Dear Schuyler

In this bonus episode, Schuyler speaks with Dr. Karen Tang, gynecologist, viral TikToker, and author of the new book, It's Not Hysteria: Everything You Need to Know About Your Reproductive Health (But Were Never Told) out May 7th. Schuyler and Dr. Tang discuss the ins-and-outs of reproductive healthcare, with particular focus on gender affirmation and the effects systemic oppression on effecti...

In the last episode of season one of Dear Schuyler, Leo Sheng chats with Schuyler about why representation matters and why good representation is trickier than some might think.

Isolation often allows hate to endure, making it crucial to break through such barriers. However, for trans people, recounting one's journey can be a complex experience. That is why Schuyler invited Ryan Cassata on to the show. Together, they explore Ryan's discussions about his gender journey on shows like Larry King Live and The Tyra Banks Show, and his approach to sharing his life story...

The gender binary, or the idea that there are only two genders, is at the core of so many issues facing transgender people today. However, Schuyler speaks with the host of PBS'  Brave Spaces and trans advocate Devin-Norelle   about how this false assumption impacts those who may not believe gender plays a significant role in their life, and how radical self-reflection can help dismantle this s...

In many ways, the existence of police and prisons may feel natural to many people. However, Schuyler sits down with Professor and Scholar Jaden Janak to discuss how the Prison Industrial Complex we know today is actually a recent invention, and how this system serves those in power. Together they gather insight before Schuyler answers today's main question: How do prisons shape society and gen...

Navigating the journey of caring for and supporting a transgender child can be overwhelming, especially for parents unfamiliar with the transgender experience. In this episode, Schuyler invites Nai and Leo, the first parent and child who reached out to him after his 60 Minutes feature aired. They delve into the discussion on how Nai affirmed Leo's identity, coped with less supportive relatives...

Today, there are over 500 anti-trans bills that have either been passed or introduced throughout the United States. Though transphobia is not new, it is natural to wonder: why now? To address this question, Schuyler speaks with ACLU lawyer and activist Chase Strangio. He discusses why so many states are pushing for these laws, what their real intent is, and what we can do about them. 

It can be tricky for all of us to maintain a healthy relationship with our parents. But for trans people, this relationship can be even more complicated. To help navigate this complicated connection, Schuyler sits down with author and activist Raquel Willis. She discusses how the dynamic between her and her religious parents morphed over time. Raquel also discusses her new book,  The Risk it Takes...

Schuyler sits down with friend, nonbinary advocate, educator, and influencer, Addison Rose Vincent. In this conversation Schuyler and Addison discuss surviving as a trans person in this world, how many feel that gender nonconformity or trans-expression is a joke and the ongoing narrative of how people are supposed to respond to gender nonconformity and transness. ✶ If you have a question for Schuy...

Schuyler sits down with American swimmer, Erica Sullivan.  Sullivan, who won a silver medalist in the 1500-meter freestyle at the 2020 Summer Olympics, opens up about being gay, the loss of her father and how she was able to bring her authentic self to the sport she loves. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram  @pinkmantaray

Schuyler sits down with Angel Joy Flores, the deadlift Queen, for an in depth conversation about trans athletes and whether or not trans athletes must choose between their sport and their identities. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram  @pinkmantaray

Schuyler is joined by musician, actor, model and barber, Ezra Michel.  In this conversation the two discuss what growing up was like and what their feelings are now when they look back on their early life. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram  @pinkmantaray

Schuyler sits down with actor and advocate, Elle Deran.  In this conversation they discuss getting closer to our truth and using discomfort as an invitation to learn about ourselves. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram  @pinkmantaray

Schuyler sits down with author, poet and essayist, KB Brookins.  In this conversation Brookins reflects on the choices that were made for us before we came into this world, how a forced resilience was created from that and how trying to normalize things that are not normal is a problem. You can check out KB Brookins books and website here . ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice m...

Schuyler is joined by 2018 Olympic silver medalist, bobsledder Lauren Gibbs.  In this conversation Gibbs talks about the scrutiny women's sports receives, how everyone should have their "Olympic" moment, and much more. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram  @pinkmantaray

Schuyler sits down with former Harvard swimming teammate, Jack Manchester.  In this conversation the two touch on Schuyler's introduction to the team. how he was received by teammates as a freshman swimmer and what it takes to be an ally. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram  @pinkmantaray

Schuyler is joined by author, historian, and activist, Blair Imani.   In this episode the two discuss a variety of topics including what "tone tags" are and how can we get people to take action instead of just being an ally. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray

Schuyler sits down with his swimming coaches from Harvard, Steph Morawski and Kevin Tyrrell. In this discussion you will hear how Schuyler was recruited to the swim team, how he was embraced by his coaches and teammates and we answer the question, what can coaches do to support trans athletes. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray

Schuyler is joined by retired Austrian swimmer, who won two silver medals at the 2004 Summer Olympics in Athens, Dr. Markus Rogan.  Dr. Rogan, who is now a psychologist working with athletes, gives an in depth discussion about how we can help people who hurt themselves and others, what he thought be a man was all about and 4 tasks that men have to accomplish. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler,...

✶ To purchase Alicia's book "Inverse Cowgirl: A Memoir" click ⁠here⁠ : https://www.amazon.com/Inverse-Cowgirl-Alicia-Roth-Weigel/dp/0063295288 Schuyler is joined by activist, author and the Human Rights Commissioner for the City of Austin, Alicia Roth Weigel.  In this deep discussion, Roth Weigel, explains why people aren't familiar with the word intersex, how 2% of the world’s p...

Dating is something Schuyler is asked about frequently. For trans people, it can be tricky -- and dangerous -- to be open about one's identity. It can also be hard for well-meaning cisgender people to know what to do if their date happens to be transgender. To dive into the dating discussion, Schuyler speaks with singer, songwriter, dancer, actress and "artivist" Mila Jam on to the p...

We all identify ourselves as part of a community, but what exactly does it mean to "find your community"? And how can being part of a community help individuals uncover more about themselves? To dive into the purpose and importance of community, Schuyler speaks with actor Rafael De La Fuente ( Dynasty ). In their discussion, Rafael, reveals how finding a community online enabled him to a...

To kick off Pride month, Schuyler highlights an emotion that is often felt but rarely acknowledged: grief. It means more than just feeling bad after someone passes away. But why is it so important to experience it fully, particularly for queer and minority groups? And how does one even begin the grieving process? To answer these questions and more, Schuyler is joined by the renowned advocate and m...

To kick off Pride month, Schuyler highlights an emotion that is often felt but rarely acknowledged: grief. It means more than just feeling bad after someone passes away. But why is it so important to experience it fully, particularly for queer and minority groups? And how does one even begin the grieving process? To answer these questions and more, Schuyler is joined by the renowned advocate and m...

✶ If you or a loved one is struggling with an eating disorder, visit https://www.pinkmantaray.com/resources/ed for resources and research. A big part of Schuyler's journey was grappling with his eating disorder. And he is not alone; LGBTQ+ youth are affected by eating disorders more than any other demographic. But why do people develop eating disorders, and what can be done about them? To gain...