Dateless in Delray

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with the fabulous April Kirkwood, a standout from The Golden Bachelor, to dish on love, life, and reality TV. From her fascinating years-long relationship with the legendary Frankie Valli, to her career as a holistic therapist, to her experiences navigating dating after loss, April shares heartfelt stories and behind-the-scenes s...

In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Nicole Chaness, the dynamic host of the 50s AF Podcast and creator of the wildly popular Bedroom Confessionals (https://50safpodcast.com/bedroom-confessionals). . Nicole shares her journey from heartbreak and loss to rediscovering herself and embracing life with humor, honesty, and resilience. As she prepares to rela...

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Michelle Hays, Certified Marriage Coach and host of the Monarch for Love Podcast. With decades of experience helping couples break free from loneliness and resentment, Michelle shares practical advice for building long-lasting relationships. From tips for successful dating to setting personal boundaries, Michelle’s insig...

Are you ready to get out of your comfort zone and into the world of sex, intimacy, and non-traditional relationships? On this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Karen Bigman,, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, and host of her own podcast, Taboo to Truth.. Karen shares her insights on everything from when to get intimate in...

In “Let it Go: Attachment Styles, Trauma, and Psychological Obstacles to Finding Love,” host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Dr. Jeffrey Segal, a licensed psychologist with over 25 years of experience in individual, couples, and family therapy. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the groundbreaking work of Sue Johnson’s Hold Me Tight (HMT) program, Dr. Segal shares how understanding attach...

Grab a glass of wine and eavesdrop on girl talk, with Double Trouble: Two Susans, One Wild and Crazy Dating World. Host Susan Heller Shoer teams up with her friend and fellow real estate agent Susan, to dish on navigating the dating scene after divorce, tackling money dynamics, health challenges, South Florida stereotypes, and more! Clearly, at least one of the Susans has her act together!  T...

Tired of swiping endlessly on dating apps? In Match Point: Playing to Win with  Professional Matchmaking, legendary matchmaker Julie Ferman (julieferman.com) joins host Susan Heller Shoer to uncover how matchmaking can transform your search for love. Julie, host of the Cupid’s Coach Podcast and the mastermind behind over 1,400 successful couples, shares her secrets to creating lasting connect...

In Up Your Game, Man: The Guy’s Playbook for Attracting High Quality Dates, we’re joined by Tom Lemere , creator of the innovative Tom Lemere Project (@the_tomlemereproject) designed to help men attract high-quality women and build lasting relationships. Tom, a self-proclaimed former “player,” will soon be appearing on a local South Florida TV news segment about dating. Tom and Dateless in Delray...

In Extending the Honeymoon Period: Making Happily Ever After a Reality, we explore how to keep that newly dating/still have butterflies magic alive! Gottman-certified therapist Alex Antonucci ( waxwingwellness.com ) shares the actionable and insightful Gottman Method, known for turning relationship science into practical advice (think relationship to do list!)... Studies from the Gottman Institute...

In this episode we explore the art of Conscious Coupling: Dating with Clarity and Confidence. Certified CoActive and Professional Coach Darla Beam ( darlabeam.com ; IG @darlabeamcoaching), guides us through her approach to dating with intentionality and mindfulness—what it means to know yourself fully and align your dating life with purpose. Darla’s coaching client, Michelle, a twice-divorced woma...

What really makes someone irresistible? In this episode, we study up on The Science of Sexy, with a closer look at fascinating research on how brain chemistry shapes attraction. Join us as we explore the powerful effects of dopamine, serotonin, estrogen, and testosterone and how they influence who we’re drawn to—and why. Our expert guest lineup features Dr. Marcy Dater Weiss, Psychotherapist and B...

Online dating—exciting or exhausting? In this episode, Susan Heller Shoer dives headfirst into the world of dating apps and profiles. We’re talking deceptive photos, scammers, swindlers, and those profiles with pictures from decades ago. Susan, alongside guest experts and real-life daters, unpacks the “fun” of ghosting, fake profiles, and figuring out who’s really behind that perfect profile pic....

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer tackles one of the most critical parts of modern dating—spotting red flags and knowing when to move forward with green lights. Joined by everyday daters and experts, Susan breaks down deal breakers, non-negotiables, and those all-important must-haves that guide us on our dating journeys. Are you missing the signs? Or are you holding ou...

In the debut episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer—a writer, real estate agent, and somewhat reluctant expert on dating in Delray Beach, the heart of single life after 50—dives deep into the realities of chemistry, communication, and finding love in the modern world. Susan is joined by special guests Brian Howie, host of the wildly successful podcast The Great Love Debate, and Lau...