It's a broad issue that could last an entire podcast season. My heart was heavy, and i had to share a summary of the situation with you all. RIP to all lost lives in Africa. May the breath of God bring peace to the continent. Amen.

Then i took myself out ASAP. It's never too hard to undo anything, with discipline YOU CAN.