Depth Unknown

In this episode, we explore what home means after years of movement, distance, and change. We talk about physical spaces, relational anchors, familiar rituals, objects that carry memory, and the quiet feeling of being known. We ask whether home is a place, a person, a rhythm, or a state of peace. Along the way, we reflect on travel, family, friendship, Portland, London, Costco cheese, World Cup en...

In this episode, we reflect on the experience of stepping away from certainty and into the unknown. There are moments in life when making the decision is the easy part. The harder part comes afterwards. Whether it’s leaving a job, starting something new, moving cities or navigating a changing season of life, there is often a period where the outcome remains hidden and all you can do is keep moving...

In this episode, we let the structure come from a deck of question cards. What begins as a tired morning/evening check-in turns into a looser, stranger, more fun conversation about first impressions, friendship, Costco cheese, adrenaline, travel danger, sports commentary, reality TV, and the quiet absurdity of knowing someone for years across countries, time zones, and life chapters. We revisit ho...

In this episode, we explore what it means to move through changing seasons of life: shifting identities, evolving relationships, migration, routine, ambition, and the tension between stability and novelty. What starts as a conversation about disrupted routines and summer heat slowly unfolds into something deeper. A reflection on how people respond when life no longer looks the way it once did. We...

In this episode, we explore the hidden work that happens before momentum becomes visible. We begin with check ins, noticing how place, rhythm, sleep, work, and morning movement shape our inner state. From there, we move into a deeper conversation about creativity, sacrifice, focus, and what it takes to protect something tender before it has fully taken form. The central idea becomes the -1 to 0 ga...

In this in person episode, we find ourselves sitting with a familiar but often unspoken tension, the feeling of being pulled in multiple directions, while knowing that moving forward requires something quieter, and harder: clarity. We reflect on what it means to commit, not just in what we say yes to, but in what we’re willing to let go of. How often we carry more than we need. How easily our mind...

In this episode, we record in person for the first time in a while, and the conversation carries a different warmth because of it. We begin with playfulness, proximity, and the strange sweetness of simply being in the same room, before moving into something deeper. We reflect on what it means to be physically near the people who matter to us, and how much our nervous systems soften in the presence...

In this episode, we shift into something more immediate, more grounded, and closer to where we actually are. We talk about what it feels like to be out of rhythm. When everything feels heavier than it should. When you know what to do, but can’t seem to do it. We explore the tension between ambition and capacity, the quiet pressure of time, and the internal negotiation that happens when your mind a...

In this episode, we begin with fatigue and the slow return to momentum, and somehow find ourselves in the heart of forgiveness. We reflect on what it means to be wronged, not grand betrayals, but in the quiet fractures of everyday life. We explore whether forgiveness is about the other person at all, or whether it is a decision about the weight we are willing to keep carrying. We talk about self-b...

In this opening conversation of Season Two, we begin not with theory, but with where we actually are. We talk about cold starts to the year. About building momentum when energy feels scattered. About the quiet exhaustion that comes from keeping too many pots on the stove. We explore the tension between force and flow. Between sympathetic drive and parasympathetic rest. Between chasing outcomes and...

In this episode, we reflect on the journey of Depth Unknown so far. From the initial leap into vulnerability to the unexpected weight of philosophy, from pilot episodes to persistent trust, this episode is a reflection on what it means to build something real. We chat about the creative hesitations, the unspoken rules we bring into collaboration, and the difference between starting something and s...

In this episode, we reflect on what it means to become as an ongoing negotiation with truth, agency, and consequence. We explore the quieter forms of self betrayal: the things we avoid, the words we don't say, the lives we tolerate because they are familiar or convenient. We talk about conscience, jealousy, and the subtle signals that reveal what we value before we're ready to admit it. Th...

In this episode, we explore the quiet, private rituals that build a life of self-trust. We talk about niyamas, tapasya, and the invisible scaffolding of discipline. We discuss how agency is built not through grand declarations, but through small acts done consistently, often when no one is watching. We reflect on the difference between living reactively and living with intention. From cold showers...

In this episode we reflect on how childhood models of care, cultural inheritance, and lived experiences shape our internal compass, sometimes aligning us with our values, sometimes pulling us away. This episode focuses on the subtle difference between knowing yourself and trusting yourself , and how each is forged through challenge, reflection, and presence. Links ⁠⁠http://depthunknown.fm/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠htt...

Description In this episode, we explore the anatomy of trust: what it is, where it comes from, and how we build (or break) it over time. We dive into our contrasting worldviews: one that trusts implicitly and grants opportunities by default, and one that trusts experientially, through layers of consistent behavior. The conversation weaves through childhood influences, friendships lost and preserve...

In this episode, we explore the quiet weight of personal transformation. We talk about the pressure of becoming, how it shows up as resistance, inertia, and fatigue, and what it takes to keep moving when the rewards of change are delayed. The conversation weaves through themes of loss, motivation, masks, emotional honesty, and the people who walk with us as we grow. This is an episode about the dr...

In this episode, we reflect on what simplicity really means, not as a design aesthetic or productivity hack, but as a state of internal alignment. We explore how the transition into autumn mirrors the desire to slow down and find clarity, and how routines and environments can anchor us during seasons of change. Seth shares a deeply personal story of grief and the loss of his mother, and how it res...

In this episode, we explore how travel shapes and reveals our inner world. We reflect on how our earliest experiences with travel formed our relationship with freedom, discomfort, and cultural difference. From family road trips to solo adventures abroad, we share the stories that challenged our assumptions and opened up new ways of seeing. This is a conversation about how movement through the worl...

In this episode, we explore how the environments we grow up in shape our emotional lives and our sense of what’s possible. We talk about growing up in the U.S. and the UK, and how culture, language, and social norms influence our worldviews, often in ways we don’t fully see until we leave. We reflect on emotional repression vs. openness, the weight of shame, and the ways each environment invites o...

In this episode, we reflect on how boundaries shape our sense of identity and relationship. We explore how childhood experiences influenced our sense of control, freedom, and emotional expression, and how that shows up in adulthood. This is a conversation about discomfort, vulnerability, and the difference between protecting yourself and revealing yourself. We ask what it means to be fully seen, a...

In our opening episode of Depth Unknown , we trace the beginnings of our worldviews, the inner worlds that shaped our questioning and the external champions who gave us direction. We reflect on the early oscillations between solitude and community, self and other, and the figures - teachers, friends, institutions, and strangers - who became champions of our perspectives. But champions don’t always...

In this preliminary conversation, we reflect on how Depth Unknown came to be and why we’re finally starting it nearly a decade after our first attempt. We talk about our friendship, the experiences that shaped our worldviews, and the kind of conversations that have sustained us over time. This episode is raw, reflective, and full of questions: What does it mean to be vulnerable in public? How do y...